The real trick to this is "affair" - which means secret sexual encounters, which I don't care who it's with, luckily I haven't faced it, but I imagine I'd have a tough time forgiving that.

An affair is totally different than my wife kissing another girl at a bar to turn me on. Of course, that only happened once many years ago. And of course, IT WAS AWESOME.

LiquidGold said:

g'day Merc!

LiquidGold said:

I happen to love all that sci-fi stuff

yes, so tiffany (kida) even Bee is not allowed.

NMuzakNSoul said:

But, but...whyyyyy?!

The issue is not the gender but the cheating. I would hope we could work through it, i would hope it never got to that stage but the issue would never be gender, just that someone broke my trust.

KidaDynamite said:

NO CHEATING, period. *spank*

NMuzakNSoul said:

chillichocaholic said:

Stupid stuff like Starship, Trekkie, Universe, etc. My aunt got a kick out of calling us names like that. She always laughed when she did it

ZombieKitten said:

Trust.....has no exceptions.

Graycap23 said:

that's it, it's about trust & cheating.

I might be turned on to see my girlfriend kiss another girl with my consent. But if she cheats, she cheats, and it would be a betrayal, man or woman.

NDRU said:

ZombieKitten said:

I love that stuff too.. Venus is a nice name...

No. I'd buy a camcorder and make a few renovations like a room with lime jello they could wrestle in. Buy a heart shaped bed.

They could have the affair as long as it's in the crib and filmed at all times.

And well, if it turns out like that Lou Diamond Phillips thing where they run off then I'd grieve with the profits made from my site www.mywifeishavingalesbianaffair.com.

Giggity giggity giggity. Alllll riiiight!

carlcranshaw said:

TonyVanDam said:

If she was my wife, yes

If she was my girlfriend, no
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Why wouldn't a man have a problem with this? It's still cheating. Unless some men just don't give a fuck.

missfee said:

Come on Missfee, you know why, LOL!!

TonyVanDam said:

They would until they see that herpes bump in the other chick's asscrack. Eww.

It's such a fine, weird line. I had a girlfriend years ago who would turn me on by telling me what she would do to all the girls she was attracted to - and it would drive me nuts. But if she secretly went and did these things, I would have dumped her right there.

But I suppose the issue is "secretly went and did these things."

paintedlady said:

Herpes? Or hemaroid?

chillichocaholic said:

Herpes, fleas, ticks, sores with oozing puss would have a dude like eww, gotta leave this skank alone!

BUT.... I think a hemorrhoid would only encourage a dude to watch, that or a prolaspsed vajayjay. Hubby would just stare... amazed in horror.

paintedlady said:

Okay, u have just managed to totally gross me out now

paintedlady said:

.. yeah, the man will definitely say it's over then

Abdul said:

I know, I know, but I mean aren't there still some men out there that believe in wanting only one woman, and for that woman to be only with him?

missfee said:

unfortunately, no .. there are some guys who believe that, but it is a RARE few ... rare

bboy87 said:

this is exactly what I was thinking. real talk.

chillichocaholic said:

See, no matter how hot a woman is, only a foolish man will stay with a cheater. Disease doesn't discriminate between genders.

Shit, I don't know! I don't see myself having a relationship until I'm about 40. That's how it's looking. Thanks, ladies! THANKS A LOT!!!