Dude call the girl. CAll her set up a date and then talk. Texting is stupid. Get to know eachother with a couple drinks in yo system, face to face.

If she's into you she won't give a fuck whether its a text or a call...just as long as you contact her. Either one is fine....and do it whenever you feel like doing it...don't play games.

JustErin said:

^^^ What she said...

JustErin said:

All my female friends hate it

I met this guy half a year back and after I gave him my phone number, he called me as soon as I walked out of the bar, very calculated and said; "Is this too early?"

Fuck the rules if you really like someone, mate.

HamsterHuey said:

Excellent advice. If you like her, call her. Now.

I never understood the whole waiting game thing...if you like someone, let them know.

shanti0608 said:

I like you...lets

Texting is too informal. You dont know this girl well so you should call her and speak to her.

MuthaFunka said:

Well if I gave a guy my number and he called the next day I'd think it was too soon and it would be a turn off. In the past I have given out my number before with explicit instruction to NOT call the next day and they did. Guess what? No date. (If you can't even listen to me when I ask you something simple, what are you gonna do when I ask you something serious?) It's not rules, it's what a person is comfortable with. Calling the very day or next day seems desperate to me, and that's a turn off.

DevotedPuppy said:

If I am really interested in somebody I want to talk to that person again as soon as possible. It's much more a turn off if he plays games and doesn't call for days.

DevotedPuppy said:

Demanding, eh? Sheesh! See, you're setting too many rules right off the bat. Most dudes would become disinterested and move on to the next chick with less "rules" (and that's what they are - rules).

Serious said:

Looks like you, me and MF agree on something.

MuthaFunka said:

DevotedPuppy said:

I guess that means MF wouldn't get a date with you.....we already knew that though didn't we?

Serious said:

yeah, i kinda agree with that too. i have zero patience for the whole 'playing it cool' thing, it's such a farce sometimes.

shanti0608 said:

evenstar3 said:

MuthaFunka said:

listen to Muthafunka....he's telling you right! As a female, if a guy texts me first, I look at that as a sign of weakness and cowardness. don't mean to take it so seriously but that would be my honest first instinct and impression of the guy. If he calls me first, gets a chance to know me and act interested in me and our conversations together, then he can text me all he wants to, but texting SHOULD NOT take the place of him calling me. Lots of guys do that, for some insane reason. Like MuthaFunka said, when you do text...after you call her...then your texts must be about how her day is or that you were thinking about her. After that, she should be yours.

missfee said:

Just call me (Barry White voice).... "Dr. Daddy Love" -

MuthaFunka said:

PREACH!!!

missfee said:

MuthaFunka said:

PREACH PREACH PREACH!!! damn i'm starting to fall in love in with you and you said you were how old again???
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missfee said:

- Let's do this, Feezy!

I'm a little old-fashioned too, but I'd say 'call' first
whenever you feel like it...there really aren't any rules.

Texting, like someone already mentioned, could be for little
love notes throughout the day

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MuthaFunka said:

for real how old are you?

missfee said:

"I may be young but I'm ready"

MuthaFunka said:

Wow....new org couple in the making...hmmmm...



edit...forgot the phone

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obsessed said: