If your partner wanted to?.

What the fuck is a menage Affair?

Whatever it is, I've probably done it, and I'm probably bored with it.

So you got some dick in you and you liked it?

or.... do you secretly want some dick and afraid to tell your lady?

Shouldn't we, ultimately, want our partners to do what they want to do?

Shouldn't we expect that our partners want us to do what we want to do?

Shouldn't we want them to be with us by choice every day, and not just because they promised to pretend like there's nobody else?

Shouldn't we be happy if they are so hot for us that they fuck other people and still want to come home to us?

Shouldn't we be excited if there's an adventure we can share?

Isn't life too short to NOT try a menage Affair (whatever the fuck that is)?

I'm just sayin'.

tackam said:

While I appreciate what you're sayin'... I can say for myself without a doubt a resounding no.
I don't need to try a menage affair to know it's not for me. And there's no way in hell I'd be happy if my partner fucked other people and then came home to me. If he wants to fuck other people then that's what he should do. But then he doesn't get to fuck me anymore. That's just the way I work.

why, autosexuality is so much greater
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MRGee said:

Been there done that, with and without partners.
Interesting with a partner but we just ended up having sex in the club with each other . . . With an audience.

SUPRMAN said:

Is there video footage of said event? If so can you please provide a link?

CarrieMpls said:

You're obviously in the majority on that one.

I just don't really . . . get it. Philosophically.

paintedlady said:

LMAO

As far as I can recall, there was no footage of the encounter, but I'd want a copy if there were. It was hot. I was so turned on I didn't care who was around, just don't touch . . .

probably. the rumor around my job is that a supervisor & his wife swing, and i can't stop imagining it.

SUPRMAN said:

It made you feel whole in some way?

Muse2NOPharaoh said:

Whole? No How would sex make me feel whole?

Horny? Very!

No.

...and by the way, at first glance of the thread title I was browsing through the forum so fast I thought this was going to be about those clubs where they have swing dancing to jazz music

tackam said:

They mean a menage a trois (three way) that developes into ongoing encounters/or relationship instead of just being a one night stand.

Ottensen said:

Is this common knowledge?

Ok, so, yeah. I guess I have done that. Would I again? Yeah, sure.

tackam said:

Well, if it's any comfort, from what I can tell it's simply not possible for a man to remain faithful ( ), so I'm destined to be partnerless for having too high of expectations.

tackam said:

I've never heard the expression before. I was just going with it.

tackam said:

Menage a trois is a standard term in regards to human sexuality whether it is in practice or theory. I would assert (just in my own opinion) that three way "relationships" or affairs may have only come into "pop" or "common" consciousness in the last 30+ years. See books by Erica Jong or Mave Binchy to understand more about this in a non-self-help- non-medical-semi-fictional-semi-autobiographical context.

CarrieMpls said:

cough*****bullshit*****cough

They just have to think more of the one they love than themselves. Selfishness is a fucker

MRGee said:

Are you asking about a swingers club? and a 3-some?

mdiver said:

Ottensen said:

Yes, those are two different terms. I've never heard them smooshed together. Never mind.

CarrieMpls said:

I don't believe that it's impossible, but I do believe that very, very few very-long-term relationships escape infidelity. And not just because of men. I know women who are repeat offenders, and the only person to ever cheat on me is a woman. So:

tackam said:

I don't care about women as I'm not dating them.
And the odds are overwhelmingly against it, agreed. I don't want to take that bet.

CarrieMpls said:

You are not alone . . .

Never.

No.

tackam said:

I was in a 17 year long relationship and we never cheated on each other.