I've come to a point where i need to make a few minor but important changes to the way I do a few things. Part of that will be for me to seriously look at why I do what I do.

To aid me in this ask me anything you want to know about me. From my childhood to now. Maybe it will stir up somethings I hadn't thought about in a while.

there are a two ground rules.
I reserve the right to not answer any question if I feel it's too personal. Granted I'm pretty much an open book, but there are few things that I don't talk about.

It will probably be a pretty frank conversation. I lead a very adult life. If questions about sexuality, and religion and politics make you uneasy this probably won't be the thread for you.

can u divorce God and still have a loving relationship with God

what was your most satisfying sexual experience?

Do you like chocolate? What is the best food taste in the world?

Why is your orgname ehuffnsd, and what does it mean?

Do you believe in love? If so what is it for you?

Do you like me, Eric?


What is your type of guy? I don't mean to have sex with. But what are you looking for in a mate?


Do balls in pantyhose smell?


What is your favorite number?


What is your makeup regimen?


Do you brush your teeth before or after breakfast?

he's not good at answering all these questions, is he...

What is your fave food ?

Do you like to snuggle ?

Do weddings make you cry ?

Given permission to ask: Eric, have you a history of sexual abuse? If so, would you care to talk about how it has shaped you? And what of it, if any, do you believe you need to slough off as an adult now?

dreamfirstborn said:

of course you can. i'm still friends with the guys i used to date, though my long term ex and i aren't speaking at the moment that's to allow the healing.

i'll use my example of the Catholic Church. I left very bitter and disenchanted with it. over the years i've grown to admire and respect it for what it is and what it means.

dawntreader said:

wow!!! that's like asking me to pick a favorite child. Sex with my current crush is great. he's the right mix of tough and tender.

a guy i had been talking to for a year or so that i met at IML this year was another really satisfying one. I think the key to good sex is some really great chemistry. it's not always there but when it is watch out!

HamsterHuey said:

LOVE IT. i have a bad sense of smell and therefore taste, we can only taste sweet sour bitter and there is a fourth that is escaping me, everything else is smell. normally stronger foods are best for me cause than i can actully taste something.

scififilmnerd said:

Eric HUFF... a shortened form of my last night iN San Diego

Serious said:

Yes. I loved Rick alot and still think of him and miss him dearly. Maybe in the next life we'll meet again. Not certain I've found the love of my life yet. Though it would suck if it was Rick!!! Damn you fate!


now i have to get to work i'll answer the rest when i settle in at the office

have you gotten laid today?

ehuffnsd said:

nice...

Do you ever watch Rick & Steve the Happiest Gay Couple in All the World?

There was an episode where they go to San Fran for Pride and are chastised for being stereotypical gays, and there is one scene with a sister that made me convinced it was actually you.

Of course, I can't see that show without thinking of you now.

Could you ever see yourself living anywhere other than where you are (SD) ?

If the Catholic Church took a more positively affirming position toward LGBT people, do you think you would have remained a member and perhaps entered the priesthood?

Imago said:

1.) in the beginning i thought you were annoying but once i realized that was my issue, i've grown to like you Dan. maybe one day we'll meet in person.

2.)i like all types of guys. i generally pick sexual partners 50% on looks and 50% on the feel. i can't explain it but i know what it is when i see it. there are alot of times when you have sex with someone who would be considered universally attractive that the sex is lousy because they can get it so freely they tend to be focused on their wants and not their partners. i tend to avoid overly pretty guys. my two long term relationships year + were muslce bears

3.) I don't know I wear thigh high fish nets as do most of the other Sisters


4.) 13, I was born Friday March 13th 1981. My mom had four days to pick from March 12, 13, 17, 18 or full term sometime in april. i was 9lbs and 3 weeks early. I was born to close to my brothers emgerancy c-section, and the doctors told her she was healed enough for natural birth, that's why she got to pick the day.

5.) Before, during or after?

Mach said:

1.) Chicken Mole Puebleuno... i don't think i'm spelling the last word right but there are two restaurnts right by my house that have the best.

2.)it's better than sex!

3.)no. i'm not a fan. i don't think people should have to throw some big over the party to prove to the world how much they love each other.

By any chance, do you have MP3's of the edits of Batdance (4:13), Scandalous (4:12), Let's Pretend We're Married (3:40), Love Or Money (3:52), Let's Go Crazy (specially remixed intro) (3:46) or Man O War; Radio Edit (without Guitar Solo) (3:56) and Radio Edit (with Guitar Solo) (3:59)?

And do you know what Call Out Research Hook (0:10) is, which was on the Man O War promo?

Well, do ya?

Lammastide said:

I've noticed just vaired sexual abuse can affect people. A friend of mine was and he is more or less sexualphobic.

Just some backgroud...From 4-6 I was abused by the oldest son of the family that lived next door to mine. He is 10 years older than I, and he was best friend's wtih my oldest brother who is the same age. One of the reasons my brother and I don't talk to him is his knowledge of the events and his lack of doing anything. I think they way it was done and things related to it made me think from an early age as sex as some kind of game and i never delvoped any kind of emotional importance to sex.

i think it of course gave me a very low self esteem and led to my sexual compulsion and my crystal addiction and HIV. it is probably the thing that defines my beheaviour the most. i stil tend to seek out sex in times of extreme stress or emotion or to kill the time. not always the healthiest thing to do but it's what i know.

it's a struggle everyday to keep sane and alive because it's caused me to have a coping mechinism that isn't healthy.

garganta said:

saturday night i had a three way and i got lucky yesterday as well.

JustErin said:

i watched the first season haven't watched the new one, but i'm aware of last weeks episode i can't wait to see it.

ehuffnsd said:

Who is/was Rick ?

thekidsgirl said:

I'd love to live in SF, I feel at home there. However it's just too expensive for me. The thought of moving back to KC has crossed my mind. There are times I miss my family and it would be alot cheaper. But i do love it here and see myself here for the foreseeable future.

Lammastide said:

i don't think so. i have a problem with male authority figures. that's why my doctor is a woman. i didn't realize i had the calling until after i left the church. but i serve the universe now so the calling has been answered.

Do you feel close to me?