Serious said:

nope, you and I

thekidsgirl said:

I prefer men who are not tall . They would suddenly be smaller than I am . But I would look good in short skirts without having to wear either high heels or boots .

Serious said:

And I could wear heels all day and would never again hit my head getting out of the shower/ off the bus/ under a table etc.

thekidsgirl said:

Okay, I never do that . But you will want to switch back after having attended the first concert and having tried to get a look at the artist . Especially when your friends ask you if you are able to see his shoes too and you are lucky when you see his face . And then they bow down and say "wow, really, you are right, these few centimeters make such a difference" .

Remove my laziness. Once I do that, everything else that I'm missing right now will fix itself.

Serious said:

Well when you are at a concert and all the petite girls take free reign to push ahead of you because you are tall you will realize how good you had it

thekidsgirl said:

Martina simply needs pointier elbows to divide the crowd, and a bicycle bell

I would try not to be shy ...but I seriously doubt I would suceed

ZombieKitten said:

I must confess I usually find my way to the front somehow .

Ocean said:

just do the opposite of what you would normally do!
I have to make myself TOUCH people

ZombieKitten said:

I touch when I talk...Dean is always telling me to stop touching people ..well males specifically

Ocean said:

you should have touched me a little bit more

I made myself touch a girl last Tuesday night, it was the right thing to do

ZombieKitten said:

Ocean said:

she had just separated from her husband, and has a 2 and a 4 year old and will be spending Christmas all alone, it was so sad, I HAD to touch her.

ZombieKitten said:

touch with ur eyes

this would be so great for slutty pictures.....

Ocean said:

that would hurt!

ZombieKitten said:

The chair would hurt more

abierman said:

ZombieKitten said:

Happier, and healthier overall.

I would be less of a "pusher"
like pusher in the since that I constantly do things to see how far I can push people until they're finally gone.
and it sucks because I eventually do it to everyone no matter who it is.
I'm getting to that point with my current bestfriend and it sucks but I'm trying to be better about it, but its just a part of me and I'm not sure why...

Why would you want to reinvent yourself?
You are who you are! I'm sure you've changed from the person you were 15-20 years ago.
Be happy with who you've become and who you can still be!

thekidsgirl said:

I can relate

I vacillsate between being very shy and being overly bold...
between being extremely emotional and being emotionless...
I just wish I could be more even-keeled.

Oh, and stop procrastinating, like I'm doing right now.

Amaxx said:

don't be so boring Steve

thekidsgirl said:

i DO. NOT. stand for that shit, oh no

if it's a girl i've met in line who i like & is cool, sure, i'll switch with her, but if it's some random pushy bitch who thinks she deserves to be closer i'll just shove her back. they can get fucked for all i care.

i think i really have effectively reinvented myself without entirely meaning to the last few months. no one i hang out with now has any idea that i'm shy/introverted and they laugh when i tell them i typically am.

ZombieKitten said:

Are you two me?!?!
wtf..

I would procrastinate less, mellow out more, and have more courage and be more outgoing and and....

*catches breath*

I did that already. I was far less driven and committed in life than I am now. It took me awhile, but I've finally gotten my shit together and I love who I am and the life I live. I wouldn't change anything.