Don't you hate it when you are finally at a happy point in your life and then someone close to you has to say something to try and fuck your head all up? It's like, "I'm miserable, so you are going to be miserable too". I have no respect for those type people at all. They make me sick. They can't stand to see somebody else happy and doing it up in their life and because they aren't doing what they should be doing in their life, then they want to try and bring you down emotionally. Not happening.
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As long as we know it's about them and not you!

「 Sweet Jezebel ϟ Turboweekend 」.2009
「 Sweet Jezebel ϟ Turboweekend 」.2009

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「 Live In My Head ϟ Zoot Woman 」.2009
「 Live In My Head ϟ Zoot Woman 」.2009

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Mara said:

Yeah thats a powerful statement.

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missfee said:

It's all about stress relief, missfee. People are going to want to kill your buzz or be envious because, like you said, they wanna make you feel how they feel, you know?

BTW, I enjoy reading your posts. I identify with a lot of what you have to say regarding life. Especially past relationships and just issues of drama.

There's a drive about you that I find admirable and it's nice to read.

I was having a good day, then this thread fucked it all up.

Thanks alot.

Mars23 said:

Mara said:

aww thanks.

missfee said:

Actually this has just happened to me with my sister and I'm just getting over being furious with her. Bitch.

Mars23 said:

You should not give that amount of power to outside influences hun

missfee said:

.. these types do exist.. I stay far from them..

Get out of that relationship NOW! Been there and done that for almost a decade. The energy around you literally changes. It goes from positive to negative.

You can't take the good without the bad ,,,,mofos will ALWAYS be serious buzzkills, esp family

I'm assuming you're talking about family

U must learn 2 simply block them out.

As fucked up as it may sound, this is why I don't really spend a whole lot of time talking to my family...no matter how well things go for me in the military, the fact that they've never forgiven me for "missing out" on Hurricane Katrina invariably rears its head in almost every conversation....

...and no matter how well my kids have done growing up and dealing with the fact that I'm always deployed (becoming very mature and independent), their accomplishments get blown off in favor of story after story about my sister's kids....the infamous "yeah, but...." conversations.....

reneGade20 said:

forgive me for a minute, but uhm dude? your avatar what is that? lol

Flowers2 said:

THAT....would be this....


...it's an image on one of my t-shirts....

reneGade20 said:

oh ok lol I couldn't figure it out lol

Yup. From so called friends and exes.but i ignore it. Like someone said already its really about their own unhappiness.I wouldn't worry about it.

missfee said:

Thank God you recognize it because then you can reject it Most people can't even see the shit happening.

Flowers2 said:

It does kinda look like a bearded clown, huh?

reneGade20 said:

lol

missfee said:

Why worry about what they think? Enjoy your happy point in life

Harlepolis said:

Naw it was from my ex-bf who so-called "wanted to see how I was doing" but then when I guess it seemed as though i've been much happier without him, thats when he brought up some old shit that apparently I knew nothing about when we was together and it fucked up the rest of my weekend. He basically admitted that he had lied to me about something for almost a year (no it wasn't cheating but it was big). That asshole. It's like out of the blue.."oh yeah remember when I use to do blah blah blah, well I use to tell you it was because of that but it was really because of this....". I texted him yesterday and told him that it would probably be best that we don't talk at all for a while because I was still hurt and angry with him regarding our relationship and most of all from the fucked up thing he did this weekend. And he said that he would just "leave me alone"...like it was my fucking fault! Then even after I did that, I still feel angry and sad all at the same time. Don't know if I should feel sorry for him or just look at him like a selfish, miserable asshole.

So now after I was in a good peaceful place about being single again, I have to regroup my emotions all over again.

missfee said:

it's a revenge move.. he's pissed you're enjoying life without him

Flowers2 said:

but thats such a bitch move though, and its really fucked up. So your life is miserable and because you haven't done all the things you have wanted to do in your life, and I have, you have to go and try to do something to make me feel just as fucked up as you do because of something you was lying to me about that I had no idea?

missfee said:

there are people like that 'misery loves company' .. jealous of your happiness..

Flowers2 said:

You nailed it on a baldhead