Once that I can remember ...when he was pretty sick | |
- E-mail - orgNote - Report post to moderator |
Efan said: JustErin said: So no one else wants to talk about being rejected?
I'm sure I can think of more times it has happened to me.... In a couple hours, I'll be heading out and I'm sure I'll be rejected before I find somebody drunk enough to say yes... | |
- E-mail - orgNote - Report post to moderator |
JustErin said: Efan said: In a couple hours, I'll be heading out and I'm sure I'll be rejected before I find somebody drunk enough to say yes... I can report back tomorrow. Actually, I have one that I can add now, although I'm really not proud of it. Several years ago, I had this mad crush on this guy who was kind of a friend, or at least in my social circle. He slept with everybody, and I mean everybody, but rejected me. That rejection was not good for the self-esteem. Looking back, I'm really glad that it never happened, though. | |
- E-mail - orgNote - Report post to moderator |
XxAxX said: i fear romantic/intimate rejection. it would crush me if a lover turned me down so instead of asking i usually just wait until they are asleep!
OK, I haven't read this whole thread yet, but this response absolutely cracked me up | |
- E-mail - orgNote - Report post to moderator |
JustErin said: Oh, I certainly have.
U have?!?! | |
- E-mail - orgNote - Report post to moderator |
babooshleeky said: JustErin said: Oh, I certainly have.
U have?!?! Of course!! A few times. | |
- E-mail - orgNote - Report post to moderator |
Imago said: pardonme4livin said: Mmmmk.... So Ken, what if you thought she was really hot? Do your rules have standard deviation? (HYPOTHETICAL RESPONSE TO FOLLOW!!!!!) If it was just a fling...perhaps...but definately not long term.... | |
- E-mail - orgNote - Report post to moderator |
pardonme4livin said: Imago said: So Ken, what if you thought she was really hot? Do your rules have standard deviation? (HYPOTHETICAL RESPONSE TO FOLLOW!!!!!) If it was just a fling...perhaps...but definately not long term.... That does seem kinda strange from someone whos number is around 20 himself | |
- E-mail - orgNote - Report post to moderator |
Ocean said: pardonme4livin said: (HYPOTHETICAL RESPONSE TO FOLLOW!!!!!) If it was just a fling...perhaps...but definately not long term.... That does seem kinda strange from someone whos number is around 20 himself I don't remember revealing a number ass..... And yes it is.... | |
- E-mail - orgNote - Report post to moderator |
I am so sorry I missed the rest of this today.... | |
- E-mail - orgNote - Report post to moderator |
pardonme4livin said: Ocean said: That does seem kinda strange from someone whos number is around 20 himself I don't remember revealing a number ass..... And yes it is.... There was another thread a few months back.....u said around 20 Manwhore! | |
- E-mail - orgNote - Report post to moderator |
Actually I have to say I don't find it attractive in a male when he has had quite a few partners..... | |
- E-mail - orgNote - Report post to moderator |
Ocean said: Actually I have to say I don't find it attractive in a male when he has had quite a few partners.....
See? You're judgemental just like me. | |
- E-mail - orgNote - Report post to moderator |
Ocean said: Actually I have to say I don't find it attractive in a male when he has had quite a few partners.....
I see, you rather have a guy who doesn't have a fuckin' clue??? | |
- E-mail - orgNote - Report post to moderator |
I also smoke..... | |
- E-mail - orgNote - Report post to moderator |
oh, I just now realize that this a totally different thread.....my answer: yes | |
- E-mail - orgNote - Report post to moderator |
hokie said: Ocean said: Actually I have to say I don't find it attractive in a male when he has had quite a few partners.....
See? You're judgemental just like me. or like Dan said ...I find it more attractive if the number is low... I guess for me it can come across like they are a playa...moving from one to the other ....with no one being of real importance.. I know thats a huge conclusion and a unfair one to come to ....but when ur romantically involved u want to feel like u are something special | |
- E-mail - orgNote - Report post to moderator |
abierman said: Ocean said: Actually I have to say I don't find it attractive in a male when he has had quite a few partners.....
I see, you rather have a guy who doesn't have a fuckin' clue??? No in the fantasy world of mine he would just KNOW how to do it all I didn't say no partners...just not a really high number :lol | |
- E-mail - orgNote - Report post to moderator |
Ocean said: hokie said: See? You're judgemental just like me. or like Dan said ...I find it more attractive if the number is low... I guess for me it can come across like they are a playa...moving from one to the other ....with no one being of real importance.. I know thats a huge conclusion and a unfair one to come to ....but when ur romantically involved u want to feel like u are something special or just unlucky in finding the right partner to get romantically involved with..... | |
- E-mail - orgNote - Report post to moderator |
abierman said: Ocean said: or like Dan said ...I find it more attractive if the number is low... I guess for me it can come across like they are a playa...moving from one to the other ....with no one being of real importance.. I know thats a huge conclusion and a unfair one to come to ....but when ur romantically involved u want to feel like u are something special or just unlucky in finding the right partner to get romantically involved with..... True ...I told u it wasn't a fair conclusion to make Ur the exception ...cause I damn well know how bloody sweet, shy and sincere u are | |
- E-mail - orgNote - Report post to moderator |
Ocean said: abierman said: or just unlucky in finding the right partner to get romantically involved with..... True ...I told u it wasn't a fair conclusion to make Ur the exception ...cause I damn well know how bloody sweet, shy and sincere u are to be honest, I'd rather would have been my age and be with one & the same and happy, than constantly looking for one and have the collateral misses..... oh well.... | |
- E-mail - orgNote - Report post to moderator |
oh, and thanks..... | |
- E-mail - orgNote - Report post to moderator |
abierman said: Ocean said: True ...I told u it wasn't a fair conclusion to make Ur the exception ...cause I damn well know how bloody sweet, shy and sincere u are to be honest, I'd rather would have been my age and be with one & the same and happy, than constantly looking for one and have the collateral misses..... oh well.... I know love...thats what makes u different | |
- E-mail - orgNote - Report post to moderator |
Ex-Moderator | abierman said: Ocean said: True ...I told u it wasn't a fair conclusion to make Ur the exception ...cause I damn well know how bloody sweet, shy and sincere u are to be honest, I'd rather would have been my age and be with one & the same and happy, than constantly looking for one and have the collateral misses..... oh well.... Apparently that still means you're a whore. But it's OK for you, you're a guy. |
- E-mail - orgNote - Report post to moderator |
CarrieMpls said: abierman said: to be honest, I'd rather would have been my age and be with one & the same and happy, than constantly looking for one and have the collateral misses..... oh well.... Apparently that still means you're a whore. But it's OK for you, you're a guy. Not exactly. Cause whether it's a guy or a girl, if they have a high number because those were 'failed relationships', ...well..... | |
- E-mail - orgNote - Report post to moderator |
CarrieMpls said: abierman said: to be honest, I'd rather would have been my age and be with one & the same and happy, than constantly looking for one and have the collateral misses..... oh well.... Apparently that still means you're a whore. But it's OK for you, you're a guy. PWND!!!!! Ouch, Carrie.....I'd like to think that I'm a consenting adult, just like i.e. Erin and so many other women or guys..... | |
- E-mail - orgNote - Report post to moderator |
Ex-Moderator | abierman said: CarrieMpls said: Apparently that still means you're a whore. But it's OK for you, you're a guy. PWND!!!!! Ouch, Carrie.....I'd like to think that I'm a consenting adult, just like i.e. Erin and so many other women or guys..... I don't think you're a whore. It was more in reference to something else. Sorry. [Edited 12/13/08 6:13am] |
- E-mail - orgNote - Report post to moderator |
CarrieMpls said: abierman said: PWND!!!!! Ouch, Carrie.....I'd like to think that I'm a consenting adult, just like i.e. Erin and so many other women or guys..... I don't think you're a whore. It was more in reference to something else. Sorry. I found the comment quite a knock-out as it seemed you were coming from nowhere! [Edited by CarrieMpls 12/13/08 6:13am] | |
- E-mail - orgNote - Report post to moderator |
Efan said: JustErin said: I can report back tomorrow. Actually, I have one that I can add now, although I'm really not proud of it. Several years ago, I had this mad crush on this guy who was kind of a friend, or at least in my social circle. He slept with everybody, and I mean everybody, but rejected me. That rejection was not good for the self-esteem. Looking back, I'm really glad that it never happened, though. Oh my god, isn't that the worst? I've already kind of told my story in that other thread, but the only guy that ever rejected me is the one I rejected first and then regretted. And although I don't think he sleeps around alot, the girls he does sleep with are completely unattractive. Definitley NOT good for the self esteem. [Edited 12/12/08 19:53pm] | |
- E-mail - orgNote - Report post to moderator |
CarrieMpls said: abierman said: PWND!!!!! Ouch, Carrie.....I'd like to think that I'm a consenting adult, just like i.e. Erin and so many other women or guys..... I don't think you're a whore. It was more in reference to something else. Sorry. YOu know this really should be snipped as flame bait. [Edited by CarrieMpls 12/13/08 6:14am] | |
- E-mail - orgNote - Report post to moderator |