HamsterHuey said:

Easy now....

pardonme4livin said:

I always thought that was pretty average for a girl...but I've been told it's not....it's actually much lower.

I also always thought that it was twice that for guys. I guess not as well.

Whatevs...I know nothing.

JustErin said:

Say what? No way! I'd be pissed off if I was at the end of that line....

Nope.

pardonme4livin said:

What do you mean?

JustErin said:

A friend and I had already engaged in oral sex, but never got around to intercourse so I told her one day if she ever wanted to finish what we started, I'd be totally down with that and she laughed at me. Maybe she thought I was joking.

violator said:

So your girlfriend never had a "headache"?

sextonseven said:

I knew not to ask.

JustErin said:

If I was going to be with a girl and she told me there was over 20 others before me, I'd probably not be too interested...just not for me....I don't think I have ever been with anyone with over 3 or 4 previous partners...

sextonseven said:

pardonme4livin said:

How many partners have you had?

pardonme4livin said:

What about those of us who are not married and have remained single for most of our adult lives? I've been sexually active since I was 17 and I'm 33 now. That's 16 years. If I only had one boyfriend per year, that's 16 men...

I don't think one boyfriend per year is being promiscuous and I don't think 16 is a horribly high number even in that circumstance.

JustErin said:

It's not much of a story. It was a sex buddy thing, we'd been getting together about once every other week or so. I called him one night and asked if I could come over and he said no. No explination, no nothing. That was pretty much the end of the conversation.
I never talked to him again.
I don't deal well with rejection.

JustErin said:

Sure...why not...

pardonme4livin said:

I'd never want to be with a dude that was concerned with how many other dudes I've been with before him. That's just totally lame to me and really not the kind of person I would have much in common with.

I don't care how many he's had before me, so I'd expect that he wouldn't care how many I've been with. As long as we're both healthy and are not sleeping with others while we are committed it's all good to me.

Yep. At least once. It was kind of one of those things where it was sooort of in jest, but if he had acted interested, I probably would have gotten serious right quick.

JustErin said:

Well stated.

CarrieMpls said:

Neither do I!!!

MoniGram said:

Spill!!

oh hell yes!
12 times in one day when I was doing volunteer work.

I high tailed it out of that nursing home so goddamned fast

Imago said:

You should really give up on your attempts at stand up, dude.

Hell, I've been refused by my own sexual partner before.

JustErin said:

To each his/her own....I'm not judgemental...just discerning....

CarrieMpls said:

Mmmmk....

pardonme4livin said:

For a female I wouldn't either. But it depends on how hot she is.
It's a double standard, but meh--I have to put up with double standards too.

pardonme4livin said:

Why are people so afraid to admit that they are being judgemental??

Fuck, man...I judge people all the time and have no problem with doing it or being judged myself.

pardonme4livin said:

So Ken, what if you thought she was really hot?
Do your rules have standard deviation?

Imago said:

He doesn't like dirty whores.

Imago said:

I'd never sleep with a man with double standards. Gross.

CarrieMpls said:

That's good for you.
There are plenty that will