JustErin said:

Does this mean that everyone thinks I have a shit personality??






Oh well, doesn't matter....it's not great personalities that get you laid.

Does this mean that everyone thinks I have a shit personality??






Oh well, doesn't matter....it's not great personalities that get you laid.

JustErin said:

That's usually what is used to refer to the homely and "robust"....

It usually only takes a willing pussy to get laid - many men just wait in line until that willing one nods their way

personality - looks

often times neither matter

JustErin said:

Many men who wanted to lay me told me what a great personality I have, but probably that just shows that I am not hot . Even though they also told me I was hot .

It usually only takes a willing pussy to get laid - many men just wait in line until that willing one nods their way

personality - looks

often times neither matter

Mach said:

Yes, this is totally true.

Some men don't care at all. Yucky.

thekidsgirl said:

I heard the bolded one for a long time. I was in my late 20s I think and people still thought I was underage .

The rest is probably because you are really sweet and precious . But you are hot as well, I guess you just don't come across as an easy lay and thus guys are shy.

sextonseven said:

I agree to a certain point.

But I do think that sometimes some women definitely give off the "I'd never!!" vibe - whether it be purposely or not. So why would a guy bother trying to get some from someone that gives off that vibe? They'd just move on to an easier target.

Serious said:

Thanks! I wish I could stop coming across that way!
People used to even apologize when they cursed around me...I'd be thinking, "what the hell is wrong with you"?

I like getting laid.
Dunno why. Just do.

thekidsgirl said:

There's nothing wrong with men being respectful around you. I have always had the opposite problem. They consider me one of the guys and say anything around me. Luckily I do not blush easily.

TheMightyCelestial said:

slut.

shanti0608 said:

Well I'd switch with you, cause I'm not half as uptight and goody-goodish as I seem to come across

I think it is better than having the opposite problem. I had a few girlfriends that would sleep with any guy that was interested in them. They were always loud and obnoxious. My cousin was that way and when we were in High School, she used to go around telling all of the guys that I was a prude because I was not sleeping around like her. Most guys saw right through it and would sleep with her then hang out with me because she was boring. Yes, they would actually say that to me. She was too easy.....

I learned that I have a very sexy, sensual feisty side but not everyone I meet needs to know that. I always saved that for the special ones. Most ppl know that you have to watch out for the quiet ones. As painfully shy as I am, I always managed to go after what I really wanted, if I wanted it bad enough. Guys are some times clueless and need some direction. It is about balance, I guess.
I always had a lot of guy friends that would talk to me openly about girls so I got the inside scoop on what to do and what not to do.
I am a sit back, listen, watch and learn kind of girl.

Do you think your life would be different now if you had slept with more guys back then?

All my life people have assumed that about me

something in my demeanor, makes them think I would NEVAH.

As a result, thanks to too few offers, I gratefully settled for those four (yes, only 4) men who either too drunk to notice or tried it out on everyone without discrimination

What did I do wrong in the sluttiness stakes?

Serious said:

Thanks! I wish I could stop coming across that way!
People used to even apologize when they cursed around me...I'd be thinking, "what the hell is wrong with you"?

Ok having now read the whole thread i need to say:

#1 Val i love you and the way you are, plus it's FUCKING hot thinking about you with a girl
#4 I am still thinking about #1

mdiver said:

Slut !

JustErin said:

Goes both ways though

Neither do some women

Mach said:

You didn't need this thread to tell you that

thekidsgirl said:

I'm definitely not cursing around you this weekend.

mdiver said:

Takes one to know one