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PrintableJustErin said: sextonseven said: It must be the countries you were in. In the states, women can pick up a guy just by accidentally looking at him. France too apparently. It happened in that Kristin Scott Thomas movie I Loved You So Long. Two days out of jail and she bangs some lothario with whom she made eye contact in a bar while he was chatting up the bartender. It's easy. I agree to a certain point. But I do think that sometimes some women definitely give off the "I'd never!!" vibe - whether it be purposely or not. So why would a guy bother trying to get some from someone that gives off that vibe? They'd just move on to an easier target. I totally agree. Some women have that vibe that men think they might have a chance (me included), others don't. And the try to contact those who they think they might get. With a very special thank you to Tina: Is hammer already absolute, how much some people verändern...ICH hope is never so I will be! And if, then I hope that I would then have wen in my environment who joins me in the A.... | |
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JustErin said: Ok.
I only tease women I really, really like, mmmm'kay? Don't make me post Sir Mixalot video's. I love you BECUZ of what you are. Not becuz of yer boobs. May they be hawt and all; I can't help being the man not wanting to ejaculate all over them. You see; wailing women drain me, emotionally. I need a hug now.  |
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Now back to making Charlotte more slutty! |
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sextonseven said: JustErin said: I agree to a certain point. But I do think that sometimes some women definitely give off the "I'd never!!" vibe - whether it be purposely or not. So why would a guy bother trying to get some from someone that gives off that vibe? They'd just move on to an easier target. I'll admit the movie scenario I described was with a guy that "tried it out on everyone without discrimination." So maybe it isn't that easy. The way a woman dresses has a lot to do with it. Not that you have to look like a slut, but if you dress super conservatively then that sends out a message. To me anyway. I don't know, I think it's not even that much about the way you dress. From my experiences I have had offers from random men on days when I wore no make-up at all and jeans and a jacket. I think I still have that vibe that I may be an easy target and I have no idea why. With a very special thank you to Tina: Is hammer already absolute, how much some people verändern...ICH hope is never so I will be! And if, then I hope that I would then have wen in my environment who joins me in the A.... | |
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i really don't know what 'kind of girl' i come off as being.  | |
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Serious said: sextonseven said: I'll admit the movie scenario I described was with a guy that "tried it out on everyone without discrimination." So maybe it isn't that easy. The way a woman dresses has a lot to do with it. Not that you have to look like a slut, but if you dress super conservatively then that sends out a message. To me anyway. I don't know, I think it's not even that much about the way you dress. From my experiences I have had offers from random men on days when I wore no make-up at all and jeans and a jacket. I think I still have that vibe that I may be an easy target and I have no idea why. I have had men hit on me when I thought I was looking AWFUL, in jeans and virtually shapeless sweaters and unwashed hair. My friend Katy was hit on while in her pajamas and tweety slippers while running to the store one hungover morning.  |
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evenstar3 said: i really don't know what 'kind of girl' i come off as being.
Come to think of it, neither do I... |
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CarrieMpls said: I have had men hit on me when I thought I was looking AWFUL
Stop thinking. |
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CarrieMpls said: Serious said: I don't know, I think it's not even that much about the way you dress. From my experiences I have had offers from random men on days when I wore no make-up at all and jeans and a jacket. I think I still have that vibe that I may be an easy target and I have no idea why. I have had men hit on me when I thought I was looking AWFUL, in jeans and virtually shapeless sweaters and unwashed hair. My friend Katy was hit on while in her pajamas and tweety slippers while running to the store one hungover morning. Yes exactly. I always think are they blind or something? With a very special thank you to Tina: Is hammer already absolute, how much some people verändern...ICH hope is never so I will be! And if, then I hope that I would then have wen in my environment who joins me in the A.... | |
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CarrieMpls said: Serious said: I don't know, I think it's not even that much about the way you dress. From my experiences I have had offers from random men on days when I wore no make-up at all and jeans and a jacket. I think I still have that vibe that I may be an easy target and I have no idea why. I have had men hit on me when I thought I was looking AWFUL, in jeans and virtually shapeless sweaters and unwashed hair. My friend Katy was hit on while in her pajamas and tweety slippers while running to the store one hungover morning. Either you didn't really look awful or there must be a lot of "tried it out on everyone without discrimination" guys in your area. | |
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HamsterHuey said: I only tease women I really, really like, mmmm'kay? Don't make me post Sir Mixalot video's. I love you BECUZ of what you are. Not becuz of yer boobs. May they be hawt and all; I can't help being the man not wanting to ejaculate all over them. You see; wailing women drain me, emotionally. I need a hug now.  | |
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sextonseven said: CarrieMpls said: I have had men hit on me when I thought I was looking AWFUL, in jeans and virtually shapeless sweaters and unwashed hair. My friend Katy was hit on while in her pajamas and tweety slippers while running to the store one hungover morning. Either you didn't really look awful or there must be a lot of "tried it out on everyone without discrimination" guys in your area. I think that's the key. I think there are few discriminating single men left in the world.  |
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sextonseven said: JustErin said: I agree to a certain point. But I do think that sometimes some women definitely give off the "I'd never!!" vibe - whether it be purposely or not. So why would a guy bother trying to get some from someone that gives off that vibe? They'd just move on to an easier target. I'll admit the movie scenario I described was with a guy that "tried it out on everyone without discrimination." So maybe it isn't that easy. The way a woman dresses has a lot to do with it. Not that you have to look like a slut, but if you dress super conservatively then that sends out a message. To me anyway. I guess and I can see where you're coming from on that. But I think that general attitudes and vibes scream way louder than the way you dress. For example, I can remember being out once, dressed in body conscious clothing just people watching with some friends. Some dude just simply walked up to me and started to tell me off, telling me that I was a bitch that thought I was better than everyone, and that I thought that no dude was good enough for me. 
My outfit probably said, “Approach me, I like sex” but I guess my vibe (to this weirdo anyway) was saying, “You have no chance with me, I do not wish to have sex with anyone here”. | |
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JustErin said: My outfit probably said, “Approach me, I like sex” but I guess my vibe (to this weirdo anyway) was saying, “You have no chance with me”.
Oooh, I got an eyebrow that scares people away; I just raise it and stare. Works like a charm. |
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JustErin said: sextonseven said: I'll admit the movie scenario I described was with a guy that "tried it out on everyone without discrimination." So maybe it isn't that easy. The way a woman dresses has a lot to do with it. Not that you have to look like a slut, but if you dress super conservatively then that sends out a message. To me anyway. I guess and I can see where you're coming from on that. But I think that general attitudes and vibes scream way louder than the way you dress. For example, I can remember being out once, dressed in body conscious clothing just people watching with some friends. Some dude just simply walked up to me and started to tell me off, telling me that I was a bitch that thought I was better than everyone, and that I thought that no dude was good enough for me.
My outfit probably said, “Approach me, I like sex” but I guess my vibe (to this weirdo anyway) was saying, “You have no chance with me, I do not wish to have sex with anyone here”. Was that your hair talking? Because that's the vibe I get from your fabulous hair. | |
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When I was on the market, I always looked for the woman beneath the make-up...the one that, all things being equal, wouldn't scare the living shit out of me if I woke up next to her...I know how that sounds, but what I'm saying is that if I ran into someone in "PJ's and Tweety slippers" as Carrie mentioned earlier, I would be much more confident trying to get with her because I'd assume that she's not pretentious and that she won't have a cow if she's not perfectly made up everywhere she went.... He was like a cock who thought the sun had risen to hear him crow.
(George Eliot) the video for the above... 
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ZombieKitten said: All my life people have assumed that about me
something in my demeanor, makes them think I would NEVAH. As a result, thanks to too few offers, I gratefully settled for those four (yes, only 4) men who either too drunk to notice or tried it out on everyone without discrimination 
What did I do wrong in the sluttiness stakes?  I would have never thought.  | |
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HamsterHuey said: JustErin said: My outfit probably said, “Approach me, I like sex” but I guess my vibe (to this weirdo anyway) was saying, “You have no chance with me”.
Oooh, I got an eyebrow that scares people away; I just raise it and stare. Works like a charm.
I didn't really mean to come off that way....ok, I did. but anyway... | |
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sextonseven said: JustErin said: I guess and I can see where you're coming from on that. But I think that general attitudes and vibes scream way louder than the way you dress. For example, I can remember being out once, dressed in body conscious clothing just people watching with some friends. Some dude just simply walked up to me and started to tell me off, telling me that I was a bitch that thought I was better than everyone, and that I thought that no dude was good enough for me.
My outfit probably said, “Approach me, I like sex” but I guess my vibe (to this weirdo anyway) was saying, “You have no chance with me, I do not wish to have sex with anyone here”. Was that your hair talking? Because that's the vibe I get from your fabulous hair. I'm more than just great hair!! | |
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JustErin said: sextonseven said: Was that your hair talking? Because that's the vibe I get from your fabulous hair. I'm more than just great hair!! That's true. Great hair and a great rack! | |
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sextonseven said: JustErin said: I'm more than just great hair!! That's true. Great hair and a great rack! And a great personality. | |
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JustErin said: sextonseven said: That's true. Great hair and a great rack! And a great personality. | |
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evenstar3 said: i really don't know what 'kind of girl' i come off as being.
Yeah, I'm not really sure how I come off either.  | |
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HamsterHuey said: JustErin said: Ok.
I only tease women I really, really like, mmmm'kay? Don't make me post Sir Mixalot video's. I love you BECUZ of what you are. Not becuz of yer boobs. May they be hawt and all; I can't help being the man not wanting to ejaculate all over them. You see; wailing women drain me, emotionally. I need a hug now. You told me not to hug you. I will never forget it...until we met, then I am gonna hug you.  | |
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ZombieKitten said: All my life people have assumed that about me
something in my demeanor, makes them think I would NEVAH. As a result, thanks to too few offers, I gratefully settled for those four (yes, only 4) men who either too drunk to notice or tried it out on everyone without discrimination
What did I do wrong in the sluttiness stakes? You 'settled' for 4??? Whatchu complainin' about?
But if you still don't think you quite have it down, you might well learn from the mistress of slut
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shanti0608 said: HamsterHuey said: I need a hug now.
You told me not to hug you. I will never forget it...until we met, then I am gonna hug you. LoL Deal! |
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HamsterHuey said: shanti0608 said: You told me not to hug you. I will never forget it...until we met, then I am gonna hug you. LoL Deal!  | |
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sextonseven said: JustErin said: And a great personality. | |
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RenHoek said: My commentary after following this thread around for a bit...
Shanti & Mach, you've totally got the right outlook on how feminine sexuality should be represented. For that you have my total and utter respect! 
ZK you're a beauty of a woman, you have a good heart and a sharp wit. I'm not too sure if your regrets are well founded. If all else fails... call Ocean.
Hamster's got a point too, explore your innner hussy by posting more pics... 
JustErin, I've said it once, I'll say it thousand times you are F.I.N.E!!! I just can't fathom why you see yourself the way you do... Bottom Line: I agree with JE, "Do whatever makes you happy." Thanks! I am sure I have my hangup's about myself and probably always will when I live in a world that loves big breasted women. It is just a fact of life and as I have gotten older I have learned to deal with what god or whoever gave me. It's all good! | |
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shanti0608 said: HamsterHuey said: I only tease women I really, really like, mmmm'kay? Don't make me post Sir Mixalot video's. I love you BECUZ of what you are. Not becuz of yer boobs. May they be hawt and all; I can't help being the man not wanting to ejaculate all over them. You see; wailing women drain me, emotionally. I need a hug now. You told me not to hug you. I will never forget it...until we met, then I am gonna hug you. Omg....I missed this response! Awwww.... | |
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