Some bad girls are all talk...

JustErin said:

Serious said:

This is odd to hear a woman act like this. Usually women like the idea of being pure or being selective. Men, hell, we would love to be sluts..lol

You are ultra sexy, come to America and I will not reject you..lol kiss

thekidsgirl said:

I heard the bolded one for a long time. I was in my late 20s I think and people still thought I was underage .

The rest is probably because you are really sweet and precious . But you are hot as well, I guess you just don't come across as an easy lay and thus guys are shy.

JustErin said:

Whatever

Serious said:

What are you going on about?

JustErin said:

That's what I was thinking about you

shanti0608 said:

Well of course some are

Look at all the pressure society puts on young girls (and women) to be seen as highly sexual

How can we possibly have value if we arnt super sexual bad girls

Mach said:

And yet it's the other way too. No one wants damaged goods. Women are supposed to be a super hot crazy kinky sex freaks who are actually mostly pure and untouched.



Damned is you do, damned if you don't.

Serious said:

Oh!

I was talking about Herman basically calling me fat by saying I hide my hips - which is true, but still...I don't like hearing it!!

CarrieMpls said:

Whatever. I don't care what men (or women) think about me in that regard.

Just do what makes you happy.

Mach said:

I think it is important to teach girls to love their bodies, and to view sex as a healthy expression, not a way to get attention or get a man.

CarrieMpls said:

It is true


That's why I think it's really important to teach girls inner values NOT based on societys high sexual double standards.

You ( they ) need to be confident in their choices of what is good for them and not base their value on twisted outside influences

fine lines - tough job

shanti0608 said:

Yeah and that is also about self respect too

HELL man - WE women hold all the sexual power We can and should command total respect

CarrieMpls said:

Men are allowed to sleep around and seen as cool, women are judged.

JustErin said:

Oh didn't he say he loves hips. I read that as he love girls who are not skinny but actually have hips . But maybe I am not understanding anything .

Serious said:

Maybe it's just because I'm older, but I do not respect a man that bangs a different girl every night. They are not cool to me in any way.

You poor women have it real bad.

RodeoSchro said:

They are not cool to me either, but society sure has a double standard.

RodeoSchro said:

To me, that kind of behavior is "cool" (for lack of a better word) when you're a teenie-bopper/young single guy....but if you're say....30 years old, and you're still out trolling the clubs looking for action, you're well on your way to becoming "the old man in the club"...

as for women being judged, that is a by-product of those "sensibilities" from what is romantically referred to in the U.S. as "the good ol' days"....I try not to judge anyone because I know that if you opened my closet, you'd get impaled by all of the skeleton bones in there...

Serious said:

He just enjoys picking on me so I take everything he says as an insult.

ZombieKitten said:

It must be the countries you were in. In the states, women can pick up a guy just by accidentally looking at him. France too apparently. It happened in that Kristin Scott Thomas movie I Loved You So Long. Two days out of jail and she bangs some lothario with whom she made eye contact in a bar while he was chatting up the bartender. It's easy.

JustErin said:

Normally you take it as a trooper. That's bent over and enjoying it. Wassup, hunnybumz?

sextonseven said:

I agree to a certain point.

But I do think that sometimes some women definitely give off the "I'd never!!" vibe - whether it be purposely or not. So why would a guy bother trying to get some from someone that gives off that vibe? They'd just move on to an easier target.

HamsterHuey said:

I'm sensitive today.

My commentary after following this thread around for a bit...

Shanti & Mach, you've totally got the right outlook on how feminine sexuality should be represented. For that you have my total and utter respect!

ZK you're a beauty of a woman, you have a good heart and a sharp wit. I'm not too sure if your regrets are well founded. If all else fails... call Ocean.

Hamster's got a point too, explore your innner hussy by posting more pics...

JustErin, I've said it once, I'll say it thousand times you are F.I.N.E!!! I just can't fathom why you see yourself the way you do...

Bottom Line: I agree with JE, "Do whatever makes you happy."

JustErin said:

Awlord, and people wonder why I'm gay.

Women and their vulnerable moments.

I thought we had settled in a nice routine. You post something, anything and I call you slutty and remark on your hair, pouty lips, cleavage or hips. Normally you haha. Don't go all moanie on me.

SNAP!

HamsterHuey said:

Ok.

JustErin said:

I'll admit the movie scenario I described was with a guy that "tried it out on everyone without discrimination." So maybe it isn't that easy.

The way a woman dresses has a lot to do with it. Not that you have to look like a slut, but if you dress super conservatively then that sends out a message. To me anyway.