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[Edited 12/8/08 17:52pm]

depends on the situation... most of the time no, but there have been times it has happened on both sides... me sleeping wtih exes or them sleeping with people i once dated.

I did it once...they were broken up for a few years. I wouldn't do it again.

My friend's exes? NAY! I'm not even remotely attracted to any of them.

And also nay in general. It creates too many problems in the long run, usually ending up in the loss of both your friend & their ex. I suppose there is an exception to every rule but for the most part, bad idea.

I can't even think of any exes

I only ever had one friend with a long trail of exes, and I never met any of them except the one she brought to our wedding who ended up going out with the girl who won the purple tickets on rove I would NEVER have dreamed of going out with him, not after all the anguish he put those 2 through!

NAY!

you mean, like, Facebook friend?

That's some low down shit.

If he's really hot....sure!

Mars23 said:

it depends on the reasons they broke up.

ehuffnsd said:

Not to me.

There's some hurt feelings somewhere in there and that's only going to remind your friend of that.

Ick.

Nay.

JustErin said:

Did it 2 times. But I was no longer buddies with one dude and the other dude wasn't a close homie, so it was all good.

ahh hell no..

i'm generally never attracted to guys my friends are into (i'm super picky ), but i don't think i'd wanna risk the potential drama either way.

how about exes' friends?

errant said:

nah...

exes exes are fair game though

errant said:

Way too easy. Women tend to be pretty janky when it comes to friendships, so a lot of them tend to try and fuck their friends' men. That's where I (ahem) "come" in at.

MuthaFunka said:

scandalous ... just scandalous ... your previous post too lol .. j/k

Flowers2 said:

Hey, my exes had fine-ass friends. It was my duty to get the booty.

MuthaFunka said:

personally for me, I wouldn't mind.. if he's my 'ex' hey, my friends can go for him.. but I wouldn't do that to girlfriends..

Never done it. There's too many women out there to risk the friendships.

Ow lawd, yes. I mean, I have. It all depends on what the former relationship was and what kind of feelings there are between you and the friend's ex.

done it several times, but always long after she had been together with a friend of mine.....if you're attracted, and she is as well, the friend should not play a role in this.

I do like to add that I am never interested in stories from her about my friend.