I refused last week and now I damn vex I did

A few times yes.

Do I regret it? Not really. At the time it would have been the wrong thing to do.

I did miss out on some fun though...

almost daily

I've refused more than one offer in my life...

...shoulda refused several others that I didn't....drunken one nighters and a myriad of "coyotes" when I was a young, single Soldier galavanting my ass through seveal points on the globe...

..but I regret only one of the refusals...where I got all noble because I knew from talking to this particular ex that she wasn't ready to take our relationship to that level...she took that to mean that I wasn't aroused or interested.....and she couldn't have been more wrong...

paintedlady said:

!! damn, well in that case I be sure to bring my tazer when I go to Boston! I don't wanna get knocked out by the flying dicks

thekidsgirl said:

Stay away

so many times in my early 20's! regret, maybe 2 of them.

thekidsgirl said:

Don't worry I got your back

refused~ yes
regret~no

It not like im getting sex offers left and right.
It hard enough finding a decent guy.

amorbella said:

Say dat.

Imago said:

Dreamweaver.....

ScarletScandal said:

hey wait.....



Main Entry: de·cent
Pronunciation: \ˈdē-sənt\
Function: adjective
Etymology: Middle French or Latin; Middle French, from Latin decent-, decens, present participle of decēre to be fitting; akin to Latin decus honor, dignus worthy, Greek dokein to seem, seem good
Date: 1539
1archaic a: appropriate b: well-formed : handsome

he hehe
[Edited 12/10/08 14:39pm]

I am feelin' kinda unworthy at the moment...

Imago said:

with reinforced sewn in knee patches

kpowers said:

thanks! Don't want to get knocked in the head!

thekidsgirl said:

Who me??? Never, I'm

kpowers said:

You're starting to scare me with this whole batman thing.

hokie said:

I'm Batman

hokie said:

He's really Batman
honestly

I haven't had any offers

However, since I am married, it is regrettably my duty to refuse my husband every night - as any good wife would

I refuse daily...

ZombieKitten said:

now I don't feel so alone here!

thekidsgirl said:

how about it?

Once...I was about 16 or so...I was walking home from the library at night, and some strange GUY walked up to me and asked if I wanted to have sex with him.
I think he was high and probably thought I was a girl (I was a thin/scrawny boy, no facial hair back then). It creeped me out.

PurpleJedi said:

but you don't regret not taking him up on it though, do you

ZombieKitten said:

hey there hot stuff...wanna hit the sheets? :sleazywink:

Imago said:

Eric's tales from the Bathhouse.

i was around 19, i believe and i was making a usual trip to the bathhouse. i noticed a guy out of the corner of my eye when i was checking, old, overweight, not attractive troll if you must label. He lingered in the lobby area as i got my towel and key to my room and followed me. He kept his distance but I could tell he was interested. While in the room I took my time setting up my space,,, everyone has their ritual where i put the lube, poppers hung my clothes whatever it's always the same. i got out thinking he'd would have gotten the hint but atlas he was there standing across the hall. i turned the opposite direction of him and avoided eye contact but glancing in one of the mirrors i could see he was behind me. a couple friends were there we did some chatting, and managed to spend some quality time with people i had just met and he'd be there when i got out of their rooms. at some point i made my way to the steam room, and he of course he went in as well. while i was inspecting the view from my knees i felt a pair of hands on my head trying to get me to change what i was staring at, which is a major no-no for me if i wanna see what you have i'll do it myself thank you! and it was him. i got furious and left the steam room in a huff. i was pissed that the usual clues of not interested weren't sinking in with him and so to relax i sat down in the dry suana. the door opened and low and behold who is it? him. he sits down right beside me and put his hand on my leg. i picked up sat it back down on his and clamly said, Dude No. he sprung up from where he was sitting, spun around, spat on the ground, and said a curse upon you not to have sex for 7 years and left. i had myself a good laugh and made sure he was around when i took someone back to my room.

thekidsgirl said:

hooray
we are so "with it" now

Yes I've turned down offers for sex. Most of them I regret even letting it get to a stage where it could lead to sex but there was one I regret not sleeping with, and I regret it BAD. I liked him alot but was a virgin at the time and scared to death and thought I would actually regret going through with it, never even thought about the possibility of the opposite. I still want him now, but havent seen him in the longest and when I did try and make contact with him was completely ignored so obviously no interest on his part anymore Now its all about wanting to see him again, looking hot and making him regret his decision to reject me. What a vicious cycle.