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PROS & CONS of having children PROS & CONS of being a Prince fan
Pro's: They are cute,their a great tool for picking up broody women, are probably the only person who loves u unconditionally, wants u wholely & needs u absolutely Con's They crap all the time, cry even more, want anything and everything thats out of ur price range, don't contribute 2 bills, If they don't grow up 2 be a thug or a slut they'll probably end up hating u and resenting the fact that a loser like u is their parent...also they don't contribute 2 bills Wake up children, dance the dance electric... there isn't much time.... who farted? ...was it u? | |
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No pros, children suck, they turn into adults. | |
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It teaches one to be unselfish. There aren't many pros. Cons is stress and loss of money-extreme sacrifices. There really isn't a good reason to have kids. I think charlotte made a thread similar to this before. | |
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honeypot69 said: ...whatever...
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Cloudbuster said: honeypot69 said: ...whatever...
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Pro = the tax break!
Con = they're yours for life! Pro = makin' 'em Con = havin' 'em Pro = reliving your childhood through them. Con = reliving your parent's raising of you, through them. Bottom line = I lurves me kids! A working class Hero is something to be ~ Lennon | |
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RenHoek said: Pro = the tax break!
Con = they're yours for life! Pro = makin' 'em Con = havin' 'em Pro = reliving your childhood through them. Con = reliving your parent's raising of you, through them. Bottom line = I lurves me kids! aww... 'why y'all trying to say goodbye? I didn't go anywhere, I'm right here, im all around you,always..'
in a line from my dream, I heard a voice and saw a silhouette in a chair.. | |
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It's the pushing you'l hate. And the stitches afterwards, if you are the carrier human. | |
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the only they i could say that i think is a major plus is the way i watched my mom and aunt and uncle take care of my grandmother as she was dying. they were to take care of her for that. sadly i won't have that. You CANNOT use the name of God, or religion, to justify acts of violence, to hurt, to hate, to discriminate- Madonna
authentic power is service- Pope Francis | |
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My best friend introduces her daughter as 'minion'. I think that is only proper; kids doing their parents bidding. You can't teach them ironing soon enough. | |
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no cons. love to have kids as of right now. | |
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honeypot69 said: It teaches one to be unselfish. There aren't many pros. Cons is stress and loss of money-extreme sacrifices. There really isn't a good reason to have kids. I think charlotte made a thread similar to this before.
Very true Rhythm floods my heart♥The melody it feeds my soul | |
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in the end.. you have responsibility loving adults, after you do your best and instill all you know in them.... that's all I want to see it as... | |
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it's sure not easy being a parent. but i do love it! and i enjoy my son, he's a fun kid! | |
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honeypot69 said: It teaches one to be unselfish. There aren't many pros. Cons is stress and loss of money-extreme sacrifices. There really isn't a good reason to have kids. I think charlotte made a thread similar to this before.
it's instinct and hormones that make us do it yesterday I was hugging my baby Max outside while he sat on our fence. He's a pretty big boy now, but he is still a total cuddle-bunny. The cuddling part is the best part, but they grow out of it so fast | |
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ZombieKitten said: honeypot69 said: It teaches one to be unselfish. There aren't many pros. Cons is stress and loss of money-extreme sacrifices. There really isn't a good reason to have kids. I think charlotte made a thread similar to this before.
it's instinct and hormones that make us do it yesterday I was hugging my baby Max outside while he sat on our fence. He's a pretty big boy now, but he is still a total cuddle-bunny. The cuddling part is the best part, but they grow out of it so fast I still like a cuddle from my Mom, got a huge one monday from her | |
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i see so many babies around in my family that it makes me want to have five right now. i know it's not realistic and of course it's a huge responsiblity, but I love to have kids. When I was growing up and my mom asked me what I wanted to be, 'stead of "fireman" or "policeman" I'd say "father". | |
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mdiver said: ZombieKitten said: it's instinct and hormones that make us do it yesterday I was hugging my baby Max outside while he sat on our fence. He's a pretty big boy now, but he is still a total cuddle-bunny. The cuddling part is the best part, but they grow out of it so fast I still like a cuddle from my Mom, got a huge one monday from her Your mom cuddles, my mom sort of hugs on special occasions. Not all mom's are instinctively cuddly, mine never was. | |
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shanti0608 said: mdiver said: I still like a cuddle from my Mom, got a huge one monday from her Your mom cuddles, my mom sort of hugs on special occasions. Not all mom's are instinctively cuddly, mine never was. I am extremely cuddly, when I saw Oscar again today (the master and I went away overnight to a "love motel" ) I was kissing him and squeezing him, and he was trying not to smile, cause he is such a big boy now, but I can tell he LOVES the attention. | |
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ZombieKitten said: shanti0608 said: Your mom cuddles, my mom sort of hugs on special occasions. Not all mom's are instinctively cuddly, mine never was. I am extremely cuddly, when I saw Oscar again today (the master and I went away overnight to a "love motel" ) I was kissing him and squeezing him, and he was trying not to smile, cause he is such a big boy now, but I can tell he LOVES the attention. That is sweet. Not sure how I would be if I had one. I love to snuggle the dog but he is usually more interested in playing. | |
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shanti0608 said: ZombieKitten said: I am extremely cuddly, when I saw Oscar again today (the master and I went away overnight to a "love motel" ) I was kissing him and squeezing him, and he was trying not to smile, cause he is such a big boy now, but I can tell he LOVES the attention. That is sweet. Not sure how I would be if I had one. I love to snuggle the dog but he is usually more interested in playing. lucky my dog likes my snuggling and he's little like a cat, so tonight slept on my chest while me and the boys were under our quilts watching Chicken Little on telly | |
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shanti0608 said: mdiver said: I still like a cuddle from my Mom, got a huge one monday from her Your mom cuddles, my mom sort of hugs on special occasions. Not all mom's are instinctively cuddly, mine never was. I am gonna MAKE her cuddle me | |
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mdiver said: shanti0608 said: Your mom cuddles, my mom sort of hugs on special occasions. Not all mom's are instinctively cuddly, mine never was. I am gonna MAKE her cuddle me I usually have no problems cuddling you. I allow you into my personal space. | |
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shanti0608 said: mdiver said: I am gonna MAKE her cuddle me I usually have no problems cuddling you. I allow you into my personal space. Is that like a lady space ? | |
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mdiver said: shanti0608 said: I usually have no problems cuddling you. I allow you into my personal space. Is that like a lady space ? OMG... I have known you too long...I knew you were going to say that. | |
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Pro:
They make you smile and laugh. Con: Skid marks Shake it til ya make it | |
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Writing from my personal male experience.
Con's In the event you were married and get divorced. You have a permenate connection to there mother like it or not that will not go away.Because of the bad blood between you and your ex she teaches them against you and have them not want to have anything to do with you. Pro's: As they get older (around the ages of 14-17) they start to look and listen a little closer and realize what mom has told them all those years isn't all true. they turn on her and do everything in there power to come live with you. They love you for your positives and in spite of your screw ups.You get to see how you were as a kid because they tend to say and do some of the same things you did. | |
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Pro:
Someone finally laughs at all your jokes Con: All the planning before leaving the house WHAT IF THERE IS NO TOMORROW? THERE WASN'T ONE TODAY! | |
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