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Reply #60 posted 11/14/08 7:58pm

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JasmineFire said:


yeah, but the top part gets done. and then female hormones can make things smaller. and the female clothing and all the rest.

i'm just not into it sexually.

for me the personality change and change in thinking would have far more impact than the physical confused

their core personality wouldn't really change so much, i wouldn't think.

their behaviors might...that would be tough, too.

but honestly, i'm just not sexualy attracted to women. our mental connection would exist but the sexual connection would be gone.
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Reply #61 posted 11/14/08 8:01pm

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JasmineFire said:

ZombieKitten said:


for me the personality change and change in thinking would have far more impact than the physical confused

their core personality wouldn't really change so much, i wouldn't think.

their behaviors might...that would be tough, too.

but honestly, i'm just not sexualy attracted to women. our mental connection would exist but the sexual connection would be gone.

transgenderism is a touchy subject. i personally experience a mild form of it when i've had guys discover that i do drag and are no longer interested in me. even though i do more of a gender fuck drag than female impersonation drag
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Reply #62 posted 11/14/08 8:03pm

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lol

What about this family? I think these kids were raines on TV.

[Edited 11/14/08 19:53pm]

Me and Kate plus 8 is a guilty pleasure of mine.


I am really impressed with how Kate is able to take care off all those kids all by herself most of the day,and keep them all in line,and still stay sane. lol
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Reply #63 posted 11/14/08 8:03pm

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ok, i read the story, and as meow says, biologically female.

that explains it.

gender is a social construct.

Then why change that construct?
I can understand if someone feels the need to a male/female body, but if someone changes his/hers sex just cause he/she dosent feel "manly", "girly" is sad.
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Reply #64 posted 11/14/08 8:04pm

JasmineFire

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JasmineFire said:


their core personality wouldn't really change so much, i wouldn't think.

their behaviors might...that would be tough, too.

but honestly, i'm just not sexualy attracted to women. our mental connection would exist but the sexual connection would be gone.

transgenderism is a touchy subject. i personally experience a mild form of it when i've had guys discover that i do drag and are no longer interested in me. even though i do more of a gender fuck drag than female impersonation drag

see, but you don't live in drag so what's their deal?
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Reply #65 posted 11/14/08 8:05pm

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EmeraldSkies said:

ehuffnsd said:


Me and Kate plus 8 is a guilty pleasure of mine.


I am really impressed with how Kate is able to take care off all those kids all by herself most of the day,and keep them all in line,and still stay sane. lol

i know. i would go insane with that much going on.
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Reply #66 posted 11/14/08 8:05pm

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JasmineFire said:

ehuffnsd said:


transgenderism is a touchy subject. i personally experience a mild form of it when i've had guys discover that i do drag and are no longer interested in me. even though i do more of a gender fuck drag than female impersonation drag

see, but you don't live in drag so what's their deal?

insercuirty of their own masculinity.
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Reply #67 posted 11/14/08 8:06pm

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JasmineFire said:

ZombieKitten said:


for me the personality change and change in thinking would have far more impact than the physical confused

their core personality wouldn't really change so much, i wouldn't think.

their behaviors might...that would be tough, too.

but honestly, i'm just not sexualy attracted to women. our mental connection would exist but the sexual connection would be gone.


sometimes i wonder what i would do if a F2M transgender person asked me out.

when i used to work at an LGBT community center, i would see some seriously hot looking guys walk through the doors, and my co-worker would be like "yeah, that's a transgendered person" or "yeah, that's a drag king". and i'd be like, "still fine, shit." shrug

i guess it's the masculinity and the way someone carries themselves that i find attractive moreso than just the guarantee that there will be boy parts under their boxers. but i've never actually put that attraction to the test. i've never dated a F2M trans person. who knows, i might be all "icky poo look at your snoopy, cover it up, cover it up!!!" omfg

but the idea of such a possibility doesn't immediately put me off, so i guess there's that. shrug
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Reply #68 posted 11/14/08 8:06pm

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Gimmesomehorns said:

ehuffnsd said:


gender is a social construct.

Then why change that construct?
I can understand if someone feels the need to a male/female body, but if someone changes his/hers sex just cause he/she dosent feel "manly", "girly" is sad.

it's a lot deeper than just not feeling manly or girly it's feeling like you are totally the wrong person.

i can't explain because i've never been there.
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Reply #69 posted 11/14/08 8:11pm

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ehuffnsd said:

Gimmesomehorns said:


Then why change that construct?
I can understand if someone feels the need to a male/female body, but if someone changes his/hers sex just cause he/she dosent feel "manly", "girly" is sad.

it's a lot deeper than just not feeling manly or girly it's feeling like you are totally the wrong person.

i can't explain because i've never been there.

Well, i actually did a transgender-test for fun and the result was androgyn= both male/female or neither and i can relate to that.
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Reply #70 posted 11/14/08 8:13pm

JasmineFire

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ehuffnsd said:


it's a lot deeper than just not feeling manly or girly it's feeling like you are totally the wrong person.

i can't explain because i've never been there.

Well, i actually did a transgender-test for fun and the result was androgyn= both male/female or neither and i can relate to that.

like an online quiz or the actual psychological assessment test?



on an unrelated note...who was the orger who would post a million online quizzes a day? Was that JustinUK or someone with a name like that?
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Reply #71 posted 11/14/08 8:17pm

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JasmineFire said:

Gimmesomehorns said:


Well, i actually did a transgender-test for fun and the result was androgyn= both male/female or neither and i can relate to that.

like an online quiz or the actual psychological assessment test?



on an unrelated note...who was the orger who would post a million online quizzes a day? Was that JustinUK or someone with a name like that?

It was actually a serious test, from a site about transgenderism.
I did it cause i dont fit in the gender-role of a man all the time, but ive allways been happy with my body though.
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Reply #72 posted 11/14/08 8:29pm

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Gimmesomehorns said:

JasmineFire said:


like an online quiz or the actual psychological assessment test?



on an unrelated note...who was the orger who would post a million online quizzes a day? Was that JustinUK or someone with a name like that?

It was actually a serious test, from a site about transgenderism.
I did it cause i dont fit in the gender-role of a man all the time, but ive allways been happy with my body though.

you're probably somewhere on the transgender spectrum but not a transexual
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Reply #73 posted 11/14/08 8:35pm

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ehuffnsd said:

Gimmesomehorns said:


It was actually a serious test, from a site about transgenderism.
I did it cause i dont fit in the gender-role of a man all the time, but ive allways been happy with my body though.

you're probably somewhere on the transgender spectrum but not a transexual

Im deffinently androgyn or sexless, but i didnt discover this until i was 17, but strangley enough i never feelt uncomfortable as a boy playing with action-figures, maybe cause i enjoy both male and female mannerisms but hadnt discovered my sexless side yet.
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Reply #74 posted 11/14/08 8:39pm

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I'm a little creeped out by their need for publicity. But other than that, I say good for them as long as all the hormones that are raging through his body don't harm the fetus.
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Reply #75 posted 11/14/08 8:45pm

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I'm a little creeped out by their need for publicity. But other than that, I say good for them as long as all the hormones that are raging through his body don't harm the fetus.


yeah, i don't know how i feel about the publicity either. i mean, if their ultimate goal is to advocate for acceptance and diversity and all that good stuff, then that's all fine and wonderful. but if they're just being like, "OMFG LOOK AT ME I'M A DUDE AND I'M PREGNANT LOLOLOLOL (now where's my check from the interview?)" then... sigh
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Reply #76 posted 11/14/08 9:23pm

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Can I disagree with this bizarre situation and not be labeled a bigot? I feel this is just horribly selfish and hurtful thing for the child already born last year and the one to come, how can it be explained to them that their biological mother is also their father? The fact that he/she is making it a public spectacle will surely burden these children as they grow up, hopefully there will be money put aside for counseling.


Exactly how is this going to be harmful to the children? People always freak out about gay or trans parents harming their kids somehow, but conveniently can never think of a way it may actually do harm to the child.

As for how to explain it? Simple. Say that in most families mommy has the baby, but in ours, daddy did. Kids aren't idiots, they're capable of understanding a lot more then adults give them credit for.
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Reply #77 posted 11/14/08 9:28pm

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I don't care about the adults so much as the children, he/she IS still technically, biologically a woman if she is giving birth. When a coroner examines the skeleton after death, they will know she gave birth, therefore she was and is a woman. All the hormone therapy and body transformation does not change her DNA, she is woman. The fact that he/she is staying half man/half woman and letting the world know about her pregnancy is just callous. I've seen enough transgender people living in San Francisco to not be shocked or surprised by them. Nor do I wish them harm or would I ever bother them or comment on their lifestyle, I'm not qualified to understand their psychosis. As it pertains to this particular situation, I feel as I do, I don't like it. All the love in the world isn't going to prevent the cruel comments and intrusions upon those children.

So because there's a potential that a kid might get picked on at school, couples like these shouldn't reproduce?

Well, golly. Using that logic, racial minorities should just stop having kids, because God knows they'll get shit from their peers at most schools. And disabled kids should be hidden from sight, since schoolkids are all too ready to pick on someone with crutches or a teacher aid.

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Reply #78 posted 11/14/08 9:28pm

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Reply #79 posted 11/14/08 11:26pm

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Well that was interesting. Anyone else watch?
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Reply #80 posted 11/17/08 9:07pm

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Imagine if a transgendered woman with the "thing-down-there" unchanged hooked up with a transgendered man counterpart and had a family.
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Reply #81 posted 11/17/08 10:39pm

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Congrats to the happy couple. thumbs up!

As I understand it, he's the one carrying the babies because his wife isn't capable for some reason. Is that correct?


Yes, that is correct. nod The wife had a hysterectomy.
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Reply #82 posted 11/17/08 10:43pm

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that's why i was wondering if they were going to continue to be in the public eye or not.

i mean, that family in Arkansas with 18 or 19 kids are always on TV.

the clown car family!
but unless that child mentions they are one of those kids, people probably won't recognise them, and media attention or not, they are bound to be local celebrities lol


roflmoa at "clown car family". lol
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Reply #83 posted 11/17/08 10:44pm

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Well that was interesting. Anyone else watch?


I did. wave
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Reply #84 posted 11/17/08 11:58pm

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Imagine if a transgendered woman with the "thing-down-there" unchanged hooked up with a transgendered man counterpart and had a family.

I wouldn't be surprised if it's already happened and the public just hasn't heard about it.
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Reply #85 posted 11/18/08 3:20am

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Imagine if a transgendered woman with the "thing-down-there" unchanged hooked up with a transgendered man counterpart and had a family.

I wouldn't be surprised if it's already happened and the public just hasn't heard about it.

could buck angel still have babies? hmmm
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Reply #86 posted 11/18/08 5:50am

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NEWSFLASH!!!!! "he" really is not a man, what's the BFD? "he" was born a woman, still has woman reproductive organs..... smile
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Reply #87 posted 11/18/08 12:49pm

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My only issue is that they sure ran to the media as fast as they could on this 2nd baby. I smell famewhores, & THAT is bad for the children exclaim
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Reply #88 posted 11/18/08 1:44pm

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Imagine if a transgendered woman with the "thing-down-there" unchanged hooked up with a transgendered man counterpart and had a family.

I wouldn't be surprised if it's already happened and the public just hasn't heard about it.

i have a feeling it has happened but the family isn't making it known
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Reply #89 posted 11/18/08 1:45pm

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My only issue is that they sure ran to the media as fast as they could on this 2nd baby. I smell famewhores, & THAT is bad for the children exclaim

i think this has more to do with the parents trying to make a point than anything else.

i can name at least 3 other transmen who have done the same thing.
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