wuz up Ya'll...


Question...


How IMPORTANT is sex with u in a Relationship?

(on a scale of 1 to 10, if u will)...

10, sexual compatability is number one.

can YOU live without sex FOREVER ?

I bloody well can't !

i'd rate it @ a 7...

10... shitty sex can kill a RELATIONSHIP.

I would put it at a 4 or a 5. Honestly, sex should not be the basis of a solid relationship. Rather it should be built on love and trust.

I rate it as a 10 because I need to have someone who likes the things i like in the bed without any problems and can't get tried after the first time of workout.

I'd give it a 7. It's not the most important part, but it's right up there

8...not the #1 issue...but if u plan on being together awhile u r gonna want to be compatible in the bedroom...finding someone who u have amazing chemistry with is absolutely incredible...i love the anticipation and imagining getting him home and having my way with him...ohhh...yummm...

5

Closeness and affection are more like 10 for me. Believe it or not, I can live without sex.

Depends how good the sex is.
[This message was edited Sun Nov 24 7:55:37 PST 2002 by Cloudbuster]

PurpleLove7 said:

1 - sex is nice, but being with the one you love, and who loves you back is much more important. I can just sit with her, holding hands for the rest of our lives, and I'd be the happiest man alive.

MrBarazani said:

Thas beautiful man...

importance of sex in a relationship? 0

it's just icing on the cake in the right relationship.

very important 10

10

4

0

I can live without it and will until my wedding day.

shit I aint getting any and it has been quite awhile so I forgot what sex is. I need a boyfriend, I am tired of being single.

Are you kidding me 10 of course. It's not that it's the wherewithall however, if one is not Sexually Compatable then the Relationship just is not going to last with me. Granted a Relationship is not Based on Sex and one must be Compatiable with other things also. But a Dead Sex-Life ? Ugh.Ugh. NG,NG,NG! When I'm in a relationship with someone we do it Alot so it Has to be Good.

I'm kinda like one of those Women who likes to have the Bed Collapse. It Shakes,Rattles and Rolls for Damn Sure.

Supernova said:

You crack me up Natsume. So funny with that CatFood picture and joke. So Gross. Yucky!

This is a difficult question. I find that I become sexually attracted to a person just by being around them, if they're sexy, and to me sexy is talented, articulate, confident, honest and funny. So, if they are all these things, I tend to overlook any small shortcomings in bed. I'm so fired up by who they already are, all they got to do is touch me and I'm over the roof and to the moon, if you catch my meaning.

So the actual act = about a 4 in importance.
The actual person = a 10 in importance.

Natsume said:

and where were you!? :Evil:

7 If it don't feel right ...then she
can only be friendly.

i'd say around 4 or 5...sure great sex is GREAT!!! ...but there are more important things...i've stayed with someone who drove me nuts because the sex was fantastic (pathetic male that i am)but it had no real future...i also think if you really love someone...and you click in the important ways...then the sex can become good anyway...through communication etc

Let me tell you that sex is VERY important in a relationship, otherwise you just cannot call it a relationship, then you're just friends. A friend of mine had a really good relationship, they were just meant for eachother, they were best friends and so in love, it was perfect, or almost... because the sex just wouldn't work, they tried for 2 years and a half, but eventually broke up. Sure, there are more things, but it affects the whole relationship!
But I'd say 9, because on the other hand sex is not a guarantee for a good relationship.

I would say 8. It's a great way to express your love and enjoy some of life's most amazing feelings.