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CarrieMpls

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do you avoid going to the doctor?

I find I avoid going to the doctor until it's absolutely positively necessary.

I've been sick all week with a sore throat since last Monday. My tonsils are huge with spots on them. My main reason for not going? I didn't want to pay a $35 copay for them to tell me it's just a virus, go home and drink lots of liquids and get plenty of rest.

But now that I'm on day 7 of humungous tonsils I've decided I probably DO need to go in as it's probably bacterial instead of viral and antibiotics are in order. But today's Sunday and that means urgent care which means my copay goes up to $55. pout So now I'm putting it off until tomorrow, hoping I can get in after work.

Do you avoid the doctor too? And why?

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Reply #1 posted 10/26/08 9:50am

2the9s

Remember, as Benjamin Franklin said, "An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure," so that $35 might actually wind up being hundreds.

Then again Franklin died choking on his own vomit.


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Reply #2 posted 10/26/08 10:00am

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2the9s said:

Remember, as Benjamin Franklin said, "An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure," so that $35 might actually wind up being hundreds.

Then again Franklin died choking on his own vomit.


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Reply #3 posted 10/26/08 10:02am

hokie

CarrieMpls said:

I find I avoid going to the doctor until it's absolutely positively necessary.

I've been sick all week with a sore throat since last Monday. My tonsils are huge with spots on them. My main reason for not going? I didn't want to pay a $35 copay for them to tell me it's just a virus, go home and drink lots of liquids and get plenty of rest.

But now that I'm on day 7 of humungous tonsils I've decided I probably DO need to go in as it's probably bacterial instead of viral and antibiotics are in order. But today's Sunday and that means urgent care which means my copay goes up to $55. pout So now I'm putting it off until tomorrow, hoping I can get in after work.

Do you avoid the doctor too? And why?

smile




I avoid the doctor for the same reasons. It's too expensive. I have to pay $90 a pop. We are sick with the same thing Carrie. I'm pretty sure it's strep throat. So, definitely antibiotics are the fix.

My son has it too.

I have not gotten out of bed in two days. I'm miserable. bawl
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Reply #4 posted 10/26/08 10:05am

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I always avoided going to the doctor until recently because 1) It's expensive and 2) I'm afraid that they're gonna tell me that something is really wrong with me lol



I stopped avoiding the doctor this year when I got extremely sick and I got scared boxed
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Reply #5 posted 10/26/08 10:05am

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hokie said:

CarrieMpls said:

I find I avoid going to the doctor until it's absolutely positively necessary.

I've been sick all week with a sore throat since last Monday. My tonsils are huge with spots on them. My main reason for not going? I didn't want to pay a $35 copay for them to tell me it's just a virus, go home and drink lots of liquids and get plenty of rest.

But now that I'm on day 7 of humungous tonsils I've decided I probably DO need to go in as it's probably bacterial instead of viral and antibiotics are in order. But today's Sunday and that means urgent care which means my copay goes up to $55. pout So now I'm putting it off until tomorrow, hoping I can get in after work.

Do you avoid the doctor too? And why?

smile




I avoid the doctor for the same reasons. It's too expensive. I have to pay $90 a pop. We are sick with the same thing Carrie. I'm pretty sure it's strep throat. So, definitely antibiotics are the fix.

My son has it too.

I have not gotten out of bed in two days. I'm miserable. bawl

I was out of work Wednesday through Friday this week. sad (Though I have done some work from home through it all.)

I also have a cough and am all stuffed up, which is normally a sign it's NOT strep, or I'd have gone sooner. I got strep throat about twice each winter when I was a kid, so I'm quite familiar. lol
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Reply #6 posted 10/26/08 10:08am

Stymie

hug I hope you feel better Carrie.

Go to the doctor. In taking care of my family and others, I have neglected myself and am now on four different prescriptions.

It's funny, I went to the doctor for my broken toe and she ended up asking me a bunch of questions and ran some tests.
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Reply #7 posted 10/26/08 10:10am

hokie

CarrieMpls said:

hokie said:





I avoid the doctor for the same reasons. It's too expensive. I have to pay $90 a pop. We are sick with the same thing Carrie. I'm pretty sure it's strep throat. So, definitely antibiotics are the fix.

My son has it too.

I have not gotten out of bed in two days. I'm miserable. bawl

I was out of work Wednesday through Friday this week. sad (Though I have done some work from home through it all.)

I also have a cough and am all stuffed up, which is normally a sign it's NOT strep, or I'd have gone sooner. I got strep throat about twice each winter when I was a kid, so I'm quite familiar. lol



I have to do some homework today. neutral

I was up a few times last night with a puking 8 year old.

See? It could be worse for you.


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Reply #8 posted 10/26/08 10:12am

Mach

Hurry well Carrie rose
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Reply #9 posted 10/26/08 10:14am

JasmineFire

I avoid going to the doctor because I'm afraid of being yelled at/lectured. I know that's strange and most doctors don't yell at you but i went to one doctor who told me that I had the most horrible infection that she had ever seen and started yelling at me in english and spanish.

She diagnosed me with something rather serious without running any tests and told me that I "was not normal". So after I was done crying, I went to another doctor for a second opinion. He did not yell at me in any language, actually ran some tests, and told me that I was fine. So ever since then I've been a bit scared of going to the doctor.

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Reply #10 posted 10/26/08 11:04am

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Oh, girlie. Lame! Sorry you're all sick 'n' stuff. hug

No, I go to the doctor when I think they can be helpful, and I'm good about getting annual physicals. I found a community health clinic that is very nice to poor people. I basically just have to pay for meds and labwork.
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Reply #11 posted 10/26/08 11:07am

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JasmineFire said:

I avoid going to the doctor because I'm afraid of being yelled at/lectured. I know that's strange and most doctors don't yell at you but i went to one doctor who told me that I had the most horrible infection that she had ever seen and started yelling at me in english and spanish.

She diagnosed me with something rather serious without running any tests and told me that I "was not normal". So after I was done crying, I went to another doctor for a second opinion. He did not yell at me in any language, actually ran some tests, and told me that I was fine. So ever since then I've been a bit scared of going to the doctor.

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That's horrible!!!!
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Reply #12 posted 10/26/08 11:11am

horatio

yup, i wait until it absolutely necessary.
like last year i had pneumnioa and i didnt go to the doctor/ER until i couldn't walk without taking a break every few steps to breath. I had to literally crawl up the flight of stair in my house lol
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Reply #13 posted 10/26/08 11:19am

JasmineFire

CarrieMpls said:

JasmineFire said:

I avoid going to the doctor because I'm afraid of being yelled at/lectured. I know that's strange and most doctors don't yell at you but i went to one doctor who told me that I had the most horrible infection that she had ever seen and started yelling at me in english and spanish.

She diagnosed me with something rather serious without running any tests and told me that I "was not normal". So after I was done crying, I went to another doctor for a second opinion. He did not yell at me in any language, actually ran some tests, and told me that I was fine. So ever since then I've been a bit scared of going to the doctor.

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That's horrible!!!!

yeah, it was pretty horrific. i can't wait until i'm settled in one place and can have just one doctor who I see all the time for everything.
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Reply #14 posted 10/26/08 11:20am

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2the9s said:

Remember, as Benjamin Franklin said, "An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure," so that $35 might actually wind up being hundreds.

Then again Franklin died choking on his own vomit.


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Reply #15 posted 10/26/08 11:21am

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I avoid the doctors here on base like the plague....they tend to misdiagnose more ailments than your buddy with no mechanical experience telling you whats wrong with your car....
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Reply #16 posted 10/26/08 11:26am

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i have to go to the doctor every quater for a check up
the return the next week for lab work results
anytime i'm sick for more than 3 days i go.
once a year for a flu shot
and it seems i always seem to pick up something really major ontop of that every year.

out of 15 times a i year i end up going there are many times i don't want to go.
it's expensive when i was RyanWhite-Care Act and ADAP it was all free but than whn i got a job with Health Insurance it's 20 dollars a visit and my HAART is $60 a month and than ad on antibiotics oh the joy
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Reply #17 posted 10/26/08 11:27am

horatio

ehuffnsd said:

i have to go to the doctor every quater for a check up
the return the next week for lab work results
anytime i'm sick for more than 3 days i go.
once a year for a flu shot
and it seems i always seem to pick up something really major ontop of that every year.

out of 15 times a i year i end up going there are many times i don't want to go.
it's expensive when i was RyanWhite-Care Act and ADAP it was all free but than whn i got a job with Health Insurance it's 20 dollars a visit and my HAART is $60 a month and than ad on antibiotics oh the joy



going to the doctor is usually where one catches flu and colds lol
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Reply #18 posted 10/26/08 11:34am

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horatio said:

ehuffnsd said:

i have to go to the doctor every quater for a check up
the return the next week for lab work results
anytime i'm sick for more than 3 days i go.
once a year for a flu shot
and it seems i always seem to pick up something really major ontop of that every year.

out of 15 times a i year i end up going there are many times i don't want to go.
it's expensive when i was RyanWhite-Care Act and ADAP it was all free but than whn i got a job with Health Insurance it's 20 dollars a visit and my HAART is $60 a month and than ad on antibiotics oh the joy



going to the doctor is usually where one catches flu and colds lol


Unless one spends time with humanity in other places (work, school, clubs), in which case they will usually catch flu and colds there. Those little buggers get around. lol

I'd suggest that people with compromised immune systems are better off risking the dr office in favor of being monitored regularly, rather than staying home and fending for themselves. But I do not share the common opinion that modern medicine is worthless and doctors are crooks, so. . . shrug smile
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Reply #19 posted 10/26/08 11:39am

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horatio said:

ehuffnsd said:

i have to go to the doctor every quater for a check up
the return the next week for lab work results
anytime i'm sick for more than 3 days i go.
once a year for a flu shot
and it seems i always seem to pick up something really major ontop of that every year.

out of 15 times a i year i end up going there are many times i don't want to go.
it's expensive when i was RyanWhite-Care Act and ADAP it was all free but than whn i got a job with Health Insurance it's 20 dollars a visit and my HAART is $60 a month and than ad on antibiotics oh the joy



going to the doctor is usually where one catches flu and colds lol

yup...and i saw in the San Diego Union Tribune the vast majority of doctors only prescribe pleacbos

If your doctor has prescribed antibiotics for the flu or told you to try B12 vitamins for fatigue, those treatments were probably just a placebo – an unproven therapy offered with the hope you'd feel better if you took something.

Treatment with placebos is far more common than you might think, according to a new national survey in which 46 percent to 58 percent of U.S. physicians admitted using placebos regularly. Only 5 percent said they tell patients explicitly that they are doing so.

“Frankly, I was astonished,” said Dr. Ezekiel Emanuel, director of the National Institutes of Health department of bioethics and a co-author of the report published today by BMJ, formerly The British Medical Journal. The survey was sent to 1,200 internists and rheumatologists; 679 responded.

Placebos harness the mysterious power of the mind to heal the body; their benefits come from the positive expectations of the patient rather than any physical mechanism. The classic examples are sugar pills, saline injections and other treatments that seem to inspire confidence even though they are inert.

But the physicians surveyed were far more likely to use active agents as placebos, including over-the-counter painkillers, vitamins, sedatives and antibiotics.

What classifies them as placebos is the context. If the recommended treatment hasn't been shown, physiologically, to work for the condition in question, that's a placebo.

While apparently common, treating patients this way is controversial. Two years ago, the American Medical Association said it was wrong to use placebos without a person's knowledge. Some experts consider placebos unethical because they can involve a measure of deceit.

But other experts make a case for what they call “benevolent deception” – letting a patient believe he or she is getting a useful treatment because, paradoxically, it might work.

http://www.signonsandiego...acebo.html

all of my doctors i've told them not to give me something if they don't know what is really gone.
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Reply #20 posted 10/26/08 12:19pm

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ehuffnsd said:[quote]

horatio said:


yup...and i saw in the San Diego Union Tribune the vast majority of doctors only prescribe pleacbos

If your doctor has prescribed antibiotics for the flu or told you to try B12 vitamins for fatigue, those treatments were probably just a placebo – an unproven therapy offered with the hope you'd feel better if you took something.

Treatment with placebos is far more common than you might think, according to a new national survey in which 46 percent to 58 percent of U.S. physicians admitted using placebos regularly. Only 5 percent said they tell patients explicitly that they are doing so.

“Frankly, I was astonished,” said Dr. Ezekiel Emanuel, director of the National Institutes of Health department of bioethics and a co-author of the report published today by BMJ, formerly The British Medical Journal. The survey was sent to 1,200 internists and rheumatologists; 679 responded.

Placebos harness the mysterious power of the mind to heal the body; their benefits come from the positive expectations of the patient rather than any physical mechanism. The classic examples are sugar pills, saline injections and other treatments that seem to inspire confidence even though they are inert.

But the physicians surveyed were far more likely to use active agents as placebos, including over-the-counter painkillers, vitamins, sedatives and antibiotics.

What classifies them as placebos is the context. If the recommended treatment hasn't been shown, physiologically, to work for the condition in question, that's a placebo.

While apparently common, treating patients this way is controversial. Two years ago, the American Medical Association said it was wrong to use placebos without a person's knowledge. Some experts consider placebos unethical because they can involve a measure of deceit.

But other experts make a case for what they call “benevolent deception” – letting a patient believe he or she is getting a useful treatment because, paradoxically, it might work.

http://www.signonsandiego...acebo.html

all of my doctors i've told them not to give me something if they don't know what is really gone.


"the vast majority only prescribe placebos"

Um, no. That is NOT what that study showed. lol

The study showed that a slim majority sometimes prescribe placebos. And often, doctors prescribe placebos because patients demand them. They want a quick fix in pill form, and get pissed off if the doctor tries to tell them that there is no easy cure for what ails them, or that the cure involves lifestyle changes. Or that the treatment that all of the people on this one website they use say works really well actually hasn't been shown to help. lol So the doctor prescribes a drug that may not help, but that probably won't hurt.

I think it's unethical to do that without explaining, "hey, this hasn't been proven to help your condition, but some people seem to feel better anyway. Might just be placebo, but do you want to try it?" But if people want to delude themselves, why should the dr stand in their way? shrug
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Reply #21 posted 10/26/08 12:21pm

ehuffnsd

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tackam said:

ehuffnsd said:


http://www.signonsandiego...acebo.html

all of my doctors i've told them not to give me something if they don't know what is really gone.


"the vast majority only prescribe placebos"

Um, no. That is NOT what that study showed. lol

The study showed that a slim majority sometimes prescribe placebos. And often, doctors prescribe placebos because patients demand them. They want a quick fix in pill form, and get pissed off if the doctor tries to tell them that there is no easy cure for what ails them, or that the cure involves lifestyle changes. Or that the treatment that all of the people on this one website they use say works really well actually hasn't been shown to help. lol So the doctor prescribes a drug that may not help, but that probably won't hurt.

I think it's unethical to do that without explaining, "hey, this hasn't been proven to help your condition, but some people seem to feel better anyway. Might just be placebo, but do you want to try it?" But if people want to delude themselves, why should the dr stand in their way? shrug

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Reply #22 posted 10/26/08 12:21pm

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i just went to my HMO doctor last week for a general check up...it went like this...true story.

arrive at doctor's office at 10:15
checked in by clerk 10:18
called by nurse for temperature/weight/blood pressure 11:30
doctor comes in 11:40

doc: what brings you in today?
me: just a general check up..just turned 40 so i wanna see how things are going

doc: okay, so no problems?

me: nope

okay, well thanks for coming in, your vitals look good/

me: eek mad
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Reply #23 posted 10/26/08 12:58pm

JellyBean

Shoot no!! I am probably the only guy that gets a slight cold and goes to the doctor. Now the dentist is another story. But my regular doctor, and I am like clock work.
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Reply #24 posted 10/26/08 1:09pm

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I don't put off going to the doctor. I would rather find out if it's something that needs antibiotics or not, rather than suffer.

If the doctor says it's viral then I just leave and make my way home.

If the doctor says it's an infection or whatever, the doctor will give me a prescription and I'll head on over next door to the pharmacy, get it filled and go home and take the meds right away.
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Reply #25 posted 10/26/08 1:24pm

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I avoided it for years unless it was absolutely necessary and I thought I needed antibiotics, otherwise for the last few years, I was easily able to fight off colds in a day or two.

Now I've got to go all the time for a bad back so going to the Dr. is no big deal anymore. I've got to go tomorrow cause I've been sick for the past few days and ended up taking off from work so I could recover, cause the middle of the week will be so busy at work and I want to be well for that.

For physicals too, but sometimes I'll skip a year or two.
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Reply #26 posted 10/26/08 2:04pm

DigMeNow

My health is very important to me,therefore if I feel ill I go to the doctor asap. I don't like UrgiCare at all.
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Reply #27 posted 10/26/08 2:42pm

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Can't say I like going to the doctor but I go when I have to, I don't wait
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Reply #28 posted 10/26/08 3:05pm

Rockalicious

Yes onlycause I have no damn Health Insurance and I usually don't trust them either confused
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Reply #29 posted 10/26/08 4:11pm

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I hope you don't have tonsillitis. eek

I don't like going to the doctor,also because of the cost,but also because I fear that they will want me to have labs done, I have needles. I don't really avoid going though because I am so rarely sick,that it's seems years go by before I really need to go.

Hope you feel better! biggrin
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