ZombieKitten said:

Exactly! We're - men AND women - are taught to be monogamous. Ask most faithful men and they will say the ONLY reason they're faithful is out of respect for their marriage/wife/girlfriend. They don't really WANT to be faithful!

MuthaFunka said:

but on the other hand, when their girl is fucking someone else, they don't like it much do they

ThreadBare said:

Right, but see, you just said it's a part of being "grown up" which is part of the social template created for us ALL to abide by. Had that NOT been the case, sexing every chick/dude you come across wouldn't be seen as "immature".

MuthaFunka said:

At least allow room for the folks who do want to be faithful despite the difficulty that can come with commitment. And, honestly, it's not just about married folks.

ZombieKitten said:

I really don't like to judge women by their looks, cause what some men see as beautiful, to me it's not.. .... but we have a politician here John Edwards, who was busted with this chick.. and that's exactly what she looked like.. busted .. I'm like dude .. are you serious? Kobe did the same.. I'm like.. you guys have georgous wives and you're cheating with that? .. Eddie Murphy said it, he said ladies don't try to understand it, it's a man thing.... he was right..

reneGade20 said:

Naw, those that have REAL GAME won't EVER have to worry about info being put out there, only those that DON'T have game are "nervous like Pervis" .

ZombieKitten said:

At the risk of sounding like a pig, it seems like when women cheat, there's more "feelings" involved....drawn out affairs of the heart, as opposed to rolls in the hay that tend to characterize men's dalliances....

of course, men are seemingly also more prone to killing off the wife for the new girlfriend....

SCNDLS said:

Yes. I mentioned that it's abnormal for both.

MuthaFunka said:

Flowers2 said:

you never know, these ladies MIGHT be letting these guys be king, in a way their gorgeous wives won't do
OR maybe they think it isn't really cheating if she is ugly (please god let it NOT be that)

MuthaFunka said:

I hear what you're saying, and if I accept I find other people besides my wife attractive (which of course I do) that then would mean if there were no consequences I'd like to sleep with them. However, what if I really do not have the energy to start something or desire to do so? What if I find this one woman more than enough and know that I will never, ever put myself in the position where I might cheat? I mean, a scenario in a far off place away from my wife with a plethora of women laid out on a giant bed, all naked and waiting, is just so far removed from reality, but that's what it would take. The no consequences thing is in reality just not possible, which is why even if physically I wanted to cheat (which I don't) the inevitable complications would always make me stop short. There's no much point discussing this in a way so far removed from reality. At least to me anyway. It'd take more than an attractive friend of my wife coming on to me while my wife was away with no suspicions about what I'm doing. I'm not brainwashed, just happy and satisfied.

ZombieKitten said:

Of course not! Men are TERRITORIAL - worse than women are! Men - like it or not, ladies - look at their women as PROPERTY and when someone "steals" their property, it's a tough thing for men to deal with . We're not "set up" to forgive infedelity like women are because cheating has mainly been a "male-dominated" act in the minds of most people.

reneGade20 said:

so you saying they have more right to be upset about it?

ThreadBare said:

Aw, they're just frontin', Threaddy!

reneGade20 said:

MuthaFunka said:

I'm not.

ZombieKitten said:

Nah..I'm saying that we're not so immune to insane fits of jealousy...at least thats what the news keeps telling us.....

SCNDLS said:

no, i had a lady friend who swore she wouldnt fuck the same guy more than twice in a month because she said then she would get attached and she new men didnt get attached like that. She said it was part of a womans makeup that made them get attached like that and that all women shouldnt fuck the same guy more than twice unless they want some real heart ache.

MuthaFunka said:

actually that makes it really far worse

I once saw an Iranian man try to check in his 7 wives as luggage in Kuala Lumpur airport. He was FURIOUS he had to buy them all seats.

Fauxie said:

And that's cool. And, again, it's probably been a learned process for you to get to this point.Chances are, it didn't just happen to you naturally.

reneGade20 said:

That sounds almost like it's a justified form of rage (or violence even) from a man's point of view.

ThreadBare said:

Then you've been taught that, that's my point. It didn't just "happen" to you.

ZombieKitten said:

that's a shame

ZombieKitten said:

Hey, I never said it was "pretty" .

horatio said:

and guess what, it's not EMOTIONS doing it, it's frikkin hormones

skin on skin = release of oxytocin the bonding hormone and suddenly we think we are in LOVE. Hence the dalliances ARE deeper, renegade we can't help that.

ZombieKitten said:

You're missing my point....your statement was that men don't like it if someone else is hitting skins with their girl...my response was simply an affirmation of that.....I didn't say anything was justified

MARCEL!!!



that part where she is looking for Marcels watch stomped my heart out on the floor:



alot of you just sound like bitter mfs with all this bitching about cheating day in and day out. its an obsession all the court tv, tabloids, tv dramas, soap operas.
i think the french do cheating best. With some dignity. Its expected for christ sake!

reneGade20 said:

No, I know. I was making an observation

ThreadBare said:

Co-sign.

I wouldn't have married my wife if I didn't really strongly believe she could be everything I want and need. I know things can change, but if they haven't then why would I even think about cheating. People just need to choose mates wisely and then work at relationships in a way they deserve. In my ho

ZombieKitten said:

exactly