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PrintableMoonbeam said: ZombieKitten said: oh, you know, real life and its challenges  Why does real life have to get in the way of only having eyes for your spouse? It doesn't have to, it just does 
Like others have mentioned, ego driven mainly. Someone pays you a little attention, it feels nice, you start to think you aren't getting enough attention at home (kids, work, stress, illness etc all seem to stand in your way) and what do you know, suddenly your eyes got opened! I don't think that is unusual. What IS more unusual is that you and your spouse come together stronger because of it. You realise you need to work on the marriage, and if you do, big rewards 
At the beginning this comes naturally without much effort. I think 8 years was a very long run of it!! | |
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i'm married... do i cheat?... no... do i find other women attractive?... fuck yeah... does my wife find other men attractive?... fuck yeah... do i trust her?... fuck yeah
i just really couldn't be bothered with games | |
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MuthaFunka said: dseann said: I didn't cheat because of any deficiencies in my relationships. I was just a childish, selfish and greedy person. I figured if I wasn't found out, no harm no foul. I did see the way the women I cheated on my girl with would look at her with scorn when we were out together and got a sense that the "other woman" wasn't really that much into me, but more like they had a strong dislike or envy of my girlfriend. Wait. You fucked broads that KNEW/HAD ACCESS to YOUR BROAD? 
Yeah, you WANTED to get caught and you WANTED drama . I know people that are "into" drama, some even addicted to it. I wasn't into drama, the other women knew I was in a relationship. I didn't lie or try to hide it from them. It was just a "getting our groove on" kind of thing. Some of them had their men as well. When I was out with my official woman, the "on the side" crew kept to themselves. I never had experienced any drama. At least not in public. | |
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Flowers2 said: dseann said: I didn't cheat because of any deficiencies in my relationships. I was just a childish, selfish and greedy person. I figured if I wasn't found out, no harm no foul. I did see the way the women I cheated on my girl with would look at her with scorn when we were out together and got a sense that the "other woman" wasn't really that much into me, but more like they had a strong dislike or envy of my girlfriend. .. ok so you're saying the other women weren't that into you.. but your girl was... and this is why you stayed with your girlfriend... I thank you for your response .... I just wanted to know why guys stay with the girlfriend... if having a bunch a chicks is that easy... why not just stay single and continue that path with tons of women? instead of having a relationship.... I did stay single for over fifteen years after that. Not that getting a bunch of chicks was an easy task or gets any easier with age (I'm now 37), but I found it easier on my brains for that time period to stay by myself, uncommitted to any woman until I grew up. I'm fine now. No relationship is perfect, but I'm happy and satisfied with who I'm with now. | |
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dseann said: MuthaFunka said: Wait. You fucked broads that KNEW/HAD ACCESS to YOUR BROAD?
Yeah, you WANTED to get caught and you WANTED drama . I know people that are "into" drama, some even addicted to it. I wasn't into drama, the other women knew I was in a relationship. I didn't lie or try to hide it from them. It was just a "getting our groove on" kind of thing. Some of them had their men as well. When I was out with my official woman, the "on the side" crew kept to themselves. I never had experienced any drama. At least not in public. Naw, bruh....WAY too risky. Some chicks gets "chatty" and like to start shit out of jealosy and such. Fuck that. My sidepieces never knew each other except in some obscure, crazy instances. nWo: bboy87 - Timmy84 - LittleBlueCorvette - MuthaFunka - phunkdaddy - Christopher
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MuthaFunka said: dseann said: I wasn't into drama, the other women knew I was in a relationship. I didn't lie or try to hide it from them. It was just a "getting our groove on" kind of thing. Some of them had their men as well. When I was out with my official woman, the "on the side" crew kept to themselves. I never had experienced any drama. At least not in public. Naw, bruh....WAY too risky. Some chicks gets "chatty" and like to start shit out of jealosy and such. Fuck that. My sidepieces never knew each other except in some obscure, crazy instances. I hear that. And I believe that most "drama" starts when on party lies to the other about his/her situation. Now for the youngins, I'm not an advocate of cheatin' but if you do ... be honest with the honey/man on the side about yourself. Let them know their status is just that a honey/man on the side, nothing else. | |
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MuthaFunka said: dseann said: I wasn't into drama, the other women knew I was in a relationship. I didn't lie or try to hide it from them. It was just a "getting our groove on" kind of thing. Some of them had their men as well. When I was out with my official woman, the "on the side" crew kept to themselves. I never had experienced any drama. At least not in public. Naw, bruh....WAY too risky. Some chicks gets "chatty" and like to start shit out of jealosy and such. Fuck that. My sidepieces never knew each other except in some obscure, crazy instances. they don't have to know each other... some will confront the other anyway.. what do you do then? and don't let them be in an attack mode  chick could be living in a another city and will drive 40 miles to confront the stranger.. then what? ... | |
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Flowers2 said: MuthaFunka said: Naw, bruh....WAY too risky. Some chicks gets "chatty" and like to start shit out of jealosy and such. Fuck that. My sidepieces never knew each other except in some obscure, crazy instances. they don't have to know each other... some will confront the other anyway.. what do you do then? and don't let them be in an attack mode chick could be living in a another city and will drive 40 miles to confront the stranger.. then what? ... No, you're talking about a chance meeting/getting caught. I was referring to DSeann's MAIN PIECE and his SIDE PIECES knowing each other. nWo: bboy87 - Timmy84 - LittleBlueCorvette - MuthaFunka - phunkdaddy - Christopher
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This is all really sad. No wonder STD's are out of control!! With one man or with one chick and you aint gotta worry bout all that. Keep it simple stupid.  | |
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I can't really read this whole thing, damn....
It's quite simple... Men will stick their cock into anything with a pulse (or even a thick bowl of hot soup, is that considered cheating? ).
It's a choice to bring your mind, soul and self into a committment with another person given the fact that we are wired to want to spread the seed. When you make the choice with your actions to not have that level of committment to one person then hopefully it's mutually understood. | |
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