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PrintableFlowers2 said: ZombieKitten said: Here is my conclusion to all this:
the thread should be entitled: "Why does ANYONE cheat, and why do MEN feel they are entitled to do it?" Zombie  .. you know there will be no resolution to that.. at all... there is no type of rational to even try to comprehend.... men  .. and now this joke I heard applies .. all women's problems begin with 'Men'... 'Men'strual cramps, 'Men'tal anxiety...'Men'opause, .. like we just can't escape this 'Men' problem (sorry to all the innocent guys) lol My comment is not a solution, but had this thread had that title, it would have been about 4 pages shorter  since we have argued this around in circles, and got totally off the point several times too  | |
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MuthaFunka said: union119 said: people cheat cuz they've got nothing better to do.
seriously. get a hobby.  What you think cheating IS? if cheating is your hobby then ur right you dont need to get a hobby you need to get a life | |
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Flowers2 said: ZombieKitten said: Here is my conclusion to all this:
the thread should be entitled: "Why does ANYONE cheat, and why do MEN feel they are entitled to do it?" Zombie .. you know there will be no resolution to that.. at all... there is no type of rational to even try to comprehend.... men .. and now this joke I heard applies .. all women's problems begin with 'Men'... 'Men'strual cramps, 'Men'tal anxiety...'Men'opause, .. like we just can't escape this 'Men' problem (sorry to all the innocent guys) lol  | |
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union119 said: MuthaFunka said: What you think cheating IS? if cheating is your hobby then ur right you dont need to get a hobby you need to get a life What do you think happens IN LIFE?...CHEATING. Read the papers, playa!  nWo: bboy87 - Timmy84 - LittleBlueCorvette - MuthaFunka - phunkdaddy - Christopher
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Flowers2 said: reneGade20 said: I'm sorry, that was not personally directed towards you.. it's that generalized notion of folks with 'but folks don't want the truth'.. and yes, (in red) I call that denial because they don't want to face what might be real.. they ignore it and lie to themselves and pretend they are happy (and some of them will even go as far as saying it's not even happening, when it is) .... if folks are comfortable living that way, so be it.... I'm not one of those folks... and also.. folks being adults, well yeah alot of hell comes from the drama.. the guilty party should just be man enough to deal with whatever comes (since they lit that match) the other party actting as an adult? well.. they should just get a shot gun and call it a day... lol I'm kidding.. kidding 
 ...so, tell me a little bit about your past..... He was like a cock who thought the sun had risen to hear him crow.
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Flowers2 said: ZombieKitten said: Here is my conclusion to all this:
the thread should be entitled: "Why does ANYONE cheat, and why do MEN feel they are entitled to do it?" Zombie .. you know there will be no resolution to that.. at all... there is no type of rational to even try to comprehend.... men .. and now this joke I heard applies .. all women's problems begin with 'Men'... 'Men'strual cramps, 'Men'tal anxiety...'Men'opause, .. like we just can't escape this 'Men' problem (sorry to all the innocent guys) lol To which I humbly submit the following.... Eve, Delihla, Mata Hari, PMS fallout, Expensive tastes and habits, and the overwhelming number of women who play to a man's ego, especially when they know he's not on the market... He was like a cock who thought the sun had risen to hear him crow.
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ThreadBare said: Stymie said: Women should treat their men like plants, don't withhold water or food, keep them in sunlight and appropriate pots, and give them the attention they crave. That's nice, and I can agree to a certain extent, but what happens when they only want more. | |
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reneGade20 said: To which I humbly submit the following....
Delihla  ok wait.. see? that's not fair to use her .. she has nothing to do with this lol we're talking about cheating!! lol | |
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noimageatall said: MuthaFunka said: Yes, you're taught to be faithful. You're bombarded with it as early as you can remember. Your parents tell you this. Your siblings tell you this. Your friends tell you this. Think about it, how come you were never bombarded with "Cheating is acceptable"? . Hell, the term "cheating" tells you you're "supposed" to be monogamous.
Also, you can't compare "love of child" with any of this, because THAT love is unconditional and natural. But we are, mutha...we are. Don't you watch The Young & the Restless?
As funny as that statement is, it is so freaking true. We are bombarded with how much fun cheating is, however subtle. | |
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Flowers2 said: reneGade20 said: To which I humbly submit the following....
Delihla ok wait.. see? that's not fair to use her .. she has nothing to do with this lol we're talking about cheating!! lol Technically the same thing...she used her "feminine wiles" to convince Sampson (who, though strong, probably wasn't the sharpest knife in the drawer) that he looked "cuter" with short hair.... ....and before the bible scholars tar and feather me, it's MY VERSION so 
He was like a cock who thought the sun had risen to hear him crow.
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reneGade20 said: Flowers2 said: ok wait.. see? that's not fair to use her .. she has nothing to do with this lol we're talking about cheating!! lol Technically the same thing...she used her "feminine wiles" to convince Sampson (who, though strong, probably wasn't the sharpest knife in the drawer) that he looked "cuter" with short hair.... ....and before the bible scholars tar and feather me, it's MY VERSION so
well she did use her feminine wiles .. and Samson, well .. that was clear case of 'blind love' | |
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Flowers2 said: reneGade20 said: Technically the same thing...she used her "feminine wiles" to convince Sampson (who, though strong, probably wasn't the sharpest knife in the drawer) that he looked "cuter" with short hair.... ....and before the bible scholars tar and feather me, it's MY VERSION so
well she did use her feminine wiles .. and Samson, well .. that was clear case of 'blind love' As one who had a  relationship moment, I think it's fair to characterize a case of "blind love" as a case of "dumb ass"!!He was like a cock who thought the sun had risen to hear him crow.
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Stymie said: MuthaFunka said: Ya know how I know? Because I've seen TONS of females LOSE IT once they get the truth. YOU know. The ORG knows it. So let's PLEASE stop acting like this shit is foreign. Please. We've seen tales in the media - dudes getting their dicks cut off - but you wanna say ALL WOMEN are cool with the truth. Yeah, right!
But again, you guys are talking about BEFORE he does it. This is about AFTER he does it. Yeah, see...different emotions then, huh? That happened to me too. We talked about it, and then I *did* it, and he was all like, "damn, girl, I didn't know you were gonna get on it right away!" Honey, you think I ain't got a man or three waiting? How much notice do you NEED? Shoulda stated these conditions up front.  "What's 'non-sequitur' mean? Do I look it up in a Fag-to-English dictionary?" | |
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Stymie said: paintedlady said: Men do not tell the truth for TWO reasons.
PREACH!!!! 1. Drama and fights will commence. 2. She won't be monogamous either. These factors play into the lying part. Some men are not cool with getting served up by another man because his ego couldn't handle it. Just as her ego can't handle him enjoying another woman more than her.
I suck hella dick though. I don't worry about that being better with another woman.  "What's 'non-sequitur' mean? Do I look it up in a Fag-to-English dictionary?" | |
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tackam said: Stymie said: I have a freind who told a chick the truth upfront and when she found out there was another woman, she still lost it.
That happened to me too. We talked about it, and then I *did* it, and he was all like, "damn, girl, I didn't know you were gonna get on it right away!" Honey, you think I ain't got a man or three waiting? How much notice do you NEED? Shoulda stated these conditions up front.  | |
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tackam said: That happened to me too. We talked about it, and then I *did* it, and he was all like, "damn, girl, I didn't know you were gonna get on it right away!" Honey, you think I ain't got a man or three waiting? How much notice do you NEED? Shoulda stated these conditions up front.
and that's my whole point.. why waste my time? let me know upfront so I know not to invest anything into you.. | |
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Flowers2 said: tackam said: That happened to me too. We talked about it, and then I *did* it, and he was all like, "damn, girl, I didn't know you were gonna get on it right away!" Honey, you think I ain't got a man or three waiting? How much notice do you NEED? Shoulda stated these conditions up front.
and that's my whole point.. why waste my time? let me know upfront so I know not to invest anything into you.. | |
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Stymie said: Flowers2 said: and that's my whole point.. why waste my time? let me know upfront so I know not to invest anything into you.. I would be out... he wants to thrill seek, he surely doesn't love me and all the heartache is not worth it (life's too short for that) .... it would be adios and see ya  .... he's not for me.. I'd have to re-evaluate why I loved him and realize I was wrong about him.. | |
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Flowers2 said: Stymie said: If you were in love and the guy then told you he wanted to sleep with someone else, could you still leave him?
I would be out... he wants to thrill seek, he surely doesn't love me and all the heartache is not worth it (life's too short for that) .... it would be adios and see ya .... he's not for me.. I'd have to re-evaluate why I loved him and realize I was wrong about him.. | |
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Stymie said: tackam said: That happened to me too. We talked about it, and then I *did* it, and he was all like, "damn, girl, I didn't know you were gonna get on it right away!" Honey, you think I ain't got a man or three waiting? How much notice do you NEED? Shoulda stated these conditions up front. And I got a camera or two waiting .nWo: bboy87 - Timmy84 - LittleBlueCorvette - MuthaFunka - phunkdaddy - Christopher
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MuthaFunka said: Stymie said: And you got a woman or two waiting.
And I got a camera or two waiting . | |
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Stymie said: MuthaFunka said: And I got a camera or two waiting . nWo: bboy87 - Timmy84 - LittleBlueCorvette - MuthaFunka - phunkdaddy - Christopher
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MuthaFunka said: union119 said: if cheating is your hobby then ur right you dont need to get a hobby you need to get a life What do you think happens IN LIFE?...CHEATING. it happens when ur ETHICS DIE it happens in the DEATH of your true nature it would appear you have no moral code time for us to sing a lovely nursery rhyme: humpty dumpty sat on the wall humpty dumpty had a great fall all the kings horses and all the kings men couldn't put humpty together again. have a lovely unconscionable day down there in Hell | |
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Stymie said: Flowers2 said: and that's my whole point.. why waste my time? let me know upfront so I know not to invest anything into you.. I just wanted to add also .. if I know he doesn't want anything serious, then it's all another ball game.. I'd know what he's about and I can't be upset... opposed to him trying to be apart of something he knows he doesn't want and lying about it... | |
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union119 said: MuthaFunka said: What do you think happens IN LIFE?...CHEATING. it happens when ur ETHICS DIE it happens in the DEATH of your true nature it would appear you have no moral code time for us to sing a lovely nursery rhyme: humpty dumpty sat on the wall humpty dumpty had a great fall all the kings horses and all the kings men couldn't put humpty together again. have a lovely unconscionable day down there in Hell  Oops! SOMEONE'S easily offended!
Get over it, homey! It's JUST jokes...like some of those genius threads you create .nWo: bboy87 - Timmy84 - LittleBlueCorvette - MuthaFunka - phunkdaddy - Christopher
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union119 said: MuthaFunka said: What do you think happens IN LIFE?...CHEATING. it happens when ur ETHICS DIE it happens in the DEATH of your true nature it would appear you have no moral code time for us to sing a lovely nursery rhyme: humpty dumpty sat on the wall humpty dumpty had a great fall all the kings horses and all the kings men couldn't put humpty together again. have a lovely unconscionable day down there in Hell Talking moral code on a website of a man that cheated on both of his wives.  | |
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Stymie said: union119 said: it happens when ur ETHICS DIE it happens in the DEATH of your true nature it would appear you have no moral code time for us to sing a lovely nursery rhyme: humpty dumpty sat on the wall humpty dumpty had a great fall all the kings horses and all the kings men couldn't put humpty together again. have a lovely unconscionable day down there in Hell Talking moral code on a website of a man that cheated on both of his wives. Hey, let the Holy Rollers have their fun. Sometimes, it's all they have left.  nWo: bboy87 - Timmy84 - LittleBlueCorvette - MuthaFunka - phunkdaddy - Christopher
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Stymie said: union119 said: it happens when ur ETHICS DIE it happens in the DEATH of your true nature it would appear you have no moral code time for us to sing a lovely nursery rhyme: humpty dumpty sat on the wall humpty dumpty had a great fall all the kings horses and all the kings men couldn't put humpty together again. have a lovely unconscionable day down there in Hell Talking moral code on a website of a man that cheated on both of his wives. I agree on that.. some folks cross the line and go too far with that judgement stuff.. | |
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i'm curious about this up front stuff, and how it's really suppose to work. many years ago, when i was young and the world was my oyster, i was in an "agreement" with my man, come to find out long after the relationship was over, dude still lied, and still was sneaky with his, which means cheating in my book. so that translates to me that a sneaky mofo is just a sneaky mofo regardless how flexible, willing and understanding the partner is. there'd have to be a whole lot of benefits in a relationship for exclusiveness not to be part of the package for me at this point. | |
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MuthaFunka said: Stymie said: Where do you people get this stuff? Cheating happens and yes it is a bad thing. It doesn't make the cheater or cheatee some horrible person without morals. And no one is in any place to tell anyone else whether they are going to hell or not.
Talking moral code on a website of a man that cheated on both of his wives. Hey, let the Holy Rollers have their fun. Sometimes, it's all they have left.
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