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evenstar3 said: What signals do you prefer to get from a woman that let you know clearly she likes you as a friend, and nothing more?
 Just smile and if you like a guy tell him. |
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ZombieKitten said: eikonoklastes said: Exactly, JUST SAY IT. at which point? after they have tried to kiss/grope you? eeew 
you kind of want to head them off at the pass, before it gets icky like that No, just when you think you need to say it! The signal language is totally stupid, we like to be addressed directly, no bullshit! | |
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abierman said: ZombieKitten said: at which point? after they have tried to kiss/grope you? eeew
you kind of want to head them off at the pass, before it gets icky like that No, just when you think you need to say it! The signal language is totally stupid, we like to be addressed directly, no bullshit! OK. BUT! Men are giving all these excited puppy signals that tell you they like you - they probably don't even realise they are doing it 
and like loads of guys have said already on this thread, saying it doesn't deter them anyway - NDRU just hung around until the girl gave in! | |
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ZombieKitten said: abierman said: No, just when you think you need to say it! The signal language is totally stupid, we like to be addressed directly, no bullshit! OK. BUT! Men are giving all these excited puppy signals that tell you they like you - they probably don't even realise they are doing it
and like loads of guys have said already on this thread, saying it doesn't deter them anyway - NDRU just hung around until the girl gave in! Don't worry about hurting our feelings. We're over it the second another hot chick walks by. | |
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eikonoklastes said: ZombieKitten said: OK. BUT! Men are giving all these excited puppy signals that tell you they like you - they probably don't even realise they are doing it
and like loads of guys have said already on this thread, saying it doesn't deter them anyway - NDRU just hung around until the girl gave in! Don't worry about hurting our feelings. We're over it the second another hot chick walks by. 
the fear is that IT SIMPLY DOES NOT GET THROUGH  | |
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Be blunt. But even that may not work. | |
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ZombieKitten said: abierman said: No, just when you think you need to say it! The signal language is totally stupid, we like to be addressed directly, no bullshit! OK. BUT! Men are giving all these excited puppy signals that tell you they like you - they probably don't even realise they are doing it
and like loads of guys have said already on this thread, saying it doesn't deter them anyway - NDRU just hung around until the girl gave in! one day or another, any girl's self esteem will be just low enough, and I'll be there for it!    [Edited 10/20/08 16:56pm] My Legacy
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NDRU said: ZombieKitten said: OK. BUT! Men are giving all these excited puppy signals that tell you they like you - they probably don't even realise they are doing it
and like loads of guys have said already on this thread, saying it doesn't deter them anyway - NDRU just hung around until the girl gave in!  | |
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evenstar3 said: What signals do you prefer to get from a woman that let you know clearly she likes you as a friend, and nothing more?
They could say they noticed your nice stomach. You know it's BFF after that. 
But seriously, um, let me try to think back to a time when I could relate to this. I suppose being too touchy feely is something that could cause confusion. You'd have to just come out and say it at some point so that you could eventually reach a level of intimate friendship with no complications if the friendship was to get that deep. | |
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NDRU said: one day or another, any girl's self esteem will be just low enough, and I'll be there for it!
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Imago said: 1, If she mentions her boyfriend or someone she's interested in--that's a great way of letting me know without her having to get uncomfortably direct.
2. Though I prefer direct. Just tell me. 3. If she's ugly--it's s clear signal that nothing's going to happen. there are alot really. It depends on the girl and her communication style. But don't string a guy along if you know he's interested just cause you need a fallback companion. That shit is wrong.  i've been doing that all along 
i think i gave the wrong impression partially here- i'm not trying to surround myself with guys, i just had one person take clear friendship the wrong way and i wanted to avoid that in the future.  i'm not gonna worry about it anymore though, i think. | |
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ZombieKitten said: abierman said: No, just when you think you need to say it! The signal language is totally stupid, we like to be addressed directly, no bullshit! OK. BUT! Men are giving all these excited puppy signals that tell you they like you - they probably don't even realise they are doing it
and like loads of guys have said already on this thread, saying it doesn't deter them anyway - NDRU just hung around until the girl gave in! I just assume they're not interested in me even if they come over & strike up a conversation! That's probably why my friends go off at me saying "Oh Man! She was into U!" after they walk away. Most of the time they think I'm Gay anyway! | |
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ZombieKitten said: ufoclub said: Possibly her making out with and doing another guy right before and after she always hangs out with you...
omg I went out with this guy once, I was SO NOT INTERESTED IN HIM but he was gonna keep calling me, I just knew it. The only way to get through to him was to organise to meet up with another guy (that I WAS into) and pash him in front of the first guy It's the best way! Get's the point across. My art book: http://www.lulu.com/spotl...ecomicskid
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ufoclub said: ZombieKitten said: omg I went out with this guy once, I was SO NOT INTERESTED IN HIM but he was gonna keep calling me, I just knew it. The only way to get through to him was to organise to meet up with another guy (that I WAS into) and pash him in front of the first guy It's the best way! Get's the point across. She said 'pash' | |
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Fauxie said: ufoclub said: It's the best way! Get's the point across. She said 'pash' 
I LOVE using that word on the org  | |
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So anyway, he left already.
But he brought me a gift!!!!  he gave me a 4mB flashdrive
is that cause for concern? guys, do you just give any girl a flashdrive or only someone special? he made it sound like he just has them lying around at work, you know, all casual like. | |
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ZombieKitten said: So anyway, he left already.
But he brought me a gift!!!! he gave me a 4mB flashdrive
is that cause for concern? guys, do you just give any girl a flashdrive or only someone special? he made it sound like he just has them lying around at work, you know, all casual like.If he thought it'd impress U either way! I think he's trying to get into your USB port! | |
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Amaxx said: ZombieKitten said: So anyway, he left already.
But he brought me a gift!!!! he gave me a 4mB flashdrive
is that cause for concern? guys, do you just give any girl a flashdrive or only someone special? he made it sound like he just has them lying around at work, you know, all casual like.If he thought it'd impress U either way! I think he's trying to get into your USB port! I haven't showered for 3 days now and my hair looks like wet string. I bet he wasn't expecting that when he arrived  | |
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ZombieKitten said: Amaxx said: If he thought it'd impress U either way! I think he's trying to get into your USB port! I haven't showered for 3 days now and my hair looks like wet string. I bet he wasn't expecting that when he arrived Ahhhh! He definately thought U were a computer geek then! Thus the 4Gb stick! Plus, he may like that look! 
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Amaxx said: ZombieKitten said: I haven't showered for 3 days now and my hair looks like wet string. I bet he wasn't expecting that when he arrived Ahhhh! He definately thought U were a computer geek then! Thus the 4Gb stick! Plus, he may like that look!
damnit!!!! I can't win  | |
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ZombieKitten said: Amaxx said: Ahhhh! He definately thought U were a computer geek then! Thus the 4Gb stick! Plus, he may like that look!
damnit!!!! I can't win Maybe U were lucky and it was just a pitty gift! For the stringy hair & B.O. and all! | |
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Amaxx said: ZombieKitten said: damnit!!!! I can't win Maybe U were lucky and it was just a pitty gift! For the stringy hair & B.O. and all! yeah but he handed that over before he got a whiff | |
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ZombieKitten said: Amaxx said: Maybe U were lucky and it was just a pitty gift! For the stringy hair & B.O. and all! yeah but he handed that over before he got a whiff Yep! He wants A shot at the Title! | |
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Amaxx said: ZombieKitten said: yeah but he handed that over before he got a whiff Yep! He wants A shot at the Title!  | |
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ZombieKitten said: Amaxx said: Yep! He wants A shot at the Title! Playing innocent or vague just spurs them on! Remember???? | |
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Amaxx said: ZombieKitten said: Playing innocent or vague just spurs them on! Remember???? | |
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I don't know ....I'm hopeless ....never like to hurt anyones feelings | |
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ZombieKitten said: Amaxx said: Playing innocent or vague just spurs them on! Remember???? Ohhhhh stop being coy! | |
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Ocean said: I don't know ....I'm hopeless ....never like to hurt anyones feelings
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ZombieKitten said: Ocean said: I don't know ....I'm hopeless ....never like to hurt anyones feelings
No that means I like em.... remember  | |
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