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MEN: a question What signals do you prefer to get from a woman that let you know clearly she likes you as a friend, and nothing more?  | |
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evenstar3 said: What signals do you prefer to get from a woman that let you know clearly she likes you as a friend, and nothing more?
don't fuck them. You CANNOT use the name of God, or religion, to justify acts of violence, to hurt, to hate, to discriminate- Madonna
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I need to know this one too, by tomorrow thanks! 
Here in Australia I've noticed men calling me "mate" a lot, to specifically signify that there is nothing more to it. Sometimes a little too vehemently, making me sure they LIKE like me, but putting some distance in there, which is awkward and weird  | |
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ehuffnsd said: evenstar3 said: What signals do you prefer to get from a woman that let you know clearly she likes you as a friend, and nothing more?
don't fuck them. well, that's easy. the idea is to avoid any implication that you might want to fuck them  | |
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evenstar3 said: ehuffnsd said: don't fuck them. well, that's easy. the idea is to avoid any implication that you might want to fuck them no hugging that might lead to hugfucking  | |
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evenstar3 said: ehuffnsd said: don't fuck them. well, that's easy. the idea is to avoid any implication that you might want to fuck them it's probably a gay thing were sometimes you fuck with people you have no intention of having a romantic relationship with. You CANNOT use the name of God, or religion, to justify acts of violence, to hurt, to hate, to discriminate- Madonna
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I'm not a man , but I think it's best to just tell them. In my experience, sometimes men do not pick up the signals. I had one friend that was after me for years and he never got the hint that I wasn't interested. Finally, I grew some balls and told him that I just wanna be friends and nothing more. He was upset, but it's better than dragging him along. I'm terrible at this kinda thing 'cause I never wanna hurt anyone's feelings 
forgot a letter edit! [Edited 10/19/08 19:48pm] | |
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ZombieKitten said: evenstar3 said: well, that's easy. the idea is to avoid any implication that you might want to fuck them no hugging that might lead to hugfucking 
good point! | |
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but please could a guy tell me also, all the things I need to avoid:
(this guy I went to high school with is dropping off a CD tomorrow at lunchtime, and I know he still LIKES me  and I'm pretty shy, but friendly, and laugh too much when I'm nervous. Which probably all comes across as totally flirting  )
Should I be yawning and looking at my watch a lot?  | |
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JessieJ said: I'm not a man
, but I think it's best to just tell them. In my experience, sometimes men do not pick up the signals. I had one friend that was after me for years and he never got the hint that I wasn't interested. Finally, I grew some balls and told him that I just wanna be friends and nothing more. He was upset, but it's better than dragging him along. I'm terrible at this kinda thing 'cause I never wanna hurt anyone's feelings
forgot a letter edit! [Edited 10/19/08 19:48pm] true...my thing is that i'm meeting people i haven't known very long, who i'm getting to know and love hanging out/partying with, but just as friends. | |
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Remain formal! No gentle touches while talking! Laugh don't giggle! no fluttering of eyelids. Act like a guy would! | |
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Amaxx said: Remain formal! No gentle touches while talking! Laugh don't giggle! no fluttering of eyelids. Act like a guy would!
and how would a guy act then? | |
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Amaxx said: Remain formal! No gentle touches while talking! Laugh don't giggle! no fluttering of eyelids. Act like a guy would!
i think i only have two modes: terribly shy or flirting.  | |
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evenstar3 said: JessieJ said: I'm not a man
, but I think it's best to just tell them. In my experience, sometimes men do not pick up the signals. I had one friend that was after me for years and he never got the hint that I wasn't interested. Finally, I grew some balls and told him that I just wanna be friends and nothing more. He was upset, but it's better than dragging him along. I'm terrible at this kinda thing 'cause I never wanna hurt anyone's feelings
forgot a letter edit! [Edited 10/19/08 19:48pm] true...my thing is that i'm meeting people i haven't known very long, who i'm getting to know and love hanging out/partying with, but just as friends. Oh...I've got nothing then I'ma lurk up in here now and see what the men have to say...  | |
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evenstar3 said: Amaxx said: Remain formal! No gentle touches while talking! Laugh don't giggle! no fluttering of eyelids. Act like a guy would!
i think i only have two modes: terribly shy or flirting. guys think me being shy is a signal to chase me
I've never actually intentionally flirted, never had to  | |
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ZombieKitten said: Amaxx said: Remain formal! No gentle touches while talking! Laugh don't giggle! no fluttering of eyelids. Act like a guy would!
and how would a guy act then? Contantly adjusting their crotch. Burping. Farting. No effort taken in personal appearance etc! I didn't finish that statement!  Act like a guy would towards his male friends! | |
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Amaxx said: ZombieKitten said:
and how would a guy act then? Contantly adjusting their crotch. Burping. Farting. No effort taken in personal appearance etc! I didn't finish that statement! Act like a guy would towards his male friends!I haven't taken a shower since Saturday! 
(darn it, but I had a spa last night  )
I could eat a lot of bread and milk tomorrow for breakfast  | |
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ZombieKitten said: Amaxx said: Contantly adjusting their crotch. Burping. Farting. No effort taken in personal appearance etc! I didn't finish that statement! Act like a guy would towards his male friends!I haven't taken a shower since Saturday!
(darn it, but I had a spa last night )
I could eat a lot of bread and milk tomorrow for breakfast Good on ya Mate!  U're on the right track! | |
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ZombieKitten said: evenstar3 said: i think i only have two modes: terribly shy or flirting. guys think me being shy is a signal to chase me
I've never actually intentionally flirted, never had to i was told by one person that i come off as shy and gullible, which apparently is hot or something  i don't get it. | |
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evenstar3 said: ZombieKitten said: guys think me being shy is a signal to chase me
I've never actually intentionally flirted, never had to i was told by one person that i come off as shy and gullible, which apparently is hot or something i don't get it.men are weird | |
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ZombieKitten said: evenstar3 said: i was told by one person that i come off as shy and gullible, which apparently is hot or something i don't get it.men are weird | |
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ZombieKitten said: evenstar3 said: i was told by one person that i come off as shy and gullible, which apparently is hot or something i don't get it.men are weird  case closed!If you will, so will I | |
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thekidsgirl said: ZombieKitten said: men are weird case closed!I'm sayin' ..Co-sign ... Zombie's post alone should be made a sticky .. | |
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ZombieKitten said: evenstar3 said: i was told by one person that i come off as shy and gullible, which apparently is hot or something i don't get it.men are weird Ahem! most Men! Not all! | |
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evenstar3 said: Amaxx said: Remain formal! No gentle touches while talking! Laugh don't giggle! no fluttering of eyelids. Act like a guy would!
i think i only have two modes: terribly shy or flirting. U need 2 find the right mix of the 2! | |
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Amaxx said: ZombieKitten said: men are weird Ahem! most Men! Not all! prove it! | |
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That's easy...
ever watch WEEDS? remember the Israeli chick with a passion for strap-ons? 'nuff said... we'd just be friends! A working class Hero is something to be ~ Lennon |
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ZombieKitten said: Amaxx said: Ahem! most Men! Not all! prove it! What are the parameters that I have to operate within? | |
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RenHoek said: That's easy...
ever watch WEEDS? remember the Israeli chick with a passion for strap-ons? 'nuff said... we'd just be friends! 
i tried to scare off a guy by telling him i was really into bisexual guys, and over the course of the night he went from saying 'guys lose their manhood when they do that' to 'c'mon, we could find a guy together, i'm all for new experiences!' | |
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Women are complex. Men are just vexed. It impinges my nerves, violently. Sociology is perplexing, period. This sig is just a fig of your imago-neigh-shun | |
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