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PrintableFlowers2 said: hokie said: I agree. Even if you are married I have a real problem with the word "property". IMO that kind of thinking is detrimental to the relationship and the individuals. Marriage for me is about two people that are already happy on their own who want to come together and be partners for life. I know not everyone defines it that way and not everyone feels the need to get married and that's cool. But, whether I'm married or not I will NEVER be anyone's property. uhm.. it's just slang terminology (not to mention a song).. I didn't realize you people would take this so personally .. Oh, I didn't realize you were using slang or referring to a song. I take it personally because I was in a bad marriage with a controlling partner. So, I do take it seriously. And, I wasn't coming down on you. Don't know if you felt that way or not. If you did then I'm sorry.  I was just stating how I feel. | |
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hokie said: Flowers2 said: uhm.. it's just slang terminology (not to mention a song).. I didn't realize you people would take this so personally .. Oh, I didn't realize you were using slang or referring to a song. I take it personally because I was in a bad marriage with a controlling partner. So, I do take it seriously. And, I wasn't coming down on you. Don't know if you felt that way or not. If you did then I'm sorry. I was just stating how I feel.oh I'm sorry about that.. I didn't mean anything.. and you're right.. no one is property.. | |
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obsessed said: myfavorite said: sometmes...I flirt for laughs....
 ... Which means you're gonna do it no matter what the circumstances are, so why did you ask?  not necessarily. I was having a heated discussion about it with a friend and went to the org to find more opinions. if you flirt with me and i don't want it.....ya know???? THE B EST BE YOURSELF AS LONG AS YOUR SELF ISNT A DYCK[/r]
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Flowers2 said: I have had the flip side of what you asked.. guys trying to be slick and try to hide it in front of their gf's... and I haven't done crap, I'm just minding my business ..but the chick gives me dirty looks anyway
 .. uhm hello? shouldn't you be pissed @ your man?? my man hasn't flirted with you.....yet. ... THE B EST BE YOURSELF AS LONG AS YOUR SELF ISNT A DYCK[/r]
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NDRU said: Flowers2 said: it is tacky... there's plenty other single men out there to flirt with ..... no need to steal somebody else's property ... it's not stealing and we're not property, but it can be tacky  ...cause now i'm thinking what is the difference between flirting and teasing???? THE B EST BE YOURSELF AS LONG AS YOUR SELF ISNT A DYCK[/r]
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Flowers2 said: hokie said: I agree. Even if you are married I have a real problem with the word "property". IMO that kind of thinking is detrimental to the relationship and the individuals. Marriage for me is about two people that are already happy on their own who want to come together and be partners for life. I know not everyone defines it that way and not everyone feels the need to get married and that's cool. But, whether I'm married or not I will NEVER be anyone's property. uhm.. it's just slang terminology (not to mention a song).. I didn't realize you people would take this so personally .. sorry I wasn't taking it personally, but maybe I was taking your comment too literally My Legacy
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myfavorite said: NDRU said: it's not stealing and we're not property, but it can be tacky ...cause now i'm thinking what is the difference between flirting and teasing???? that's the question, I think. If you flirt and someone thinks that that is an indication of availability, then it's definitely not harmless. I have flirted with people who knew that I had a girlfriend and they had no chance (and I had no chance either  ) and it felt very innocent. Maybe they felt different, but you'd have to ask them.My Legacy
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how would you feel if you were the girlfriend, and someone flirted with your bf right in front of you?
it's also inappropriate to spell inappropriate wrong | |
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