is it hard for you to say sorry when you know you're wrong?

sometimes i know i'm wrong and feel badly and i apologize (and try not to do it again).

but wonder how many people do actually apologize when they know they're wrong?
[Edited 10/2/08 1:11am]

so, if i've hurt you, i'm sorry. please forgive me.

LoyalAndTrue said:

not at all

momentofbliss said:

i applaud you.

do you find that others find it hard to say they're sorry?

I find it's not hard for me to admit to myself that I've done wrong and should apologize.

But to actually bring myself to say it out loud is still a pretty big step at this point.

I find it hard to not say I'm sorry.
I'll apologize even when I know I wasn't wrong, even when the other person is obnoxious, I'll find something to apologize about. It's a survival skill that I had to learn and it still lingers.

It's not that har for me to say I'm sorry.

P&R ?

No, it's cathartic. And those three words - "I am sorry" - are the key to a happy marriage.

If I've truly done something wrong it's the easiest thing in the world...

If I know I've done something wrong, I don't have a problem saying "I'm sorry".

obsessed said:

Well i know a couple of bitches who better get their ass over and apologise, not mentioning names.

I say I'm sorry and apologize easily. I've even been told I was too polite and asked why do I or why was I apologizing/saying sorry for things, which struck me as odd at the time (different people). I think it's a natural part of my personality at this point.

Sorry is easy for me.

RodeoSchro said:

yes, i agree, it goes a long way.

(and not bringing up the past repeatedly - i've still lots to learn.)

LoyalAndTrue said:

Okay, accepted.

LoyalAndTrue said:

nope. but when someone says "IF i hurt you, i'm sorry", they may as well not apologize.

if they dont know what they've done, they are more dangerous than people who do.

shellyevon said:

i'm apologetic as well.

union119 said:

good point.