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Reply #30 posted 10/01/08 5:36pm

ZombieKitten	momentofbliss said: fellas... don't allow this shit... trust me... next thing they'll have the remote and will expect you to fetch them their beer sounds GREAT! make sure you open the beer too thx!
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Reply #31 posted 10/01/08 6:54pm

union119	how big is your noodle
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Reply #32 posted 10/01/08 7:07pm

Christopher

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oww i dont want no scrubs.

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Reply #33 posted 10/01/08 7:20pm

sexxydancer	Never did,never will.
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Reply #34 posted 10/01/08 7:40pm

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Christopher said:

oww i dont want no scrubs.

surviving on the thought of loving you, it's just like the water
I ain't felt this way in years...

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Reply #35 posted 10/01/08 7:57pm

momentofbliss	ZombieKitten said: momentofbliss said: fellas... don't allow this shit... trust me... next thing they'll have the remote and will expect you to fetch them their beer sounds GREAT! make sure you open the beer too thx! see what i mean fellas... where will it end?
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Reply #36 posted 10/01/08 8:12pm

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I sure do! Especially now that my man isn't working and is trying to finish up his schooling. I hold doors open to all genders as well. Just being courteous. smile

"When words fail, music speaks..." --- Shakespeare

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Reply #37 posted 10/01/08 9:19pm

applekisses	I've been called as much. I think the term is a strange one, though.
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Reply #38 posted 10/02/08 1:11am

Flowers2	if he is my man - yes .. only boyfriends would get this type of treatment... but just a casual date? absolutely not
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Reply #39 posted 10/02/08 2:11am

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I always open the door for people, especially if they're hampered by something they're carrying or by children.

And I always offer to pay or at least split the bill unless it's established ahead of time the other person is definitely paying.

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Reply #40 posted 10/02/08 2:14am

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Flowers2 said:

if he is my man - yes .. only boyfriends would get this type of treatment...

but just a casual date? absolutely not

Why not?

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Reply #41 posted 10/02/08 2:15am

chillichocahol ic	I'm gentle if u ask nicely PRINCE IS WATCHING U " When an Artist Creates, whatever they create belongs to society" U can't polish a turd.. but u can roll it in glitter In my Profile Pic
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Reply #42 posted 10/02/08 2:16am

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I'm very gentle, yes.

"LOVE YOURSELF AS ALL PEOPLE"

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Reply #43 posted 10/02/08 2:26am

Flowers2	meow85 said: Flowers2 said: if he is my man - yes .. only boyfriends would get this type of treatment... but just a casual date? absolutely not Why not? chivalry and manners... and I meant in dating, if a guy is interested in dating, I'd want to see the gentleman that he is
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Reply #44 posted 10/02/08 2:28am

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Flowers2 said:

meow85 said:

Why not?

chivalry and manners... and I meant in dating, if a guy is interested in dating, I'd want to see the gentleman that he is

So you'd expect the guy to open doors and pick up bills, but you wouldn't return the treatment?

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Reply #45 posted 10/02/08 2:38am

Flowers2	meow85 said: Flowers2 said: chivalry and manners... and I meant in dating, if a guy is interested in dating, I'd want to see the gentleman that he is So you'd expect the guy to open doors and pick up bills, but you wouldn't return the treatment? that's usually what a gentleman does... treats the woman like a lady.. that's how respect is established in the beginning..
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Reply #46 posted 10/02/08 2:43am

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Flowers2 said:

meow85 said:

So you'd expect the guy to open doors and pick up bills, but you wouldn't return the treatment?

that's usually what a gentleman does... treats the woman like a lady.. that's how respect is established in the beginning..

Then how does the woman treat the man?

To me it should always be reciprocal and be some approximation of equality, or there's no play. I'd feel very uncomfortable expecting a man to act like a butler that buys things for me and pulls out chairs for me. I know some women dig it, but I couldn't handle the inherent inequality in being treated like a "princess". It places the male in a strangely subservient position, and sets up the female in a position where repayment is expected, if you catch my drift.
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Reply #47 posted 10/02/08 3:05am

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meow85 said:

Flowers2 said:

that's usually what a gentleman does... treats the woman like a lady.. that's how respect is established in the beginning..

I understand what you mean, the obligation ... but after 2 dates, my mind is made up on him cause I don't think a female should take advantage of a guy, if she's not interested, she should cut it off... a female should always be prepared to pay for herself.. if he becomes a good friend of mine, then sure, I'll pay for him.... good friends and boyfriends I'll take care of..

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Reply #48 posted 10/02/08 3:17am

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common courtesy isn't the same as going out of your way. rolleyes

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Reply #49 posted 10/02/08 3:21am

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Conclusion: In an equal society there should be none serving the other.
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Reply #50 posted 10/02/08 11:15am

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Gimmesomehorns said:

In this times when people are talking about gender equality, wouldnt it be ok for a woman opening the door for a man or pay the bill when they are out eating or buy him a drink etc. gentleman maners.
Could you do that too a man?
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Reply #51 posted 10/02/08 12:38pm

jaimestarr79	Ya, but do you all of you women do it without the alterior motive of wanting some dick in return.
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Reply #52 posted 10/02/08 2:49pm

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jaimestarr79 said:

Ya, but do you all of you women do it without the alterior motive of wanting some dick in return. lol

Courtesy or not, I'm gonna want dick anyway....but that's just me. lol

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Reply #53 posted 10/02/08 2:53pm

Flowers2	KidaDynamite said: jaimestarr79 said: Ya, but do you all of you women do it without the alterior motive of wanting some dick in return. Courtesy or not, I'm gonna want dick anyway....but that's just me. lol
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