evenstar3 said:

i say

ZombieKitten said:

Am I the only one here confused by this senetence? Are there other parents that think there is such a thing as an "innocent kiss" on a baby penis?

I dig you Charlotte....but am thoroughly perplexed by that statement.....

Ocean said:

That not what I said, read carefully.
It is if the person looking at that picture of said baby is saying "Oh look, he looks like he's going to have a big one" it is suggestive, that is exactly why men don't do it concerning little girls. Think about it, if any man said, oh look she's got a nice one then the man would be thought of as a sicko. A double standard, and to me it is equally as sick to pay attention to a baby boys dick in any fashion. IT IS PEDOPHILIA plain and simple.

OMG this thread is becoming a real peach!!

pardonme4livin said:

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Shorty said:

AGAIN... read the post. I did not say "look innocently an a child's ENTIRE body, I said look at a baby's dick. Women have looked at my baby's dick while I was changing him and they HAD to make a comment, or try to touch it or poke at the scrotum. When ever a baby boy is nude some dumb assed sicko woman always makes a comment around me about the size of the boy's cock. SICK!!!!!

If you haven't been around that then you are one of the lucky few. My son's always got comments, at first I shook it off as innocent, but YOU DON"T SEE MEN DOING THAT, just nasty women. It is common. I had a ultrasound pic of my son, and in jest my friends made comments that if the sexes were reversed, shit would hit the fan. OK!

ZombieKitten said:

You are just not reading the comment. Would you like it if your aunt looked at your innocent child running down the hall naked right out of the tub, and aunty says, "Oh my, he's going to be large when he gets older"

YUCK!!!!! THAT IS NOT COOL! Celebration my left asscheek, let an uncle say that about your daughter.

And please don't mistake my passion for judging you (or anyone else here) in anyway, its just that people try not to see women as child molesters, but this is a great example.
People like her need to rot in jail. This is what a child molester looks like people, SCARY, because she is an attractive young woman. sad.
[Edited 9/30/08 9:45am]

momentofbliss said:

THANK YOU!!!!! EXACTLY!!! Why do women think this is OK?!! Its women like that which need to be slapped hard 'til their mouths bleed for saying disgusting crap like that. Absolutely disgusting.

pardonme4livin said:

nope...you're not alone in your confusion.

The key part is that she took a picture of having oral sex with her toddler and also that she told her friend that she had thought about doing that while changing his diaper.


WRONG!!!

Shorty said:

Not off topic, what that sick woman did is where that mentality stems from. People need to talk about it so that others can recognize it before shit gets outta hand like what that sicko did to her own boy. It starts off by men and women saying little things that seem innocent. Then it leads to more bold behavior. She always liked that little boys dick, and I'm telling you its alot more common than you think. We tend to be more sensitive in general about comments of sexual nature to our daughters than our sons, this is why so many boys get molested and it is never understood or recognized until the damage is too far gone.

paintedlady said:

if you read my comment I said I understand what you were saying and I was only extending the topic to avoid further confusion and giving my opinion on it as well.
you got some fucked up women in your life...I'm sorry but that's the damn truth!
I've got 2 sons of which only a handful of close family and friends have seen me change them and NONE of them ever have commented let alone tried to touch them! that's totally fucked up and I'd slap that bitch with the quickness if it ever happened. they be perma banned from my life I don't care who it was.

applekisses said:

It sure is.

Shorty said:

What they did was fucked up!!! Its shocking to say the least, I was speechless. I didn't know what to do when a friend came over and poked my son's nuts and said, "wow, he's got big ones"

I thought to myself, *don't cuss her out, she doesn't mean it that way, just NEVER change a diaper around her again*

Hell, my aunt, cousins, and others did similar stuff too.This I also found to be cultural as well, some people put a lot of unnecessary emphasis on a child's penis. That whole "machismo" , a man's man, screw lots of women, caveman mentality.
[Edited 9/30/08 9:31am]

paintedlady said:

U will notice then too...that I was refering to what I highlighted in bold..how is that relervant to discussing size or sexualizing a child?

Ocean said:

Is that a real word? Tired Drunkard TART Kiwi!
[Edited 9/30/08 9:40am]

Ocean said:

Because to be plain and blunt, the doctor got tired of mothers bragging about and carrying on about their boys dicks. Do you see expectant fathers taking about their daughters pussies?

"Oh look its going to be a girl, and that pussy looks just like her mom's pussy, she's going to break some hearts with that thing."

What would you say to your husband if he said that about your daughters ultrasound picture?



In an ultrasound, there is NO need to take a picture of the child penis. During the ultrasound they sex the child in the imaging, but the doctors at my clinic did away with actually photographing the genitalia all together. You can only get a foot or a face shot or a side view, no "peepee" shots.
[Edited 9/30/08 9:49am]

paintedlady said:

huh..we maybe neighbors but I feel like you live a world away from me. very strange people in your neck of the woods.

paintedlady said:

U are certainly going to the extreme here.....for starters it is a male thing to brag about penis size.....and as a we all know size does matter...there was even a thread here about this in the last couple of days....hell my own husband bragged about an ultrasound pic of our son...saying something like hes going to b big like his dad (now of course he was trying to b funny and in NO way would I say that is looking at his child in a inappropiate way ....nor would I say 99% of any comments said by man or women about a babies penis size is the start of sexual molestation.
And that is what it sounds like ur saying

Shorty said:

What is strange? My sarcasm? It is nasty to check out baby boys' dicks and keep pictures, if you think its OK then we are worlds apart.

Ocean said:

Would you be OK then if say your friend (female) said, oh look you son looks like he's going to have a big one.

Tell me why he doesn't put the same emphasis on his daughter's pussy?

paintedlady said:

the people around you are strange! you got women carrying around ultasound pics of their babies peckers and bragging about them ..so much so that they had to put a stop to it at your doc office and you got relatives that like to make whack ass comments and touch little boys privites...that's what's strange.
no...I don't think any of the stuff you mentioned is OK.

paintedlady said:

I think there is a certain level of inappropiate behaviour depending on the intent, person and circumstance....hopefully we are all smart enough to know the difference.
As for why he doesn't put emphasis on female ..ask society ...or use ur common sense ...size is not something that can ever really be associated with a girl
U have made some pretty huge general comments grouping a whole lot of people into looking at children in a inappropiate way and even starting behaviour that leads to molestation....I take offense at that as Im sure many others do.....

Ocean said:

If it makes you feel uncomfortable then it should. I ask that people think about it. And EXACTLY, society tells us its Ok to play with our baby boys dicks and comment on our baby boys because of that caveman machismo mentality.

I am using my common sense, not lumping a bunch of people together, just calling out disgusting behavior that isn't checked, It needs to be checked.
Why would it be OK to put emphasis on a boys dick and not a girls pussy.
You yourself even said it stems from a sexualized behavior, and not of innocence stating that "size matters".
So believe me, if it is creepy for a man to talk about a daughter's body parts, (breast for example), then it should be equally creepy for a woman to talk about her son's dick.

Its a plain double standard, that nasty assed woman that sucked her own son's dick did so because she didn't see anything wrong with it, that dummy even took pictures. Most people are not that dense and will never go to that extreme, but it does happen, and we as a society need to start putting boundaries on our sons for their protection as we do for our daughters. You may be OK, and feel a sense of pride with the fact that your son is hung low, but then why not have the same pride with a daughter and her rounded ass and full breasts as well?

See it is sexual, which may lead to sexual feelings about children. Not all people may molest a boy that comment on his dick, but why condone that behavior?

Shorty said:

... which would make you pretty much as big a piece of shit as this woman is.

Classy.

FuNkeNsteiN said:

I don't give a fuck what you think about me.

Shorty said:

Ok.

paintedlady said:

I wouldn't go that far. I think more often than not, it's the same mentality behind a girl or woman who gets her first male cat or dog and can't stop looking. Unlike men who are exposed to each other's junk on a pretty frequent basis, women are sheltered from genitalia, both male and female. So seeing it up close can spark a strange sort of curiosity.

I think it's reaching pretty far to say all women who comment on their little boy's genitals or an animals are pedophiles or into beastiality. It's statistically impossible, seeing how common the behaviour is.

angelcat said:

Why kiss the kid's junk in the first place?

meow85 said:

I agree with you, I was more referring to women that cross the line and act based on sexual behavior instead of natural curiosity. I wouldn't care if a woman glanced and said "Oh, he's been circumcised. Why did you do that?"
as opposed to "Dang, he's got a big one." To me there is a difference.
Both situations can be seen as "no big deal", but to me the latter should be seen as a very big deal, because of what can happen. To only act when something already has happened is wrong to me.