Baby daddy's daddy drama....


He's such an ass.

What's wrong?

hokie said:

I guesed. Try not an let him in your head.. I know thats hard, but its what he wants.

Thanks guys...

My ex-father-in-law is a monumental jerk.

OK...let me ask you this. Muse, maybe you can tell me since you're divorced.

If you felt as though your ex's parents totally disrespected you as the childrens' mother would it drive you nuts? I just found out today that my ex's father has been going to my kids' school and having visits and such. OK. The visit isn't an issue. I want them to see each other. But, I think I should have been given a courtesy call. My ex and I had a really nasty divorce. The ex's dad blames me for the divorce and pretty much can't stand me.

When I was going through the divorce my ex tricked me into leaving the house then changed all the locks and took all the money out of our account. He informed me he was going to take my kids away from me and that he had already contacted a lawyer. So, I am pretty leery of anyone doing things concerning the kids without letting me know.

Some men are assholes!!!

MIGUELGOMEZ said:

Get this! He's a minister!!!





He is a reason why I don't like religion.

hokie said:

You know what? That doesn't surprise me.

hokie said:

Bastards..

Hang in there hotness..

hokie said:

I have a similar hell with my X mother in law. My gig is, as long as she doesnt bad mouth me in any way shape or form to them/around them Ill let her exist. Id give em a quick card or note saying you think its fantastic he sees them but to please just let you know. One question however, do you fear your father in law is a flight risk? If you do in any way, we have a horse of a whole other color there.

MIGUELGOMEZ said:

Thanks Miguel. You know...my relationship with my ex has gotten a lot better. We're doing a pretty good job of co-parenting and being flexible and looking out for the other's needs, but his dad is impossible.

He even had the nerve to "warn" me that if I didn't change my "bad attitude" it would cause me trouble.



I love threats...

You should want me to come kick him in the nuts?

hokie said:

OMG!!!! If someone said that to me I would flip!!! It's like he's trying to make you mad on purpose. That's even more enraging!!!

Ugh!!! I'm so mad for you now!!!!

Stymie said:

and you should want me to photograph the incident.

Muse2NOPharaoh said:

Not really, but because he's been so disrespectful in the past I am just a teensy bid paranoid. Plus, he is the kind of person that just does what he wants. If he wants to do something and someone tells him he shouldn't he will anyway if he believes strongly enough that he is in the right. He DID say to me, "Well, he IS my grandson you know..."

I did tell him to let me know and he said no problem. So I don't think it would be an issue, but I can't help but worry a little.

Stymie said:

ditto!

where's the line start?








sorry to hear he's causing you grief and a courtesy call about his visits should be a requirement not just an option...

Stymie said:

I respect my ex as the father of my kids, but now I see where he gets some of his ridiculousness from.

Isn't that saying, "The apple doesn't fall far from the tree" ?

hokie said:

I know you are super duper busy but I suggest you make that fucker go to court to get visitation and I don't care if they are his grandkids. You are their mother and you deserve respect.

hokie said:

Mind if I am totally pissed off on your behalf?
Meddling, righteous inlaws are the absolute worst. You have every right to be leery.
Keep it as positive as possible though, your kids do have a right to know their grandparents and they will form their own opinions of them soon enough.

Stymie said:

I agree

hokie said:

i'll do one better, i'll come cut his goddamn nuts OFF.

grrr.

why did the school allow a non parent to visit a student??

Hun, I don't blame you for feeling uncomfortable with those visits. Have you tried to talk to your boy's school?

Stymie said:

You mean make the grandad get visitation? Or my ex? My ex does have visitation. We are getting along pretty good. The dad is the problem.

hokie said:

I know what its like to have someone around our kids we could do without altogether. I hated it... now they are older and hardly see her. ( They also are old enough to have caught what a poophead she is and dislike her and her presence for themselves) Hang in there lady.

BlackAdder7 said:

that's what Im wondering as well???

hokie said:

Yep the grandfather.