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I say put the house on the market....and kick her out when it's sold.  Peace&BeWild | |
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PoorGoo813 said: An explaination is pointless at this time.
I say put the house on the market....and kick her out when it's sold.  agreed!One minute they want peace……
Then do everything to make it go away.  | |
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What a complete BITCH! Mate - you're better off without her. This woman is a coward who deserves whatever karma is going to deal her and you deserve better than someone like this. Yes, you do deserve an explanation but I would say don't give her the satisfaction of knowing that it still bothers you by demanding one - hold your head up high, stick your chin up and move on with your life. Let me tell you, there is nothing that's going to piss her off more than seeing you looking good, feeling good and doing well in your life!
The house is another issue - You really need to pull your share of the house. Why the hell should that bitch be sitting pretty in a property that you own half of, moving blokes in and out?! I'd be amicable about it and say that you're looking to your future, looking at buying your own place and ask her to make arrangements to have it valued and start procedings to find the money to buy you out. Better do it now than have to battle with her when you find a special someone that you want to settle down with - that way the money will be there, accruing interest for when you really need it. I'm not stopping. I haven't even taken my coat off
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Why the hell did you move out??? I would have slapped her ass into the middle of next week if she's cheating.....she sure as hell would not be staying under the same roof as I would.....  | |
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Well I started up an email exchange with mine (she didn't even know that I had been informed by third person, but we had broken up already because of the acting funny part)) and got an explanation and even an apology and even a wish to hold on to what we had before I shut the door and went with zero contact. My art book: http://www.lulu.com/spotl...ecomicskid
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ZombieKitten said: heartbeatocean said: I don't know. A relationship that long term, there must have been signs this was going to happen. People may be cowards by not telling the truth, while others may also be cowards by refusing to see/hear the truth. These things can only happen when there is a lack of communication, which tends to be the fault of both parties. I think it's rare that people get blindsided by such a drastic turn of events. It was brewing for a while. usually guys don't see any signs or cues from their partner until they run right into them  They need things SPELLED OUT. How many times have I heard a guy say "I thought we were happy. I didn't see it coming"oh  | |
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emm said: write your feelings down. purge all the anger.
write her a letter letting all your thoughts out. then sit on the letter a while. if you still want to send it to her, do so. Don't send it!  I wouldn't even write it, but that's a whole other debate.
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ufoclub said: Well I started up an email exchange with mine (she didn't even know that I had been informed by third person, but we had broken up already because of the acting funny part)) and got an explanation and even an apology and even a wish to hold on to what we had before I shut the door and went with zero contact.
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I think an explanation would just cause you turmoil. Move on as best you can. I wish you all the luck.
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HisRoyalBadness07 said: all the sudden she starts acting wierd for two weeks and then is asking me to move out which I did immediately
why did you do that? | |
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I never understood why getting closure is so important to some people. If you know what you know and it's true then what more do you want to hear? probably things that will just hurt you and make your mind scramble. I know it's easier said than done but I thought I'd give you advice and it sounds like this is a time for you to learn how to love yourself more. If you can do that I'm sure you can find someone one day that will love you and be worth it. To Sir, with Love | |
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