i'm one of those people who can't get out of their own way long enough to take hold of their dreams. help me org family <=this is how my face looks

SirPsycho said:

go do some vol work on the childrens cancer ward

you'll be inspired like you never thought you could ...

Mach said:

this isn't a bad idea

You get one shot at life. That alone should be motivation enough. If you have an idea of what you want to achieve then break it down into sub goals. Write it down, and check off each smaller goal you achieve along the way.

The fact that you feel and recognise yourself to 'a loser' tells me that you rightfully believe you are worth more and see the need for change. Thats a very positive start.. you just need to recognise it as that.

Books are a great way to get motivated and i dont mean those 'change your life' nonsense books. Who do you admire? Read about subjects and people you admire. How did they succeed? What obstacles did they face?

take responsibilty for your own life. never point fingers as to why you are not where you should be. Your life and the quality it is in rests soley with the individual.

Best of luck.


Start today.

i haven't figured out "the answer"

SirPsycho said:

But there isn't an answer. All you need is the right questions.
"Why am I stuck?"
"What's holding me back?"
"Where do I wanna go?"
"How am I going to accomplish this?"
"Whom's help do I need?"

Etc

And you seem to have good back up. So get it in gear.

i'm one of those people who can't get out of their own way long enough to take hold of their dreams. help me org family <=this is how my face looks

We're all losers...we hang out on a Prince website but not even in the Prince Music section ffs.

We're all losers...we hang out on a Prince website but not even in the Prince Music section ffs.

the only time i feel any type of self worth is when i've created something...

SirPsycho said:

That in itself seems like a problem to me.

well you aren't a loser unless you aren't trying to grow in your life. If you are in fact trying to make a change into another direction in your life and putting all your energy into it everyday, then you can never be a loser.

You are only a loser if you don't have a backbone and let your mommy tell you how to live your life when you a grown man at 25 or older. Or when keep "talking" about where you want your life to be at instead of "being" about it.

missfee said:

sssss...ouch.



does he know he's in the doghouse?

WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG WITH YOU TWO!!!

Buck up podnahs! The weekend is upon us! One of you is a dope ass eastside ryhme flinger while the other is a model-gorgeous redhead who's having a BIRTHDAY!!

You guys should both be all shits & giggles right now...

Just Ren sending some Killa-Cali sunshine and luv your way...

SirPsycho said:

does who know that he's in the doghouse?

you need to come to the following bunch of my classes with me:

- thematic challenges in integrated media
- readings in contemporary arts
- image, object and narrative


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what i mean is, you need to immerse yourself in creative outlets and environments to really get going, and when it's not feasible, it can be hard to stay on track.
Write out your thoughts daily, bounce ideas off of people, create your own forum of types in order to realize the "cream filling", if you will.



i hope that helps, i'm concerned that you're beating yourself up over you creativity.

sammij said:

aww...thanks babe...you're right...i do need to immerse myself more...it just always seems like i dont have the time to do shit but work eat and sleep

i'm one of those people who can't get out of his own way long enough to take hold of his dreams. help me org family <=this is how my face looks

missfee said:

the subject of this subconcious reference..