Serious said:

Which makes it even sadder. If you have to "choose" to pay for sex, then obviously something's wrong somewhere in your life.

abierman said:

Curiosity? About what? Curious to see if PAID sex is better/worse than FREE sex?

MuthaFunka said:

in your frame of thinking.....I bet there are a lot of people who'd disagree.....more power to them I'd say!

abierman said:

And in my field of work, there are a TON of people who vehemently AGREE with me.

MuthaFunka said:

I guess to just see what it's like. But I don't know as I have never done it and cannot imagine I ever will.

Paying for sex goes into that "I don't understand" category.

MuthaFunka said:

If you do so on a regular basis I agree that's sad. But if the person thinks it's worth it, okay then he should do it.

Serious said:

Here's what it's like:

Customer: Can I have sex?
Prostitute: You got some money?
Customer: Yep.
Prostitute: Deal.

That's it. Then it's the same sex you could have gotten for free .

MuthaFunka said:

Paid sex with someone you normally wouldn't be able to bag just might be better! I mean seriously, don't even tell me you'd turn down that disgusting slab on the backside of Vida Guerra for $100 bucks!

Stymie said:

MuthaFunka said:

what field of work are you in?

MuthaFunka said:

Where do you live??? Where I come from, sex is all around everywhere. Each aspect of sex seems to have it's own culture and atmosphere.... Also prostitution. Someone who is open to the world of sex, can be very interested in the world op prostitution.....there's a twilight around it that attracts people. I dare you you to go to i.e. Bangkok as a normal single guy and hang out a couple of nights in certain area's and not be tempted.....it is often not about paying, it's the things that surround it.

I am in no way saying that everyone should, for me the experience just enriched my views on sex. I've done it, know what it's like, will not do it again as I know I don't need to. But I refrain from being judgemental about it like you are!

MuthaFunka said:

Well I guess the whole vibe is different.

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

I work in the pharmceutical field that deals with mental health.

MuthaFunka said:

this is so not true, it totally depends or where you are and what you want.

abierman said:

I live in the U.S. And I've been abroad and have NEVER been tempted to pay for sex. It's just not in my psyche to even remotely consider it. Not my style. And I can be judgmental because I have that right to be. Simple as that.

MuthaFunka said:

Are you saying people who pay are mentally ill?

Let's see, a man takes a broad out on a date. Gas, flowers, dinner, drinks with no guarantee that she is even going to put out or pay for guaranteed sex. Sounds smart to me

abierman said:

And see, this whole "what you want" thing is the point I'm talking about. What is it you want from a person that you HAVE to pay for that you can't get from someone that will do it for FREE? Now, if it's THAT perverse then maybe you SHOULD pay for it at THAT point .

MuthaFunka said:

1. Don't get it twisted, there's nothing for me to deal with. Like you, I'm entitled to a differing opinion and I have zero qualms with expressing myself here. That's why these are called discussion boards.

2. I have no hang ups about nor am I so presumptuous to judge others for how they express their sexuality is.my.point. Let the record show that I'm merely pointing out I feel your opinion- in reference to how other cultures (in a world of over 6 billion people) view paid sex as a normalized part of societal structure is UNINFORMED, and from a limited tunnel view at best.

MuthaFunka said:

Sure you have that right, and nobody says that you have to be tempted.....I'm just pointing out that you're pigeon-holing, which I find strange for someone who deals with mental health issues (NOT yours.....chill!) on a daily basis.

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

So you're saying we're ALL contributing to the oldest profession!

Ottensen said:

Exactly! See! It works both ways.

I want to make it clear that I have nothing against people who pay for sex. I just don't understand it or would ever do it.

abierman said:

Nope. Not even close to pigeon-holing. I'm purely speaking from my point of view within my OWN sexual experiences and how I view sex. Simple as that.

Stymie said:

That's cuz you get to bang hot dudes

MuthaFunka said:

...and to this Auntie Ottie says, "Hurrah"

Stymie said:

Exactly. I have nothing against them. One of my buddy's paid for sex one night at the strip club. We laughed at his ass for it - and STILL do to this very day - but we're cool with him. It's just not for me.

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

Don't hate. Appreciate.

MuthaFunka said:

true, by saying that people who do pay have no game, are desperate or sex-addicted.....that's pigeon-holing because you know nothing about those people!

abierman said:

EXACTLY.