I think all people are self destructive to a certain degree but what do you do that is self destructive?

rolling said:

Spend to much time here...

I push people away...which causes me to lose important people in my life.

I'm OCD and I procrastinate... not a good combination.

Yes. My procrastination got me to situations where I had about 50 cents to live off for weeks. or almost me out of a visa with nowhere to go.

I have been in the past, in my youth, the usual sex, drugs and rock n roll kinda thing. And I've gone through wild bouts of depression.

Not so much now, though. I'm probably healthier now than I have ever been in my life.

no

procrastinate and let the negativity get 2 me

yes I can be. mainly it deals with giving too much, or giving in to other people's whims too much.

negativity gets to me so I try and stay away from negative people, it's just hard when you live with them

regretting responding to rollings thread edit
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spend my life on the internet too much

beat myself up emotionally every time I make a mistake, feel nervous or if someone says something offensive to me

everytime I have something stressful, I end up spending money to feel better about myself

I could be committed to religion/spirituality more, but I'm too materialistic and take pleasure in celebrities, material things, looking good and sometimes making myself feel better about myself if someone messes up

MoniGram said:

I'm surprised my partner is still with me!

somewhat in the past. not now.

I don't know. I'm not sure what you're talking about even exists. Someone said it once and it stuck then bred like a virus, to the extent we think it's real, like a lot of phrases and words. What actually is destruction? One day, you'll be reincarnated as a carrot on a supermatket shelf, one you go back to the ground and melt your goods in the dirt. What aspect of collapse? Physical, mental, spiritual, sexual? How do you define self? I is I? I is another? Both persepctives are equally valid. You'll have to define the question better. I enjoy a fag.

I can be. Have to check that shit hardcore.

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

Man, that's a good answer.

Im actually manic-deppresive, so i have periods im just laying in bed and dont bother about anything, thats why im having a little problem at geeting a job.

yup. trying not to be. it's hard.

I echo evenstar's post... trying very hard not to be and to get out of that self-destructive frame of mind

I also echo MoniGram's post about pushing people away... I do that too and don't realise until it's too late

grimnt said:

I myself try real hard not to be this way..but it's like I feel I need to protect myself before other's hurt me first.

MoniGram said:

Totally understand hon

My Friend Cuts Herself I Used To Be Physically But Now It's More Mentally With Some Physical But I'm Working On My Issues

Yes. I don't like myself enough not to be.

Yes sometimes I am. Right now I am going through such a period I guess.

Yep. I far too often procrastinate or get fed up and quit.
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rolling said:

YES, I am. More so in the past than the present.
I am my own worse enemy

It's probably a good thing I don't have access to drugs like Oxycotin or Vicadin, because I know I'd abuse them.

MoniGram said:

I do the opposite

no i'm a self-preserver.

my brother is self-destructive.

Alej said:

You bring people closer to you?