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Are these men giving up their seats on the train to pregnant women or the elderly? Are they laying down their coats over puddles? Empress said: Stymie said: Personality.
Exactly! Obviously, if he's butt ugly I might not be able to get past that, but the personality usually comes first with me. He has to have intelligence, compassion, respect for women and a job. Not at McDonalds either. He needs to be able to look after himself financially as look after a family too. | |
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papaaisaway said: HOW WOULD YOU NOTICE SOMEONE'S PERSONALITY FIRST?
Are these men giving up their seats on the train to pregnant women or the elderly? Are they laying down their coats over puddles? you interact with them .. some people do have witty senses of humor. and their words can jump out @ you more than their looks .. word edit [Edited 9/9/08 14:49pm] | |
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papaaisaway said: UUURGH!
Get a room. 
kimrachell said: looks are the first thing i notice, but if you don't have a brain to back it up with forget it! that's the most important. i fell-in love with my husband the first time i saw him! but as i got to know him for who he really is, i just was head over heels in-love!!! he's so smart.....and interesting! i never get tired of talking to him on all types of topics!
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papaaisaway said: HOW WOULD YOU NOTICE SOMEONE'S PERSONALITY FIRST?
Long story short, I ended up dating a guy who I was not physically attracted to because his mind blew me away. His intelligence and personality made him physically "hot" to me.Are these men giving up their seats on the train to pregnant women or the elderly? Are they laying down their coats over puddles? Empress said: Exactly! Obviously, if he's butt ugly I might not be able to get past that, but the personality usually comes first with me. He has to have intelligence, compassion, respect for women and a job. Not at McDonalds either. He needs to be able to look after himself financially as look after a family too. | |
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papaaisaway said: HOW WOULD YOU NOTICE SOMEONE'S PERSONALITY FIRST?
Are these men giving up their seats on the train to pregnant women or the elderly? Are they laying down their coats over puddles? The question didn't say "notice first", it said "look for first"...as in it being a purposeful search and not just an instinctual reaction. | |
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Stymie said: papaaisaway said: HOW WOULD YOU NOTICE SOMEONE'S PERSONALITY FIRST?
Long story short, I ended up dating a guy who I was not physically attracted to because his mind blew me away. His intelligence and personality made him physically "hot" to me.Are these men giving up their seats on the train to pregnant women or the elderly? Are they laying down their coats over puddles? 
he approached me and we started talking and even though he wasn't my "type" (i had a type back then) I was really attracted to him because of his personality and the way he treated me. 
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