Acts
Space
Touch -- except PDA!
Words
Gifts

DevotedPuppy said:

that's not how I remember it

Imago said:

Oh, Imago, that's because you're so special (in more ways than one).

When are you going to visit New York?

When I was younger it was

1-2-3-4-5


Now the order is

4-1-3-2-5

grimnt said:

same here

veronikka said:

Same

With A LOT of understanding along, otherwise it seems pointless.

For me it is TOUCH and ACTS. Words are fine but if someone doesn't back them up with the acts, it's pointless and phony. Touching is a great thing too. Affection is wonderful.

if you are literal then for the bulk of my relationship none of those things applied no wonder it didn't turn out

however... space was probably the most applicable. even though we were apart we were together. and i felt the most loved when i saw how he looked at me. it was very powerful. followed by touch. again, after being apart, touch was very important.

morningsong said:

well love frist of ahll i dont know why they even call it that cause it realy hurts when u hit it just right but whlie ur in pain ur ahll so lughing love oh ok love but on the outher one love yeah in sex wies would be in the poonnay bone then love or a climeax love in a ways that u can get it peace and love

morningsong said:

well sorry but i ahll so for got to put jesus christ in it love i am now peace and love

1) Touch: I've always been an affectionate person, and enjoy being touched. Just to have the other reach out and touch my arm, or my hair, or to hold my hand, or to give me a hug in which no words are necessary but all the feeling in the world is contained in it is the one way to just melt my heart, as long as they are touching because they are moved to do so and want to express their feelings in that way, and not because they are expecting something in return.

2) Words: I love to write and in that sense, words are important to me. I do enjoy being told that I'm appreciated, or how much the other cares, but to me, sharing a touch can really say so much more than words can ever say.

5) Space: I love to read, and sometimes just sitting in the same room, reading a good book, and looking over to share an intimate look with the other. Or for that matter, to just share those soul searing looks without touch, or to share that look of "did you see that?" and knowing what the other one is thinking, or that look that conveys an inside joke that the two of you have shared. But I guess I look at this one more as being out with friends, or just going out and being able to share time together, but not necessarily having to be right next to each other.

4) Acts: While I appreciate having someone do something without asking, I'm the kind that generally has just always done for myself, and have not ever really had anyone that performed those kinds of acts, so when someone does, I'm just never sure how to take it.

3) Gifts: I love to give gifts to others, and I do enjoy receiving gifts, but the greatest gift anyone can ever give to me, is to give me a hug, or to share their love.


My husband on the other hand is an Acts and Gifts kind of guy. I appreciate all that he does for me and I know that this is his way of expressing of his love, but sometimes I do miss touch. But we've somehow muddled through. lol

Most important
an equal balance of 5 & 4

then

an equal balance of 1 & 2


"gifts" I can take or leave

a poke

union119 said:

ACTS! actions always speak louder than words! i like when my husband or friends show me how they love me....makes me feel good! and i always do the same for them!

kimrachell said:

Byron said:

killerdiller said:

how beautiful

killerdiller said:

Damn double post grrr
[Edited 9/7/08 5:10am]

killerdiller said:

Leos are all about touch lol

truleyloved said:

Forgot that bit huh?

killerdiller said:

Awwww I wish I had one...

Generally Speaking Byron

Byron said:

it just makes everything feel.... sexier

actions and words

Usually acts of kindness, words don't mean anything.

XxAxX said:

...And often ends up eventually leading to sex lol....

Acts, words and touch.