RenHoek said:

Is that a good thing?!

the clown car approach...

KidaDynamite said:

sure, why not...

By "approach", I mean the way a man or woman who's interested in you goes about trying to win you over...



For the women...which approach do you think tends to be your weakness:

- The insanely confident approach. He knows you want him, he's not even concerned about it one iota. Deny it all you want, but he knows you'll end up with him. He "knows" he has the perfect smile, the perfect job, the perfect car and makes the perfect amount of money. Nothing you say or do to convince him otherwise matters, he knows you want to be his...to the point that you actually find yourself indeed wanting to be his.


- The "always available" approach. No matter what you need this guy for--help you move, drop you off at the airport, paint your living room, pick up your dry cleaning--he says "No problem! Be right over!". In fact, you could ask him to pick up your current boyfriend from work because his car is in the shop and he says "No problem! Where does he work?". He makes himself so dependable and necessary to your everyday doings that you find yourself wondering if he just might be "the one".

what approach always seems to work whether i want it to or not??

Byron said:

I have ZERO clue who that nude guy is

now the other guy #2 .. he's a sweetheart how can you not like a guy like this? he'll help you even when you don't need it .. I can't hurt a guy like this... I would want him to toughen up sometimes though and tell me 'no'.. to feel the guy's authority sometimes is sexy also [/b][/color]

For the women...which approach do you think tends to be your weakness:

- The complimenting romantic approach. Always complimenting you on everything about you...perfume, clothing, your intelligence, your humor...I mean, nothing you do is EVER wrong in their eyes, and everything about you causes their heart to soar. They say men fall in love with their eyes and women fall in love with their ears, and you're loving everything you're hearing.

- The aloof approach. Doesn't really seem to notice you, and on those rare occasions when he DOES interact with you, it doesn't seem to leave a lasting impression on him because he barely acknowledges you the next time you guys meet up. It ends up driving you crazy and makes you HAVE to get his attention, almost like a challenge.

- The insanely confident approach. He knows you want him, he's not even concerned about it one iota. Deny it all you want, but he knows you'll end up with him. He "knows" he has the perfect smile, the perfect job, the perfect car and makes the perfect amount of money. Nothing you say or do to convince him otherwise matters, he knows you want to be his...to the point that you actually find yourself indeed wanting to be his.

- The whoa is me approach. The guy just seems to always have everything go against him in life...loses his job, dog runs off, car is stolen, whatever. He constantly doubts his self worth and if he is even lovable to anyone, anywhere...and your natural nurturing instincts come out in full force against your will, and take over. You'll make sure he's loved.

- The "always available" approach. No matter what you need this guy for--help you move, drop you off at the airport, paint your living room, pick up your dry cleaning--he says "No problem! Be right over!". In fact, you could ask him to pick up your current boyfriend from work because his car is in the shop and he says "No problem! Where does he work?". He makes himself so dependable and necessary to your everyday doings that you find yourself wondering if he just might be "the one".




Crap are they the only options .....none of that would work on me ....I prefer...a smart wit with a great sense of humor, someone whos actions support their words....they give me their time and I know Im loved....

Byron said:

I have ZERO clue who that nude guy is

By "approach", I mean the way a man or woman who's interested in you goes about trying to win you over...

- The prim and proper approach. She will not give off a single signal that indicates she wants you...or any man. Distant, aloof, even slightly cold. Everything is meticulous to her look, from her hair to her outfit. You're gonna get past that well-manicured outer shell and get her to laugh at your jokes or confide in you...anything. You just gotta have her....

...being familiar with a book or spiritual belief I hold dear to my heart....

Flowers2 said:

So nice guys finish first with you? lol ...

By "approach", I mean the way a man or woman who's interested in you goes about trying to win you over...



For the women...which approach do you think tends to be your weakness:

- The complimenting romantic approach. Always complimenting you on everything about you...perfume, clothing, your intelligence, your humor...I mean, nothing you do is EVER wrong in their eyes, and everything about you causes their heart to soar. They say men fall in love with their eyes and women fall in love with their ears, and you're loving everything you're hearing.

- The aloof approach. Doesn't really seem to notice you, and on those rare occasions when he DOES interact with you, it doesn't seem to leave a lasting impression on him because he barely acknowledges you the next time you guys meet up. It ends up driving you crazy and makes you HAVE to get his attention, almost like a challenge.

- The insanely confident approach. He knows you want him, he's not even concerned about it one iota. Deny it all you want, but he knows you'll end up with him. He "knows" he has the perfect smile, the perfect job, the perfect car and makes the perfect amount of money. Nothing you say or do to convince him otherwise matters, he knows you want to be his...to the point that you actually find yourself indeed wanting to be his.

- The whoa is me approach. The guy just seems to always have everything go against him in life...loses his job, dog runs off, car is stolen, whatever. He constantly doubts his self worth and if he is even lovable to anyone, anywhere...and your natural nurturing instincts come out in full force against your will, and take over. You'll make sure he's loved.

- The "always available" approach. No matter what you need this guy for--help you move, drop you off at the airport, paint your living room, pick up your dry cleaning--he says "No problem! Be right over!". In fact, you could ask him to pick up your current boyfriend from work because his car is in the shop and he says "No problem! Where does he work?". He makes himself so dependable and necessary to your everyday doings that you find yourself wondering if he just might be "the one".




For the men, which one tends to be your weakness:

- The I love sex approach. You know, when a woman seems to give off that "vibe" that sex is always a possibility, and dresses the part. When she leaned over to grab that ashtray at the bar...she knew she'd be giving you a closer look at her body, and it's actually why she grabbed the ashtray to begin with. Even the way she laughs is meant to convey sexuality. She wants you to look down her top...it's ok. Doesn't matter what her personality's like....you find yourself wanting more and more of her attention.

- The prim and proper approach. She will not give off a single signal that indicates she wants you...or any man. Distant, aloof, even slightly cold. Everything is meticulous to her look, from her hair to her outfit. And you can't help but imagine her naked. You're gonna get past that well-manicured outer shell and get her to laugh at your jokes or confide in you...anything. You just gotta have her.

- The care free approach. She's all over the place, one moment leaning into you as if there's an unstoppable attraction, the next moment she's hanging onto another guy trying to get him to dance with her. She bounces from one mood and one person to the next, never really staying in one mood or with one person very long...and it's driving you crazy. You find yourself wanting her to just "choose", and for her to "just choose" you.

- The best friend approach. She's the one who pals around with you, and doesn't seem to care whether or not you want her as "more than a friend" or even if you find her attractive. She'll come over with some beers and watch the game with you. She'll call you up and see if you want to go to the movies with her. She'll comment on your past and present girlfriends and tell you how much "better off" you are whenever one of them dumps you. You wish your gfs were more like her...to the point that you're wishing she was your gf.

- The fawning approach. She never misses an opportunity to tell you how much you impress her, how strong you are, how talented you are, how smart you are, how funny you are, how sexy you are, how handsome you are. Your ego is in constant stroke mode around her...and you're a sucker for that, admit it.


So, do any of the approaches tend to work with you? lol...

Ocean said:

But what if one of those guys looked like Bruce Willis? lol

- The I love sex approach. You know, when a woman seems to give off that "vibe" that sex is always a possibility, and dresses the part.

will not give off a single signal that indicates she wants you...or any man. Distant, aloof, even slightly cold.

She's all over the place, one moment leaning into you as if there's an unstoppable attraction, the next moment she's hanging onto another guy trying to get him to dance with her. She bounces from one mood and one person to the next, never really staying in one mood or with one person very long...and it's driving you crazy. You find yourself wanting her to just "choose", and for her to "just choose" you.

- The best friend approach. She's the one who pals around with you, and doesn't seem to care whether or not you want her as "more than a friend" or even if you find her attractive. She'll come over with some beers and watch the game with you. She'll call you up and see if you want to go to the movies with her. She'll comment on your past and present girlfriends and tell you how much "better off" you are whenever one of them dumps you. You wish your gfs were more like her...to the point that you're wishing she was your gf.

- The fawning approach. She never misses an opportunity to tell you how much you impress her, how strong you are, how talented you are, how smart you are, how funny you are, how sexy you are, how handsome you are. Your ego is in constant stroke mode around her...and you're a sucker for that, admit it.

- The complimenting romantic approach. Always complimenting you on everything about you...perfume, clothing, your intelligence, your humor...I mean, nothing you do is EVER wrong in their eyes, and everything about you causes their heart to soar. They say men fall in love with their eyes and women fall in love with their ears, and you're loving everything you're hearing.

- The aloof approach. Doesn't really seem to notice you, and on those rare occasions when he DOES interact with you, it doesn't seem to leave a lasting impression on him because he barely acknowledges you the next time you guys meet up. It ends up driving you crazy and makes you HAVE to get his attention, almost like a challenge.

- The insanely confident approach. He knows you want him, he's not even concerned about it one iota. Deny it all you want, but he knows you'll end up with him. He "knows" he has the perfect smile, the perfect job, the perfect car and makes the perfect amount of money. Nothing you say or do to convince him otherwise matters, he knows you want to be his...to the point that you actually find yourself indeed wanting to be his.

- The whoa is me approach. The guy just seems to always have everything go against him in life...loses his job, dog runs off, car is stolen, whatever. He constantly doubts his self worth and if he is even lovable to anyone, anywhere...and your natural nurturing instincts come out in full force against your will, and take over. You'll make sure he's loved.

- The "always available" approach. No matter what you need this guy for--help you move, drop you off at the airport, paint your living room, pick up your dry cleaning--he says "No problem! Be right over!". In fact, you could ask him to pick up your current boyfriend from work because his car is in the shop and he says "No problem! Where does he work?". He makes himself so dependable and necessary to your everyday doings that you find yourself wondering if he just might be "the one".

I only believe in unexplainable chemistry

Nothing works on me because I'm a bitch.

The aloof comes the closest to working because I always want what I can't have.

- The I love sex approach. You know, when a woman seems to give off that "vibe" that sex is always a possibility, and dresses the part. When she leaned over to grab that ashtray at the bar...she knew she'd be giving you a closer look at her body, and it's actually why she grabbed the ashtray to begin with. Even the way she laughs is meant to convey sexuality. She wants you to look down her top...it's ok. Doesn't matter what her personality's like....you find yourself wanting more and more of her attention.

- The prim and proper approach. She will not give off a single signal that indicates she wants you...or any man. Distant, aloof, even slightly cold. Everything is meticulous to her look, from her hair to her outfit. And you can't help but imagine her naked. You're gonna get past that well-manicured outer shell and get her to laugh at your jokes or confide in you...anything. You just gotta have her.

- The care free approach. She's all over the place, one moment leaning into you as if there's an unstoppable attraction, the next moment she's hanging onto another guy trying to get him to dance with her. She bounces from one mood and one person to the next, never really staying in one mood or with one person very long...and it's driving you crazy. You find yourself wanting her to just "choose", and for her to "just choose" you.

- The best friend approach. She's the one who pals around with you, and doesn't seem to care whether or not you want her as "more than a friend" or even if you find her attractive. She'll come over with some beers and watch the game with you. She'll call you up and see if you want to go to the movies with her. She'll comment on your past and present girlfriends and tell you how much "better off" you are whenever one of them dumps you. You wish your gfs were more like her...to the point that you're wishing she was your gf.

- The fawning approach. She never misses an opportunity to tell you how much you impress her, how strong you are, how talented you are, how smart you are, how funny you are, how sexy you are, how handsome you are. Your ego is in constant stroke mode around her...and you're a sucker for that, admit it.

JuliePurplehead said:

I know the perfect approach for a "bitch." (Though I doubt you are one.) It's the Outbitch approach. I find difficult people are most arrested by others who beat them at their game.