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Reply #90 posted 09/04/08 8:22am

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Reply #91 posted 09/04/08 9:39am

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Reply #92 posted 09/04/08 10:23am

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Reply #93 posted 09/04/08 1:08pm

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1.They are bored.
2.They are hurting inside.
3.They are assholes.

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Reply #94 posted 09/04/08 2:58pm

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Reply #95 posted 09/04/08 5:32pm

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sluttiness

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Reply #96 posted 09/04/08 6:25pm

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Because they are nasty gutter-butt TROLLOPS!!!

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Reply #97 posted 09/04/08 7:35pm

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Reply #98 posted 09/05/08 2:07am

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myfavorite said:

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I WAS SPEAKING FROM THE GUYS PERSPECTIVE DAMMIT!!!!!

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their minds need to be redirected
their bodies should be awakened to the truth of the situation

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Reply #99 posted 09/05/08 8:04pm

union119	union119 said: 1. loneliness 2. anxiety 3. low self-esteem become Mach said: Lust Selfishness Dishonesty
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Reply #100 posted 09/06/08 2:25am

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MoniGram said:

I don't dare give reasons...one can't give reasons until they have walked in those shoes.

And there it is.

It's astounding the amount of shaming and down-looking that happens from people who've never found themselves in such a situation. It's easy to be high and mighty and righteous on the issue of monogamy when you've never been there; never had to deal with cheating not as a person who's been cheated on, but as someone involved more directly. Whether you've been the cheater or the cheatee, I guarantee it's always, ALWAYS more complex than simple selfishness or base sexual desires.

I've been there. I've caused someone to cheat. I'm not necessarily proud of it, but in the bigger picture I'm glad for the experience. Never again will I think I'm better than someone else because of their personal choices. On the flip side to that, never again will I even think to encourage someone to stay in a relationship that's not working. Time and distance gave me the perspective, but in all honesty, the person who came out of this episode the most hurt was the cheater himself.

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Reply #101 posted 09/06/08 2:27am

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dustysgirl said:

Why is it that some cheaters say they still love their significant other, the one they cheated on?

Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil, but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts,always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails.

I've had lots of opportunities to cheat on my husband in the 18 years I've been with him, but have never even kissed another man because I love him.

Because sex and love are simply not the same thing. They go together great, but they're not prerequisites for one another.

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Reply #102 posted 09/06/08 4:06am

DexterDayglo	1. Monogamy 2. Marriage 3. Monotony
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Reply #103 posted 09/06/08 7:33pm

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meow85 said:

MoniGram said:

I don't dare give reasons...one can't give reasons until they have walked in those shoes.

I've been on both sides, and think that all the reasons given can be true. I could see myself as self righteous for causing someone to cheat (thinking they were in an abusive degrading relationship anyway), but ultimately it could be selfishness that causes me to be self righteous and to reason out (excuse) actions I took that I knew were wrong by society rules. I think it's perfectly legit to shame down others as long as you can shame down yourself as well. sad

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Reply #104 posted 09/10/08 5:06am

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Graycap23 said:

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LoL...very true. We also don't do well with the responsibilities of being truthful, either. One encourages the other...kind of a chicken/egg thing. lol

Truthfulness is overrated.
Example: The wife is in a great mood and is getting dressed 4 an event that the both of u are about 2 attend. While getting dressed she asks u how dinner was. U know full well that u did not care 4 her cooking that night and if u tell her the truth, u will ruin her mood and the evening. Which is the better answer?
Honey, dinner was good
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honey, I really did NOT like that dinner?

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Reply #105 posted 09/10/08 5:09am

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MuthaFunka said:

From a male perspective:

1 - Opportunity: A man is only as faithful as his options
2 - New Pussy: Ain't nothin' better than new pussy
3 - Monogamy isn't natural: Men CHOOSE to be monogamous, when the natural thing is to jerk-out everything in sight

Uhm... NO! brick

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Reply #106 posted 09/10/08 5:46am

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