JerseyKRS said:

You're NOT helping. (even though I'm MAD curious, cuz, well, GATDAMN!!!) Plus the video I saw is kinda like an audition tape and the women he's stripped for would prolly give him good references which is a lot more than I get when dating some random dude.

There are good, black men with good-paying jobs who don't strip or demean themselves or women for a living. Church, i hear, is a good place to find a mate (worked for my parents but has yet to work for me ).

I think you need to be clear and serious about what's more important: the physical or the spiritual and moral. Because that's what I'm hearing creating the tension in your situation. Being seen out in public with a dude who's performed shows for people you know puts you in a bind. And, while you make a distinction between stripping and prostitution, a LOT of other folks don't.

And, yeah, the back pews are trouble. You want to be in the front rows on the side. That's where the spiritual folks sit.

There are good, black men with good-paying jobs who don't strip or demean themselves or women for a living. Church, i hear, is a good place to find a mate (worked for my parents but has yet to work for me ).

I think you need to be clear and serious about what's more important: the physical or the spiritual and moral. Because that's what I'm hearing creating the tension in your situation. Being seen out in public with a dude who's performed shows for people you know puts you in a bind. And, while you make a distinction between stripping and prostitution, a LOT of other folks don't.

And, yeah, the back pews are trouble. You want to be in the front rows on the side. That's where the spiritual folks sit.

There are good, black men with good-paying jobs who don't strip or demean themselves or women for a living. Church, i hear, is a good place to find a mate (worked for my parents but has yet to work for me ).

ThreadBare said:

That's where she met him

bboy87 said:

Ain't that nuthin??? But hey, I guess strippers need Jesus too.

SirPsycho said:

I met that nucca at church for your information!

SCNDLS said:

This nucca got references


homegirl, you might as well..... you know what they say about dancers



we do it the best (I ain't no stripper, just sayin' )

bboy87 said:

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Actually they don't.

SirPsycho said:

Huh?

JustErin said:

:looksforwrekastowegif:

SirPsycho said:

Ya, man. I know it was a joke. Just thought it was lame.

Carry on.

JustErin said:

um. in as much as i may fantisize about you, i never sought your apporval dearest...and i couldn't possibly fathom why i would

SirPsycho said:

It's funny that you would even ever think that was what I was saying or implying.

paintedlady said:

Well, hell, Bboy you gotta video so we can judge if what they say is true.

JustErin said:

what do mean? i think lots of things...

SirPsycho said:

You're silly.

I would never think that anyone would seek my approval - for anything. I don't care enough to even think that.

A N Y way


So are you gonna do him SCNDLS or not ?

A N Y way


So are you gonna do him SCNDLS or not ?

JustErin said:

why don't i believe you when you say such things?

Mach said:

yeah SCNDLS do me already geez..

Mach said:

You know I've been trynta get at him in a subtle way. And he's been telling me in HIS subtle way that he's tired of being viewed as a toy or a means to fulfill fantasies by women he's seriously interested in. In other words this muthafucka won't give up the goods unless he's in a monogamous relationship. What the fuck is this shit??? Leave it to me to find a chaste stripper. He's looking gayer by the minute.

SirPsycho said:

Honey, please, you ain't ready.

SirPsycho said:

SCNDLS said:

yeah but i improvise like a sun bitch

SirPsycho said:

Alright, youngsta. Feel free to submit your video for consideration and I'll get back to you.

SCNDLS said:

theeeeere's my girl