Have any of you ladies dated a male stripper, that was hopefully straight?

If you had a chance to seriously date a male stripper would you? Or would you just try it for the sex? Or would you avoid the guy altogether?

Just curious. . .






Oh, and I guess the guys can answer too BUT I'm really trying to get input from people that have been in a serious relationship with a stripper.
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One of my very close friends ( yes straight ) was a stripper

M A R K in the D A R K We call him

Great looking guy very intelligent and grounded

IF I was single at the time I met Mark I am sure we would have ....

Anyway he is a great friend of mine and Michaels and the dude can seriously still dance -

a close friend of mine dated a stripper for a little while, she was hot, but a fucking mess. It's not worth the trouble.

Mach said:

IF you'd had a chance to date him, how would you feel about the fact that he has dozens of women pawing him any given night and how intimate the shows get? Also, would you have trouble believing he was sincere about his feelings for you?

I can't imagine finding a male stripper attractive. They tend not to be my type at all.

But if a guy I was dating (that I found attractive in all other ways) suddenly revealed to me that he was a stripper, I really don't think I'd have a problem with it. I just don't see it happening.

JerseyKRS said:

Would it have been a mess even if she wasn't a stripper? Or, were there issues that came up specifically because of her occupation?
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SCNDLS said:

both, go figure

CarrieMpls said:

A lot of strippers fit my physical "type" BUT male strippers always seem SO gay to me. I dunno. Would it bother you that women were touching your man's stuff all the time?
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SCNDLS said:

male strippers make me laugh, I've yet to meet a woman that thinks they are sexy.

SCNDLS said:

Well we met in our mid 30s and he had stopped dancing in his late 20s so that really would not have figured into it all. There is nothing about him that would cause me trouble believing how sincere he was/is.

CarrieMpls said:

I knew and hug out with my friend Mark for over 3 yrs before his past stripper/dancer tales came into our talks

I dance naked all the time when I get out of the shower. I've slipped in the shower more than once too.

SCNDLS said:

if you can't trust your man to follow your relationships rules than you shouldn't be dating him.

JerseyKRS said:

(literally in your case, Jersey) Well, don't quit your day job.

ehuffnsd said:

But being pawed by others is his job. So how would you handle it?

SCNDLS said:

I'm like a male version of Flashdance.





Or Chris Farley

you need ta take ya ass to church and stop looking for love at sausage factorys

JerseyKRS said:

If you're talking Chippendales yes very cheesy. I think the black "revue" shows are VERY different than your typical male strippers. I've never been to one but I've seen video and heard stories and they are quite different than Chippendales. These brothas be puttin' it down! Just sayin. . .

SirPsycho said:

I met that nucca at church for your information!

JerseyKRS said:

Oh Lawd!!! Sexay!

i couldn't date a stripper because i know her job is to get money out of sucka [N word snip - luv4u] by makin em think she wants them. like really, what could i expect?

SCNDLS said:

well you need to stop sittin in the back pews

SirPsycho said:

SirPsycho said:

Do you think the exchange is different between male strippers and women?

I'm afraid of the answer, but Why do you ask, SCNDLS?

SCNDLS said:

no. but from what i hear, women can do FAR more to men in strip clubs than vice versa...so...just be sure your cool with your man gettin his knob slobbed by other women at his "day job" and lord knows what else...




what you need a stripper for anyway

SCNDLS said:

(i do too )

Lammastide said:

why, your not afriad at all...

I've never dated a striper simply because I've never seen one that I found attractive. The look is not hot to me at all.

But it's not their profession that turns me off...I'd date someone that did porn even, if I liked them.
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SirPsycho said:

Because somehow church goers are better catches?