...whaddayou say... or








personally, i say yay (and imagine i'm in the minority) but i think it'll be interesting to see what most people say...




















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and i'm talkin bout

for all you

apostrophe "s"

knowing you can have sex...better than actual sex?

um, I'm gonna go with "NO" for a thousand, Alex.

i really hope i'm not the only one who feels this way

evenstar3 said:

not better..as good as

Let's see. I know I could eat a burger, or I could eat a burger.

What could possibly be the difference? I mean except for them being two completely different things.

How could not doing something fun NOT be better than doing it.

not better. as good as

SirPsycho said:

I have never once found that to be the case lol ...

When "knowing" you could get it is extremely pleasurable and intensely arounsing, it makes the actual "gettin it" even MORE pleasurable and arousing. One leads to the other.

SirPsycho said:

SirPsycho said:

my assessment still stands!

Byron said:

granted, knowledge of your own desirability can enhance sex...but, hypothetically speaking, is the pleasure you receive from either one really that different in intensity?

(we're talking strictly metaphysically here, not what your body can feel)

evenstar3 said:

and here i thought you fancied intangible aesthetics

I spot someone not getting any.


I rahter have ass. Thank you. Just not the kinda ass you posted. Thank you very much.

I'm sure it's allowed if you post pics of YOUR ass, Alex.
Go ahead. Thank you.

perhaps i should ask if not having sex is worse then knowing no one wants to fuck you...

















































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HamsterHuey said:

jerome!

I can't get enough prey
Pray for me

http://www.youtube.com/wa...gMn2OJmx3w

SirPsycho said:

i dunno. i know i could have sex right now with someone, but it isn't as good as the actual sex would be. noooo way. my experience has been that actual sex is far preferable. maybe my imagination is just sucks

evenstar3 said:

Nonono. Getting plowed well is preferable above fucking fantasizing about it.

HamsterHuey said:

Damn. Now I am horny. Thanks, Alex. Thank you very much. Now post that fucking ass-shot.

I sort of see where this guy is getting at. After all, the metaphysical does play a factor to my mentality. I like the rainbow spectrum side of things. Anything's possible to think about, but how good one manipulates their own mind is the greatest head game of all.

Mysterioso said:

Oh, you're gay. That explains alot.

HamsterHuey said:

Mysterioso said:

Don't be scared. So is Ricky Martin.

Yay! The anticipation's have the fun sometimes.

HamsterHuey said:

and you're right about being plowed well.

evenstar3 said:

Of course.

SirPsycho said:

Okaaay lol....

Here's the thing: you can't "know" you could "get it" without the experience of actually getting it...It's like you can't "know" you're generous without actually experiencing the act of being generous. Otherwise it's all vague concepts.

That means the pleasure and intensity of the physical act of "getting it" is what drives and supports whatever pleasures you get from just knowing you could get it...like I said earlier, one leads to the other. In that regard, the physical act of "getting it" HAS to be more pleasureable than just knowing you "could" get it. It can't be the equal of the physical act, either. The pleasure of the physical has to be such that it drives the desire to experience it again, which is the "knowing" part you're talking about...and that can only realistically happen if the physical out-pleasures the concept of knowing you "could" have the physical. Sometimes "knowing" is enough, but that doesn't mean it's equal.

So the way I see it, just the "knowing" by itself that you could get it, without the physical act OF getting it connected to it, would be far less pleasurable...physically, mentally, spirutially, metaphysically, and all other "allys" I didn't mention yet lol...because it would only remain a concept.

Byron said:

Well, this rebuttal comes as no surprise. Both sides of the table are definitely intriguing and deeply perceptive on these parts. I feel ignorant about this subject as a whole, though. Sad thing about that fact is.....I've envisioned and contemplated without the full-on act of intercourse intervening the mental state. Even as volatile as I am, I often tend to ingest these thoughts within my cerebral and indulge on the vain quite a bit. Shit, I type too much! Sorry, fellas. Hope that wasn't too intervening.
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