Because of Societies view on Gays . Can they ever truly be Happy or are they just Deluding themselves with this False Behavior that is going Against their Feelings?

Natasha said:

Are you confused about your sexuality?

No,I'm not talking about myself cause I'm into Men .

Life will always be hard when u present urself diffirent then u really are. I dont think u can be happy when u denie ur feelings. That goes for everything , not only gay issues.

Janeau said:

You hear that Natasha? I think it's time you came out of the org closet.

Boob are you Gay? Is that why you are saying that? I couldn't give up Men cause being Penetrated is far Superior then doing Without.

Natasha said:[quote]Boob are you Gay? Is that why you are saying that? I couldn't give up Men cause being Penetrated is far Superior then doing Without. So are you telling me to Indulge with Women?

My honest humble opinion , 'Let him do what he wants'

Natasha said:

The way you talk makes me want to draw us a warm bath and pull out the stap on carrot. I could penetrate you with it!

Natasha said:

I want you to lick my majik nipple!

lol @boob! In reply to this topic tho...I don't think a person can decide whether to be gay or straight. They may REALISE in later life that they find themselves attracted to the opposite gender. But I don't think they choose, its not like "what jacket shall I wear today?, Shall I be gay or straight today?"

you make me laugh Boob you really do. You are cool.

Natasha said:

"To thine ownself be true" You can't live your life lying to yourself and expect to be happy. You have to be who you were created to be. Plus, it is also not fair to the person you hook up with if you are just pretending to be in a loving relationship with them and they really love you. What happens to the other person when you realize that you just can't pretend anymore?

Also, just because you thought yourself to be one thing as a teenager, doesn't mean that is who you are. There are a lot of gay people who thought they were straight throughout there teens and were not happy, until they faced the fact that they were gay. I've also heard stories that go the other way - Teens who believe they were gay and realized in adulthood that they are attricted to the opposite sex.
It really just boils down to knowing yourself and being true to yourself.

"Know Thyself"

Listen,how can one be one way and then believe such Crap and wanna Change for Fear it is wrong? I can't Understand what gives and then o.k. so they change but does every aspect have to Change? This saddens me so Much. O.K. so it's not right to say,but I can't understand Gay Men getting Married and living the so called straight Life. I've seen it and it Doesn't work and it's one thing to have Sex with somebody but to actually get Married and stop the Other Life? It's Stupid and it's false.

Natasha said:

If that's what truly makes the person happy then that's what they should do. But if continuing being gay is what make them happy, then they should do that. Being gay, just means that a person loves differently, and shouldn't be condoned by anyone.

That's their choice if they want to spend the rest of their lives being miserable to save face.

It boils my blood tho that so many homophobes inflict this fear on gay people.

You will never be harmed by someone simply because they're gay. Gay people DO suffer from homophobia however.

Do U Love or Do U Hate?

they have done the right thing...no one should be a faggy waggy

How can going against what they feel because of Society's views be Right? They are going against their Desire and their Sexuality. It's a Fraud.

Natasha said:

Natasha... may I ask you something? This has been puzzling me for quite some time...

Why do you choose to capitalize certain words? What is it about those words?

I'm just curious and am in no way saying anything against it, you do what you do, I'm merely asking...

It's just for emphasis that's all.

Natasha said:

Okay. Like I said, I was merely curious.

Natasha said:

thechronic said:

And this coming from a tap dancer!

i'd just call it denial!

i have a female friend who only dated females thru high school and even up until about 5 years ago...then she met a guy...they got married, have kids...

i don't think she 'decided' to become 'straight living...' i think she just fell in love with someone and he happened to be male...

i think if she's happy that's what's most important...

Well I say this cause I know some guys who married and ruined lives when they Relized they couldn't live this Straight Existence.

Who R "they" in the first posts?
ONE should discover there identity first before judge someone else. Everybody is a member of the society they live in. Why should U call them " they"if U R ONE of "them"!

Who R U?
This is about society!
I am not a gay.

I love U.
And Bergen.