For me personally the answer would be No, but thats because Im a dinosaur with what many people consider old fashioned views on certain subjects. Anyway thats just my opinion how about you?

like she hate me? yup

Don't know, what are their names?

i already did this thread.
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I'd never say never, but I'm almost certain the answer would be no. It's not that I have any problem whatsoever with two healthy, loving, capable and resourceful women raising a child. Rather, I'm sensitive to turmoil in the world and inviting another soul to endure it. Many would-be adopted children could benefit from their competent parentage.

I would but I would have to be a part of the child's life.

MIGUELGOMEZ said:

That's funny because I think of being a surrogate parent but don't want to be part of the child's life.

Lammastide said:

This is virtually how I feel about it, you only have to look at how messed up some people become in later life because they didnt have either a mother or father figure.

rolling said:

then again you have to look at how fucked up other people are because they did have mother and father figures

then it makes your statement meaningless and a simply a thinly disguised backhand at the gay community, which is your typical MO when creating a thread.

horatio said:

horatio said:

Get over yourself not everything I write is about you or the gay community although you would like to think so.
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SirPsycho said:

Just some weeks ago .

rolling said:

I'd like to point out I don't attach same-sex parentage with an absence of a suitable opposite-sex role model. In a functioning family, decent models of both sexes abound by way of extended family, friends and the greater community.

My apprehension with the issue has nothing to do with same-sex parentage. Rather, I observe that the world is a screwed-up place, and I wouldn't easily invite another soul into even the most mainstream ideal of a family when there are so many children already here who could benefit from loving parents by way of adoption.
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Lammastide said:

that's what i was going to say, but you did it more eloquently

rolling said:

its not about the gay part or me, its about how your threads are a vehicle for your pleasure in veiled off colored slams of people in general.

Stymie said:

i think i would leave it to the parents. if the child wanted to know about me, i would want it to be the child's right to contact me and include me in his/her life to whatever extent seems appropriate. also, if the parents wanted to include me in the family as a "godfather" or an "uncle" figure, i would be flattered. but that's only if the couple in question were people i knew. otherwise, i don't know if i'd be as interested in playing an active part, though i'd want the child to be able to contact me when they're old enough that such matters are important. but i don't think i'd take part in something like this for a couple i didn't know.

horatio said:

Wow you arent half paranoid.

rolling said:

yup

Stymie said:

cborgman said:

No. I dont want too give away my own child.

horatio said:

like a cloak you can hide behind

Is Kirstey Alley near for an interview?

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

Serious said:

can't nobody do it like rolling can tho

SirPsycho said:

...or not.

SirPsycho said:

yup, he sure know how to put the spermies away.


glug glug glug

Never. I could not be my own child's uncle and I would have to be the primary parent and have custody of any child I have. That won't go over too well with a couple wanting to parent their own child

Serious said:

It's every man's fantasy.

Oh, wait...you meant something else.