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Thread started 08/16/08 3:55pm

robinesque

Is 50 too old to be cool?

There seems to be an attitude that 50 is too old for musicians.

I think that being older can actually equate to being cooler.


I think this is a really sad attitude. While in my early 20's the coolest people i met were muscians in their 60's. Their music was great and people would go over to this one guys house in the country, sit around drinking wine while all these old guys jammed.

The coolest person I've ever met was a woman who was 68 I think when I met her. She was so wickedly funny and had an incredible ability to understand people. Within 5 mins of meeting her you would have this sense that she knew you and you would want to be her best friend. She was not some sweet old lady either... this woman was a renegade. She would tell the most outrageous lies (which is why I'm not sure of her age, because she would tell people she was older than she was lol)
When she was in her 50's someone gave her a motorbike for her birthday which she drove into a pool on the same night.

I could go on, but it's hard to express all the reasons she was so awesome and how everyone who met her was won over.

What cool people over 50 do you know?

My mum is also waaay cool, but veryone thinks that about their mum, so I don't think that can count.
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Reply #1 posted 08/16/08 3:57pm

JerseyKRS

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old will always be 15 years older than I am. Relativity baby.


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Reply #2 posted 08/16/08 3:59pm

Imago

No age is too old to be cool.

Unless by cool you mean 'hip'.

Then I'd say after 30, you're treading very dangerous waters when trying to stay hip. It can look rather desperate. Look at half my haircuts. Embarrassing.
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Reply #3 posted 08/16/08 4:13pm

robinesque

Imago said:

No age is too old to be cool.

Unless by cool you mean 'hip'.

Then I'd say after 30, you're treading very dangerous waters when trying to stay hip. It can look rather desperate. Look at half my haircuts. Embarrassing.


lol.. like a woman I know who gets her hair dyed in all these different colours, and keeps inviting people over to have hot tub parties eek

no I'm talking about cool... Surely it is a quality that you either have or have not got.. I wouldn't think that it goes anywhere
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Reply #4 posted 08/16/08 4:47pm

roodboi

yes...




after 50, I think you're considered more nifty than cool...
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Reply #5 posted 08/16/08 4:51pm

horatio

Imago said:

No age is too old to be cool.

Unless by cool you mean 'hip'.

Then I'd say after 30, you're treading very dangerous waters when trying to stay hip. It can look rather desperate. Look at half my haircuts. Embarrassing.



lol
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Reply #6 posted 08/16/08 4:58pm

Genesia

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Pretty much everyone I know. If they aren't over 50, they're close.

I had lunch with a very cool person today - my grandma. She's 91. cool
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Reply #7 posted 08/16/08 5:02pm

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Reply #8 posted 08/16/08 5:02pm

horatio

is this about madonna?















YES, she is too damn OLD to be COOL
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Reply #9 posted 08/16/08 5:04pm

babynoz

Speaking as someone only a few years shy of 50 I'd have to agree that true cool, (like me, biggrin ) never fades.
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Reply #10 posted 08/16/08 5:19pm

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robinesque said:

There seems to be an attitude that 50 is too old for musicians.

I think that being older can actually equate to being cooler.


I think this is a really sad attitude. While in my early 20's the coolest people i met were muscians in their 60's. Their music was great and people would go over to this one guys house in the country, sit around drinking wine while all these old guys jammed.

The coolest person I've ever met was a woman who was 68 I think when I met her. She was so wickedly funny and had an incredible ability to understand people. Within 5 mins of meeting her you would have this sense that she knew you and you would want to be her best friend. She was not some sweet old lady either... this woman was a renegade. She would tell the most outrageous lies (which is why I'm not sure of her age, because she would tell people she was older than she was lol)
When she was in her 50's someone gave her a motorbike for her birthday which she drove into a pool on the same night.

I could go on, but it's hard to express all the reasons she was so awesome and how everyone who met her was won over.

What cool people over 50 do you know?

My mum is also waaay cool, but veryone thinks that about their mum, so I don't think that can count.



50 is too old to be somebody else's version of cool. Hopefully by the age of 30 we've found what works for us and by 50 we've fine-tuned it. cool
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Reply #11 posted 08/16/08 5:24pm

pearle

I think by the time we're 50, we really don't care if we're cool or not.

How cool is that? cool
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Reply #12 posted 08/16/08 5:36pm

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horatio said:

is this about madonna?















YES, she is too damn OLD to be COOL


not too old to be HOT though smile
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Reply #13 posted 08/16/08 5:39pm

robinesque

ok...
let me refine the definition to people over 50 that teenagers think are cool

what i am trying to understand is why people might think that teenagers can relate to or appreciate people over the age of 50.

If someone can be cool over the age of 50, why can't they produce music that sells?
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Reply #14 posted 08/16/08 5:58pm

Genesia

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pearle said:

I think by the time we're 50, we really don't care if we're cool or not.

How cool is that? cool


And there you have it! nod
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Reply #15 posted 08/16/08 6:27pm

Dayclear

I hope not, I'm 55 biggrin
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Reply #16 posted 08/16/08 7:09pm

bluesbaby

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my best friend is turning 70 soon. She wants us to get tattoos together.
And I am under 40....
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Reply #17 posted 08/16/08 7:48pm

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robinesque said:

There seems to be an attitude that 50 is too old for musicians.


That's why I'm glad I play jazz, classical and world music. Don't really have the age bias in those genres.
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Reply #18 posted 08/16/08 10:18pm

robinesque

NuPwr319 said:

robinesque said:

There seems to be an attitude that 50 is too old for musicians.


That's why I'm glad I play jazz, classical and world music. Don't really have the age bias in those genres.


ahhh, maybe that is why I have nevered suffered from age bias
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Reply #19 posted 08/17/08 9:05am

SUPRMAN

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robinesque said:

ok...
let me refine the definition to people over 50 that teenagers think are cool

what i am trying to understand is why people might think that teenagers can relate to or appreciate people over the age of 50.

If someone can be cool over the age of 50, why can't they produce music that sells?


At 50, musician or otherwise, unless they live in the house (and even then) who cares what a teenager thinks? They know nothing.
You aren't making music for teenagers at 50, it's probably more for yourself.
If someone digs it great. But I find it hard to believe that I would be writing something aimed at a teenage audience at 50.
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Reply #20 posted 08/17/08 9:26am

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Dayclear said:

I hope not, I'm 55 biggrin


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Reply #21 posted 08/17/08 10:19am

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Reply #22 posted 08/17/08 4:59pm

Gimmesomehorns

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And how old do you think this cool MF is?
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Reply #23 posted 08/17/08 5:02pm

RodeoSchro

I'll let you know in 6 months.
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Reply #24 posted 08/17/08 5:28pm

kimrachell

you can be cool @ any age! cool
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Reply #25 posted 08/17/08 6:04pm

robinesque

Gimmesomehorns said:

And how old do you think this cool MF is?


actually, that is my point

Prince is definately a cool MF... he doesn't need to try and be cool or relate to young people... he just will, cause his cool and talented and will continue make great music.

I've read comments that suggest that we shouldn't expect cutting edge music, or music that will produce hits because he is 50 now.. I'm like HELL when did 50 become the new 90?

all the comments that people have posted support my idea, that as you become older, you actually get cooler, because you get to a point where you don't care. add that to the fact that you are more experienced in life and music.. and the music whould get better, shouldn't it. the only thing that i can see that would prevent this would be the pressure to produce a 'hit'... thus.. I have high expectations for Prince's future musical output and i will not apologise for it (i refer to someone telling me that my expectations were unrealistic)

Tom Waits (my other musical love) I think has been able to consistently produce incredible albums throughout his career, because he was never a pop artist to begin with and so never felt the pressure to do anything other than what he happened to feel like doing (at least for the last 20 years.. may have been labelled a blues man early on).
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Reply #26 posted 08/18/08 8:10am

Imago

Gimmesomehorns said:

And how old do you think this cool MF is?


Prince ain't cool lol


And trampsing around with twins at each side, wearing the same caked on makeup he did in his 20's to look younger, doesn't help either. Prince is still building a mystery for himself with a supposed mystique that has long ago lost it's luster. Where other artists have become more open and more honest with their music as they aged, Prince still claims that if he stops counting he'll live as long as a tree, or that NATO and OTAN and digital gardens somehow amount to a hill of beans to the hard working folks who save up money to see his concerts of truncated greatests hits.

It's a wonder Trent Reznor keeps getting sexier while Prince gets more irrelevant.

Prince ain't cool.
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Reply #27 posted 08/18/08 9:03am

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Imago said:

Gimmesomehorns said:

And how old do you think this cool MF is?


Prince ain't cool lol


And trampsing around with twins at each side, wearing the same caked on makeup he did in his 20's to look younger, doesn't help either. Prince is still building a mystery for himself with a supposed mystique that has long ago lost it's luster. Where other artists have become more open and more honest with their music as they aged, Prince still claims that if he stops counting he'll live as long as a tree, or that NATO and OTAN and digital gardens somehow amount to a hill of beans to the hard working folks who save up money to see his concerts of truncated greatests hits.

It's a wonder Trent Reznor keeps getting sexier while Prince gets more irrelevant.

Prince ain't cool.



Word!

He's starting to suffer from crotchety-old-man syndrome! lol
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Reply #28 posted 08/18/08 9:04am

Imago

RenHoek said:

Imago said:



Prince ain't cool lol


And trampsing around with twins at each side, wearing the same caked on makeup he did in his 20's to look younger, doesn't help either. Prince is still building a mystery for himself with a supposed mystique that has long ago lost it's luster. Where other artists have become more open and more honest with their music as they aged, Prince still claims that if he stops counting he'll live as long as a tree, or that NATO and OTAN and digital gardens somehow amount to a hill of beans to the hard working folks who save up money to see his concerts of truncated greatests hits.

It's a wonder Trent Reznor keeps getting sexier while Prince gets more irrelevant.

Prince ain't cool.



Word!

He's starting to suffer from crotchety-old-man syndrome! lol

double word! lol

If it's cool to dress like a golden girl and sue your fans, than sure--Prince is cool!
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Reply #29 posted 08/18/08 9:10am

Anxiety

i can think of several people who stayed cool after they became old farts. my favorites:






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