Should I be ashamed or was I right?

It is a beautiful Saturday, so me Matt (8yrs. old) and Nia (6yrs.old) head out to the playground. We are enjoying the park when this little 4-5yr.old boy and his granddad show up.

Well, the little boy decides to drop trouser and take a wizz right there in the middle of the playground, next to my daughter, he even started to aim the stream at her, she screamed and ran to me. I immediately when to the old man to try to tell him about the boy. He completely ignored me and folded his arms and just walked away! He was Asian, so I guess he didn't speak English, but I saw he would not help me.

So I just let my daughter keep playing... this little boy decides to keep messing with my daughter, and then she comes to me again

"Mommy! That boy is trying to pull down my pants!"
I get angry, but I know I can't tell my son to kick his butt, so I say...

"If he tries it again, kick him in the pants!"

she goes on to play, and sure enough the boy begins tugging on her pants, she lifts up her leg and BAM! She gets him square in his forehead, he falls back off the playground equipment with a thud and FINALLY the old man decides to go to the boy and is yelling in his language at the boy.

What do I do? I yell at her...

"That's right baby! Kick that bum!"

she looked relieved and then I was like I am still proud of her, but I can't help to think I shouldn't have done that.

what would you do if you were me?

i would have done the same thing quirte frankly, although I'm sure it was the heat of the moment and you couldn't assess the situation.

superman said:

yeah... I sort of feel like if I was a man at the park that the old man wouldn't of allowed his little boy to disrespect my daughter so.

Stymie said:

I feel better now

You tell her "Next time, don't wait so long" .

MuthaFunka said:

Go 'head Nia!

My youngest nephew should have been there, he's 2 turning 3 in November. I'm telling you this kid has guts, he would have helped Nia knock that kid on his little bad ass.

How do you think its OK in ANY culture to just drop your pants and pee all over the place? I mean really....

paintedlady said:

Yeah... I heard it's a Christmas tradition in England though! j/k... sort of..

superman said:

Name writing is different... always will have penis evny for just that reason alone.

you should have let her kick the old man too...

roodboi said:

I know right? I sure wanted to.... right on his forehead

paintedlady said:

King him in his shrunken nuts.

superman said:

Kick him! although a bottle of crown royal might also hurt,

superman said:

I thought old guy nut sacks hung loosely so he could tuck em' in his sock to keep em in his pants?

superman said:

That certainly wouldn't surprise me

paintedlady said:

Agreed

You were right.
you're girl was right.
People shouldn't be able to do whatever the fuck they want to other people. She was provoked, its not like she bum rushed him out of the blue.

...i'm with you PL.

I couldn't take my chilren to the playgroud and act like i didn't see any other kids or parents. and what was he paying attention to that he couldn't see his own child being an ass.

I used to have patience with little kids, but sometimes they are sooo rude, and i will cuss them , and tell them to tell their mother...


i know there is a better way to handle the playground but gawd! ! ! !



and iff the mom comes to start junk, i say....hey, your child was being a jerk and when i tried to be an adult with him, he disrespected me, as tho he was another adult, so i popped him. ... next time, pay attention to your kid peeing all over my son's shoes, ....dog shyt troll. ...

ToraToraDreams said:

TY
I feel like sometimes bad parents encourage their kids to be bad just by ignoring them, as in this case with the pervvy 4 yr. old.

KidaSaurusRx said:

But now a days you can't put your hands or even yell at other people's kids because some of these parents are real nut jobs. People need to just pat attention, I really hate that some people act as if you are a monitor for their kids and they can just forget about their kids, which encourages bad behavior.

She should have popped him sooner... I couldn't, because if I hit any kid in anger, they will leave with a bruise.

Actually when he fell he did end up with a scraped elbow. Thank goodness he didn't pee on her, she jumped out the way... peeing on people is assault, and granddaddy can get charges filed against him for that. Pay a pee fine or something.

You were right. And I'm proud of her too!

paintedlady said:

heavy is the head that wears the crown, girl, male or female.

Sweeny79 said:

Good! Little brat boys like that need to be kicked in the sack or the forehead for not listening.
Just like the older boys who want to see your pants on your knees.
Dont touch no girls tho'. That's BAAAAD.

Sweeny79 said:

I agree. You taught her that it's not ok for people to touch her in ways that she doesn't like and also how to defend herself!