So he caught her full on fucking someone else that he beat the shit out of and he wants her back?

Well, all the times he would tell me that he still loved her, I would think to myself "Whaaat?..Fuck that shit... Hell nah" Me, there is no way in hell I would have wanted her back. But that's me. I'm not standing in this cat's shoes though. He has two kids with her plus I know he was and still is in love with her. He adored his wife. He adored being married. He was a straight family man. I couldn't relate to him in that way cuz I never wanted to get married. I'm single till the end. But I respected his happiness and thought it was beautiful for him, what he had. And then this shit went down and it was all over for him.

Did the dude know the whore was married?

Well, all the times he would tell me that he still loved her, I would think to myself "Whaaat?..Fuck that shit... Hell nah" Me, there is no way in hell I would have wanted her back. But that's me. I'm not standing in this cat's shoes though. He has two kids with her plus I know he was and still is in love with her. He adored his wife. He adored being married. He was a straight family man. I couldn't relate to him in that way cuz I never wanted to get married. I'm single till the end. But I respected his happiness and thought it was beautiful for him, what he had. And then this shit went down and it was all over for him.

What's with all these passive responses...? I'd be a bull in a china shop....fuckin' somebody up.....

Hard to say because it has never happened to me. I have never been cheated on as far as I know.

I think I would be very very pissed & hurt. I think I would just slam the door and get the hell out or maybe I would set the house on fire on my way out the front door...who knows....
Depends on my mood at the time.

Hmmmm, this is ironic being that I have a friend that this happened to a little less than a year ago. He came home from work really early and he said his wife and this dude was full on fucking on the floor right in the middle of the living room. He said that they didn't even hear him open the door and come in. He said the dude, who was on his back, was the one to first see him standing there. He said he just stood there, stunned and then turned and walked out. He said by the time he was walking to his car, he saw a neighbor across the street. The neighbor waved and asked how he was doing. He said when his neighbor asked that, he snapped. He turned right back around and went back in the house. He beat the shit out of this dude. I mean,...he fucked this cat up. BAD. His wife was hollering and shit telling her husband to stop. Folks on the street heard it cuz a few of them called the police. They took my friend down but they let him go and the other cat who got fucked up, wouldn't press charges. Word was he was scared to. My friend told me that while he was at the station, the cops told him, off the record, they would have done the same thing. So they let him bounce. They have 2 kids, 8 and 5. They seperated after that and now their getting a divorce. I've known this cat for years and I've never seen him like he is now. He said he wants to get back with her but he said he can't forgive her.

So he caught her full on fucking someone else that he beat the shit out of and he wants her back?

how fucked is it that cops are saying they'd do the same thing?

Ahhhh....fuck-shit girl! Are you kidding me? Please... You can't be this naive, right? You wouldn't want to hit that fucker over the head with a cast iron skillet? I would've held them bitches hostage and called the police myself. I would've have taken a few drinks and called an ambulance to tell them, I'm about to fuck them bitches up! C'mon now, that's fucked up what she was doing!

Now, this shit pisses me off because they have kids and she fucked someone in the middle of the floor in the house? Allll....fucked up it is! He was right what he did.

Shit, if he had accidently killed the fucker, I would someway understand. God, please don't ever throw this situation my way because I just might black the fuck out and do some crazy ass stuff, man...

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So he caught her full on fucking someone else that he beat the shit out of and he wants her back?

how fucked is it that cops are saying they'd do the same thing?

Ahhhh....fuck-shit girl! Are you kidding me? Please... You can't be this naive, right? You wouldn't want to hit that fucker over the head with a cast iron skillet? I would've held them bitches hostage and called the police myself. I would've have taken a few drinks and called an ambulance to tell them, I'm about to fuck them bitches up! C'mon now, that's fucked up what she was doing!

Now, this shit pisses me off because they have kids and she fucked someone in the middle of the floor in the house? Allll....fucked up it is! He was right what he did.

Shit, if he had accidently killed the fucker, I would someway understand. God, please don't ever throw this situation my way because I just might black the fuck out and do some crazy ass stuff, man...

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If that is the way you feel then fine. I haven't had a fight in 30 years so I think I know I feel violence is stupid.

Given your replies i hope that it does not happen to you, for everyone's sake, but i will tell you this from experience. The reaction you have when you find out you have been cheated on is very often a mixture of many emotions, not simply anger and revenge. Despite what you may think now.

Listen, this is what I'm saying. Knowing me, I would probably know something is up and would make it known that I was coming into the house. And if a guy was there with my wife/girlfriend, and I didn't see anything...I would leave the shit alone...probably. But let's just say I had a bad day. There woudl probably be issues. And yes, I would call the cops because I wouldn't want to go off on the deep end and black out on their asses. Also, she would have to leave because I wouldn't be able to sleep. And I know with me thinking that much and can't sleep, I would come up with some devious shit. So either I would have to move far away with the kids or she would have to.

I don't agree with you. Really, we don't know what we would do but in this situation...Lawd...lawd...

This is the kind of shit that would make me transform into the MUTHAFUCKING JOKER!



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Ahhhh....fuck-shit girl! Are you kidding me? Please... You can't be this naive, right? You wouldn't want to hit that fucker over the head with a cast iron skillet? I would've held them bitches hostage and called the police myself. I would've have taken a few drinks and called an ambulance to tell them, I'm about to fuck them bitches up! C'mon now, that's fucked up what she was doing!

Now, this shit pisses me off because they have kids and she fucked someone in the middle of the floor in the house? Allll....fucked up it is! He was right what he did.

Shit, if he had accidently killed the fucker, I would someway understand. God, please don't ever throw this situation my way because I just might black the fuck out and do some crazy ass stuff, man...

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actually cc,
i didnt catch him cheating,
but a bitch he was wanting - and she wanted him more,
came to a party with some people at OUR house.
she was talking to him about her man,
and said, "oh, ***** what am i going to do"
while hugging his waist - she was sitting on a chair, he was standing in front of her
and she put her head down on his lower belly...


i very calmly said

i dont know what youre going to do, but i know if you dont get your head off my man's dick im throwing you out the window!

we were several floors up


no doubt, i think i would have done it at that moment






same guy, i found out he had cheated on me, we were talking out by the road -


i pushed him in front of a car







he was bad for me to say the least

If that is the way you feel then fine. I haven't had a fight in 30 years so I think I know I feel violence is stupid.

Okay. Then give me some of what you're on. Some Love Drug or something?

Now that I think about it, a person like you would probably lose it on a muthfucka if they did this to you. At least I know what I am capable of but if you've never had a fight then...you may not know what you would do.

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