Stymie said:

Where is the Ivy that I know and love...this person cannot possibly be her.... ?

OK, enough with the flames. Let's keep it civil, please.

I feel like I should be paying to read this thread.

Fun's over kids....

AlienX2050 said:

I may just calmly walk out, numb. Or I may scream my head off at him. But laying a hand on him isn't what I'd be doing. And it's his betrayal I'd be worried about, not whoever he's with that may not even know I exist.

Imago said:

Make checks payable to "Punk Ass" Care of CC....

Just for clarification fuckers... I am JOKING/TEASING/RIBBING/ having a laugh....that is all...

CarrieMpls said:

But that is such a sterile response Carrie....in my humble opinion....you have to passionate to have passion...you need passion to be in a relationship...

Take everything.

pardonme4livin said:

Be careful or your ass will be warned.

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pardonme4livin said:

who defines how another person feels and expresses their emotions? you? how did you get that job? i'm looking for a career change.

pardonme4livin said:

How was I to know you were kidding?

And this i s one subject I am very serious about.

pardonme4livin said:

And you kill that passion the moment you cheat on me.

pardonme4livin said:

So how does passion equate to violence? I honestly find that disgusting.
You can be utterly passionate about something without hauling off and smacking somebody.

And everyone's emotional responses are different. I'm someone who internalizes everything. I'm more likely to harm myself than anyone else in the world.

Stymie said:

You would have a heartattack if you caught your woman sucking a man's penis. And if you had a gun, you would shoot their asses.

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Stymie said:

Don't forget the Golden Rule Of The Internet:

If you can't reason your way out of an online debate, tell everyone you were only joking and they need to lighten up.

Anxiety said:

Send you resume to me....I'll see if there are any other openings...

No man...I am not trying to define anything...but an "I'd leave or cry" response seems so passive..almost like being victimized....and for me...I'd hope for a more intense response is all.... (not if I was the guilty party mind you) just by anyone...friend....family member....whatever...

CarrieMpls said:

How is that a healthy response though....? It isn't...and perhaps there isn't a healthy response to be had in this instance..... I dunno....

pardonme4livin said:

But you would be victimized! You are the victim!

Anxiety said:

I'll deal with you in a minute...

Imago said:

UFC pay-per-view

AlienX2050 said:

Um I am a girl and I hate guns so no, I wouldn't shoot anyone.

pardonme4livin said:

well, that's the difference between you and her, isn't it?

some people express their anger with silence and intensity. other people explode and bellow. everyone is different. because one person's reaction wouldn't satisfy you, what should that matter to you? it's their business to work out, isn't it? i guess that's what's making me scratch my head about your responses so far. it looks like you're invalidating other people becuase they wouldn't do what you would do. well luv, we're not all clones of you! you're god's precious little unique snowflake and you do things completely your way, and so does everyone else! neat how that works, huh?

does any of that make any sense? do you comprehend what i'm saying here? if so, that would be really cool.

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Ya'll tell me anything but tell me you're just gonna walk away.

At least say you'd tear down the damn room, break the TV and throw shit all over the place.

I think you'd regret it if you didn't cease the moment and show the fuck off.

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pardonme4livin said:

You know ken, if you REALLY want to make my year, you'd send me a larger picture of your avatar, but showing your entire back. I'll even take one without the ass shot.

Stymie said:

Umm...oh, I'm sorry. I really didn't know. But you mean to tell me, you wouldn't sort of lose it a little bit?

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AlienX2050 said:

when did the jim henson workshop join the org? people acting like other people have to react like they do or else it's not "correct". nobody here is a puppet and they don't need someone else's hand up their bottom to know how to feel or how to express themselves. this thread would be half its length if people would just take each other's comments at face value. but i guess that wouldn't be as interesting as being absolutely freakin incorrigible.

AlienX2050 said:

I'm not gonna let that person see me sweat. I've been there done this shit before. I have someone that fucked me over 8 years ago still trying to get back in my life. Fuck him.

Stymie said:

that's how you really leave a scar on someone. you just have to be careful not to let it leave too much of a scar on yourself.

Stymie said:

punch make sense!! punch make sense!!

Imago said:

You still owe me $49.95 from the other thread