I believe I am tolerated with ocaisonal fits of hilarity...

Janfriend said:

For fun or b/c you thought it was necessary? Why wouldn't you just be who you are?

CalhounSq said:

That is who I am. Is there a problem?

Janfriend said:

Why so defensive Jan, it's just a question - IS there a problem?? I'm just asking - you said you were different w/ each person, so is that how you always do? Who you are is whatever you need/want to be @ the moment?

as an annoying little bastard

CalhounSq said:

I'm not one type of person, never have been. You're assuming too much. Then again, I should have never responded to you. You always want to start shit with me. You also missed the part where I said I adapt to what I'm given
[Edited 8/10/08 23:09pm]

Janfriend said:

You're so impossible Jan, I love it...

Thanks for answering the question though - you're all types of people wrapped into one, I guess that's what you're saying.

& I'm not assuming anything, I simply asked you a question. But that's your response to many people here - you blame them for something (like assuming too much) & then you try to shut them down. Typical...

& you'd know if I was trying to start shit w/ you, this ain't it... Carry on

JustErin said:

Janfriend said:

I didn't miss that part. I just think that being "completely different" w/ each person weird.

Sometimes I get the strangest feeling that people think I'm a fucking idiot. It's not overtly shown in any way, only alluded to, but I know what I feel.

oversexed and underserviced
that's me!

ZombieKitten said:

Oh dear me! U need 2 get Yourself a swiming pool!

CalhounSq said:

There you are assuming again. My responses to people here are a direct effect to their actions towards me. If someone is an antagonistic asshole, they will get a certain response. It seems typical of you to respond to my conversations with others instead of just leaving me the fuck alone

Amaxx said:

or a ticket offa dat island...

CalhounSq said:

It's not. Some people are not friendly, or make me feel uncomfortable, or are extremely friendly or are exclusionary or are serious. They get what they give from me. Plain and simple

CalhounSq said:

This whole sequence of posts was just bizarre. I can't stop going back to read it over and over.

Amaxx said:

do you clean pools?

Janfriend said:

I'm sorry, was your initial response actually a private discussion between you & the thread starter?? Forgive me for butting in

& please tell me - what exactly am I assuming?

Lastly, you're often the first to lash out @ people in a negative way. This is not something I'm assuming, it's something I've seen & experienced w/ you first hand. So you don't always GET what you GIVE. Sometimes you're the source of assholery, it's totally possible. This is my perception

Fauxie said:

Don't do that to yourself, the thought progression will NEVER make sense

CalhounSq said:

I responded to the thread. It wasn't open for you to address me. If I started the thread, that would be a different

Unless you've observed every single interaction I've had with everyone here, you have no idea what you're talking about. You're assuming a lot about my interactions with others and about my initial post in this thread. If someone has been cruel to me, they don't get any kind of kindness from me. Whatever you've seen from others most likely stems from something else before

As for you, you must not remember you own actions because anything you get from me has been because of what you've done to me. You have been extremely cruel have hurt me deeply here. You always have tried to over analyze my opinions and antagonize to the fullest. You get aroused over other peoples pain, or at least mine. Others have witnessed this and have told me so. Whatever you gotten from me is because you gave it and deserved it

ZombieKitten said:

Well! I clean my own, so I guess that's a YES!

Amaxx said:

for some reason I imagine the pool cleaner with a mustache too many 70s porn movies

CalhounSq said:

No, see now you're making the assumption that I'd be unable to make sense of it. You always do that, Calhoun, responding to me, taking my words and asking me questions about them as if this is some kind of open forum, offering up apparently harmless observations and all manner of such hate-filled things.

Now let's break that down. Cause and effect.

1. Cause: Absurd behaviour
2. Effect: Facetious assholery

Byron said:

I don't know what's worse, being percieved as an older GUY or being known as "that 18 year old".

What's wrong with my avatar?

ZombieKitten said:

I can grow 1 in a week! Cut a pair of jeans 2 look like Albi Mangle's Shorts. And buy a size 2 small Bonds T shirt! How's that grab ya?????

Janfriend said:

Everything here is open for anyone to address. If you want it private, take it to org notes. Have you forgotten how public forums work??





"no idea" is a stretch. We've had exchanges, I've witnessed SOME of your exchanges with others so I have some idea. & there is a pattern there...





Holy shit! WOW... I remember being purposely shitty w/ you once, & I'll assume you know the time I'm talking about (even that was after some degree of difficult back & forth, not just out of the blue). Outside of that, I do read what you say b/c I tend to find your comments "interesting" so I ask you questions genuinely seeking an answer, but it always turns into a meltdown of accusations & bitterness. & I can't say this was all AFTER what I said to you, b/c I'm pretty sure I had to be moved to say a truly shitty thing to you in the first place. I don't tend to downright attack folks for no reason, but I'll make fun of them (& myself) in a minute. You've never been able to take a joke, or maybe you just don't get me, but I think this is where some of the "deep hurt" must come from. I think you're exaggerating when you say I've been "extremely cruel", but again it's all about perception. That was never my intention, even the shitty thing I said wasn't "extremely cruel", it was more of an observation imo...

So basically what you're saying is that any future exchange I try to have with you will always go south b/c you're going to be bitter w/ me no matter what (b/c of things in the past), right? B/c you feel like since it's coming from me, it's already an attack just b/c it's from ME, not necessarily what I'm saying but that I'm saying it. True?

Should I even ask?

Fauxie said:

CalhounSq said:[quote]

Janfriend said:

You have been cruel to me many times, 3 of them MAJOR threads and yes they did cause extreme pain which made me take a step back from here. 2 of you were involved, the other is no longer here

Someone here advised me to ignore you, which is what I've been trying to do, but you keep asking me questions that I feel is an attempt to lead to something else and make fun of. I don't see anything genuine behind it

The last paragraph is pretty much it. You can't possible expect someone you've been cruel to to be cool with you and have pleasant exchanges with, do you? You can think it's an exaggeration, but you weren't on the receiving end of that. I've never said the kinds of things you said to and about me on this site to you or anyone else here

Janfriend said:

Well the John Mayer "Daughters" thread (& Rhonda) must be one of the instances you're talking about, that's clear I remember that thread going exactly the way this one did - I ask you a question, you either dodge it or start making accusations & it spirals into bullshit I didn't start out on that thread gunning for you Jan, but in the end I definitely was - I have no problem admitting that.

I've had bad exchanges w/ folks here that I HAVE ended up being cool w/ actually but maybe that's just me, or maybe the shit wasn't as serious as you feel my comments were to you...

I had no idea that anything I said to you caused you to take a break from this place, so for that I'm sorry. I'll try to quell any urge to ask you a question or have any kind of exchange w/ you in the future since it's always gonna do down like this. That ain't no fun, & I certainly don't come here for drama (though it's interesting at times, I ain't gonna lie)...

CalhounSq said:

To clear up that John Mayer thread, you asked a question and I answered it. You made fun of it and continued and continued to the point of questioning my sanity. This was after another thread where you made fun of me which hurt me so deeply because you said lies about me (which you probably thought were truths) on a public forum which could influence others to believe it

So yes, any exchange you try to have with me will go down this road because I will always believe they have ulterior motives behind them. I appreciate any future attempt to not have any exchange with me