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Printablefunkyslsistah said: Bottom line is if I'm not married, I don't want to have any children. It's probably a selfish decision, but I'm being realistic about what I can handle. If I'm struggling with myself, I don't see how I would be able to deal with raising a child, especially alone. More power to those who do. I just figure that would be my limit. Never really had the desire to have any.
That's not selfish at all, that's being totally realistic. I feel the exact same way that you do. RIP, mom. I will forever miss and love you. | |
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JuliePurplehead said: I'm still undecided. I think I'd like to have 1. That's all I could afford and even that's pushing it, to be perfectly honest. My big concern is regret. I don't want to look back and wish I would have done it. I don't think I'd regret having a child.
i feel the same way about everything you said. plus i hate to say it but sometimes i think i don't want to have to be responsible for someone. i am married but i don't have to take care of my husband everyday. know what i mean? at the same time i'm scared that if i don't do it i may regret it later on in life. i only have about 5 years left to decide before it becomes dangerous. | |
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Yes, at this time in my life, for the first time ever i WANT them and i actually think i am ready for them, now we will just see what mother nature has in store. If it happens it happens, if it does not happen, i am truly blessed to be loved and share my life with someone that wants to love me forever. | |
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DanceWme said: I want kids.
About 5 of them. And they are all gonna have my name, Stephanie. Even the boys   Didn't George Foreman do that? Name all his kids George?   looking for you in the woods tonight Switch FC SW-2874-2863-4789 (Rum&Coke) | |
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I don't want them. I usually never say never since I'm wishy-washy at times, but I'm pretty sure I don't want any. It terrifies me to death to know that I'd be responsible for another life. I have scary thoughts about my own life, let alone another one. Plus, I've just never really been good with kids. I mean, I'm a kid at heart, but as far as communicating with kids, I'm not good with. Don't even make me speak "baby" talk. I sound ridiculous. looking for you in the woods tonight Switch FC SW-2874-2863-4789 (Rum&Coke) | |
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I don't know, to be honest. Maybe. Probably. I know if I ever did have kids I'd want more than one so they wouldn't be an only child. I fully plan on adopting at least one child in a few years when I have my life and finances together better. "A Watcher scoffs at gravity!" | |
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i have two. a boy(3) & a girl(5).
i had them close together so that they would be close and also so that we could get all the nappies & sleepless nights over with asap. we are just starting to get back to doing things like going on holidays, social life etc. some of my friends have just one child & they seem to treat them like a little adult. you would know that they spend the majority of their time around adults. they will prob be fine when they start school & start mixing properly with other kids. i admire anyone who adopts or fosters kids. that must be a really hard thing to do. | |
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