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Question for straight women Do you ever resent always being in the position of penetration? I'm not talking about switching it up and finger/dildo banging your boyfriend. I'm just talking regular sex. Do you ever resent never being able to be in the perceived dominant position of impaling? always being impaled? 2010: Healing the Wounds of the Past.... http://prince.org/msg/8/325740 | |
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i have penis envy. [...i think i can, i think i can, i think i can...] | |
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I think more 'straight' men want it up the ass more than women want to fuck a man that way. | |
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Are you serious? We don’t mourn artists because we knew them. We mourn them because they helped us know ourselves. | |
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I don't "resent" it, but I don't think my hubby realizes that particular logistic of our sexual relationship.
I'm firmly planted in denial | |
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Penetration has fuck all to do with dominance. IMHO | |
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sammij said: i have penis envy. let me build on that. no, i don't want to penetrate any man i think my complex is that i would like to be able to have a penis for a day play with it and have it played with i don't think i'd want to penetrate with it, although it may be tempting but i'm never tired of being penetrated, i think if we had choices i'd pick penetratee over penetrator any day, it just feels good... [...i think i can, i think i can, i think i can...] | |
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Imago said: I think more 'straight' men want it up the ass more than women want to fuck a man that way.
I don't necessarily mean it as penis envy. Well maybe but how do I explain it? As a gay bottom, I have the option to go either way. Impale or be impaled. I have options. Straight women only have that one thing without using props, fingers or toes. 2010: Healing the Wounds of the Past.... http://prince.org/msg/8/325740 | |
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mdiver said: Penetration has fuck all to do with dominance. IMHO
that too. [...i think i can, i think i can, i think i can...] | |
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mdiver said: Penetration has fuck all to do with dominance. IMHO
That's because you're a bitch, you pampered, prissy, petunia! | |
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mdiver said: Penetration has fuck all to do with dominance. IMHO
oh god That is why I said PERCEIVED. As a bottom I know all about controlling an MF even though he is inside me. I'm also talking about the psychology of it. A man on top and inside, never the other way around. And I'm not saying there is only missionary but it makes my point a little clearer. 2010: Healing the Wounds of the Past.... http://prince.org/msg/8/325740 | |
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SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: Imago said: I think more 'straight' men want it up the ass more than women want to fuck a man that way.
I don't necessarily mean it as penis envy. Well maybe but how do I explain it? As a gay bottom, I have the option to go either way. Impale or be impaled. I have options. Straight women only have that one thing without using props, fingers or toes. I'm sure being a woman with the option to pretty much pick and choose who she wants to sleep with and when makes up for it. (ok, I know some of you ladies are too ugly for that to be true, but I was just stating it in general) | |
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Always seen it more as "he's giving himself to me" kinda thing so no. I love penetration, especially when you know he really enjoys being inside and when he goes down he loves to stay down there... it just makes me feel that what I offer, he absolutely loves! (the smell, the taste, the feel, the look) and that makes me feel sexy.
Love men and their dicks... and the fact that they love having a dick just so that they can put it in me.... that's even better. | |
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100% no. | |
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SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: As a gay bottom, I have options.
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paintedlady said: Always seen it more as "he's giving himself to me" kinda thing so no. I love penetration, especially when you know he really enjoys being inside and when he goes down he loves to stay down there... it just makes me feel that what I offer, he absolutely loves! (the smell, the taste, the feel, the look) and that makes me feel sexy.
Love men and their dicks... and the fact that they love having a dick just so that they can put it in me.... that's even better. Hmmm.... see, that's why I was asking about the psychology. Never thought ot it as him giving himself. You know, men being selfish neanderthal caveman pigs and all 2010: Healing the Wounds of the Past.... http://prince.org/msg/8/325740 | |
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newpower99 said: SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: As a gay bottom, I have options.
I. W. I. S. H. No really, I do 2010: Healing the Wounds of the Past.... http://prince.org/msg/8/325740 | |
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Imago said: mdiver said: Penetration has fuck all to do with dominance. IMHO
That's because you're a bitch, you pampered, prissy, petunia! Fuck you Dan | |
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I guess I've never really thought about it because the possiblity of anything else (if you're not talking about switching it up and finger/dildo banging your boyfriend) just doesn't physically exist like it does for guys. You have more options!! | |
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mdiver said: Imago said: That's because you're a bitch, you pampered, prissy, petunia! Fuck you Dan Trying to be a butch fem will not help your cause 2010: Healing the Wounds of the Past.... http://prince.org/msg/8/325740 | |
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applekisses said: I guess I've never really thought about it because the possiblity of anything else (if you're not talking about switching it up and finger/dildo banging your boyfriend) just doesn't physically exist like it does for guys. You have more options!!
see, I figured women probably never really thought about it. 2010: Healing the Wounds of the Past.... http://prince.org/msg/8/325740 | |
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SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: Do you ever resent always being in the position of penetration? I'm not talking about switching it up and finger/dildo banging your boyfriend. I'm just talking regular sex. Do you ever resent never being able to be in the perceived dominant position of impaling? always being impaled?
I think this is a great question. I'm old fashioned. I only bottom if I'm really really into the person or in love. Actually there is one case where I wanted to REALLY BAD, but I didn't have a condom, so NO. *cough*THEWEB*cough* 'Cause when I give up my cookie and my brownie, it's like I'm giving that person something special and they're taking it away. Weird, I know. [Edited 8/1/08 10:36am] MyeternalgrattitudetoPhil&Val.Herman said "We want sweaty truckers at the truck stop! We want cigar puffing men that look like they wanna beat the living daylights out of us" Val"sporking is spooning with benefits" | |
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MIGUELGOMEZ said: SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: Do you ever resent always being in the position of penetration? I'm not talking about switching it up and finger/dildo banging your boyfriend. I'm just talking regular sex. Do you ever resent never being able to be in the perceived dominant position of impaling? always being impaled?
I think this is a great question. I'm old fashioned. I only bottom if I'm really really into the person or in love. Actually there is one case where I wanted to REALLY BAD, but I didn't have a condom, so NO. *cough*THEWEB*cough* 'Cause when I give up my cookie and my brownie, it's like I'm giving that person something special and they're taking it away. Weird, I know. [Edited 8/1/08 10:36am] You have a cookie and a brownie!?! 2010: Healing the Wounds of the Past.... http://prince.org/msg/8/325740 | |
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SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: MIGUELGOMEZ said: I think this is a great question. I'm old fashioned. I only bottom if I'm really really into the person or in love. Actually there is one case where I wanted to REALLY BAD, but I didn't have a condom, so NO. *cough*THEWEB*cough* 'Cause when I give up my cookie and my brownie, it's like I'm giving that person something special and they're taking it away. Weird, I know. [Edited 8/1/08 10:36am] You have a cookie and a brownie!?! Just call me Mrs. Fields. MyeternalgrattitudetoPhil&Val.Herman said "We want sweaty truckers at the truck stop! We want cigar puffing men that look like they wanna beat the living daylights out of us" Val"sporking is spooning with benefits" | |
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my body is set up to receive pleasure that way. i wouldn't resent that which gives me pleasure. | |
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I had no idea that the people posting in here were all straight women. | |
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JustErin said: I had no idea that the people posting in here were all straight women.
even yourself? 2010: Healing the Wounds of the Past.... http://prince.org/msg/8/325740 | |
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SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: JustErin said: I had no idea that the people posting in here were all straight women.
even yourself? That doesn't even make sense, dude. | |
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JustErin said: SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: even yourself? That doesn't even make sense, dude. YOU. POSTED. IN. HERE. 2010: Healing the Wounds of the Past.... http://prince.org/msg/8/325740 | |
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SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: JustErin said: That doesn't even make sense, dude. YOU. POSTED. IN. HERE. Yes, I know...but obviously *I* know that I am a straight woman. | |
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