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Sex forum revisited Is it just me or has his forum turned a good bit into the sex forums once again.
Not that I am by any stance innocent but lately I see a lot of sex threads. One wonders, are individuals unhappy in their selected environment? Then, is this just a placebo and or a band-aid on a gash? I hate my own frank blatant honest inquires at times but they are just that. It disturbs me as a single female to see so many marrieds pandering themselves in this joint. It disgusts me in fact. Do their mates know they are working the cheap? I do get that if it is occurring then perhaps it is merely a sign of things to come and something of an inability to be ones self.I see gorgeous woman demean those that perhaps aren't and I see pathetic pandering to anyone who will toss a bone. I suppose my real question is, Why should I reinvest myself in a relationship when most all my eye beholds is travesty. I realize this thread wont win be friends or influence others.... but its honest ... | |
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seriously tho, i push sex to the forefront, because everyone responds to the idea of sex. you know, kinda like prince did/does. | |
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Hell my porn quote thread is the second most popular thread I've created except for the heath ledger is dead thread. Granted Heath helped me out on that one.
sex sells.  The Most Important Thing In Life Is Sincerity....Once You Can Fake That, You Can Fake Anything. |
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"Sex Threads" get attention.
Although to answer your question, if you feel that way, no you shouldn't and this thread is moot. I think it's really an exercise in venting rather than a genuine question. Studies have shown the ass crack of the average Prince fan to be abnormally large. This explains the ease and frequency of their panties bunching up in it. |
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moderatorMars23 said: "Sex Threads" get attention.
Although to answer your question, if you feel that way, no you shouldn't and this thread is moot. I think it's really an exercise in venting rather than a genuine question. Oh certainly there is a venting in it but also a genuine question. | |
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Muse2NOPharaoh said: Is it just me or has his forum turned a good bit into the sex forums once again.
Not that I am by any stance innocent but lately I see a lot of sex threads. One wonders, are individuals unhappy in their selected environment? Then, is this just a placebo and or a band-aid on a gash? I hate my own frank blatant honest inquires at times but they are just that. It disturbs me as a single female to see so many marrieds pandering themselves in this joint. It disgusts me in fact. Do their mates know they are working the cheap? I do get that if it is occurring then perhaps it is merely a sign of things to come and something of an inability to be ones self.I see gorgeous woman demean those that perhaps aren't and I see pathetic pandering to anyone who will toss a bone. I suppose my real question is, Why should I reinvest myself in a relationship when most all my eye beholds is travesty. I realize this thread wont win be friends or influence others.... but its honest ... 
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Muse2NOPharaoh said: Mars23 said: "Sex Threads" get attention.
Although to answer your question, if you feel that way, no you shouldn't and this thread is moot. I think it's really an exercise in venting rather than a genuine question. Oh certainly there is a venting in it but also a genuine question. Cool. For the record, I'm with you at least on the quality of the content lately. The topic of sex doesn't bother me, but I don't think anyone gives a damn if "I love" anything of "Would I marry". It's simply a question with an easy answer that will get posts. The org isn't just for me or you though. It's an open community and if that's what's getting traction lately, I just don't have much to contribute, so really, it's kinda business as usual for me. Studies have shown the ass crack of the average Prince fan to be abnormally large. This explains the ease and frequency of their panties bunching up in it. |
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ZombieKitten said: Muse2NOPharaoh said: Is it just me or has his forum turned a good bit into the sex forums once again.
Not that I am by any stance innocent but lately I see a lot of sex threads. One wonders, are individuals unhappy in their selected environment? Then, is this just a placebo and or a band-aid on a gash? I hate my own frank blatant honest inquires at times but they are just that. It disturbs me as a single female to see so many marrieds pandering themselves in this joint. It disgusts me in fact. Do their mates know they are working the cheap? I do get that if it is occurring then perhaps it is merely a sign of things to come and something of an inability to be ones self.I see gorgeous woman demean those that perhaps aren't and I see pathetic pandering to anyone who will toss a bone. I suppose my real question is, Why should I reinvest myself in a relationship when most all my eye beholds is travesty. I realize this thread wont win be friends or influence others.... but its honest ...
so really, this has nothing to do with the org It does, the org isn't some special entity.... it represents an honest cross section of the planet. Ive met hundreds of orgers thus its not some fake cyber space. I can add that my clientele equally cross references. I hear folks compare states and countries but when it comes down to it, its a human condition... I really want to know, is anyone happy? | |
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Mars23 said: Muse2NOPharaoh said: Oh certainly there is a venting in it but also a genuine question. Cool. For the record, I'm with you at least on the quality of the content lately. The topic of sex doesn't bother me, but I don't think anyone gives a damn if "I love" anything of "Would I marry". It's simply a question with an easy answer that will get posts. The org isn't just for me or you though. It's an open community and if that's what's getting traction lately, I just don't have much to contribute, so really, it's kinda business as usual for me. Thank you. I know I read to much into things often. | |
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I'm happy. And content. And satisfied. Which is precisely why I feel quite comfortable participating in sex-related threads and indeed with flirting with folks online.  Otherwise I think I might feel a tad bit pathetic to be totally honest.  | |
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Muse2NOPharaoh said: ZombieKitten said:
so really, this has nothing to do with the org It does, the org isn't some special entity.... it represents an honest cross section of the planet. Ive met hundreds of orgers thus its not some fake cyber space. I can add that my clientele equally cross references. I hear folks compare states and countries but when it comes down to it, its a human condition... I really want to know, is anyone happy? In answer to your question, I am happy. Happily married and happy to be part of the org. You've all seen the pictures... However, I do get a real kick out of flirting with the ladies of the org and I do it because it's fun and risque... Would my wife approve? Probably not but I know she understands that people have feelings and we enjoy acting on them. We've wrestled with many topics during our 9 year marriage and one of them that stood out recently was the issue of monogamy. We talked about this at length and agreed that it may not be for everyone especially when you add the pressures that modern society is capable of adding. The internet alone is responsible for the most astounding shift in thinking in my brief life! I believe that in order for one to be happy one must first master the ability to communicate with one another. Understand the limits and boundaries of your relationship before you choose to act on your thoughts or emotions. I have plenty more to say about all this but not enough time right now. One thing is for certain though, I will never stop posting and answering erotic or sexual threads. I will never stop writing with flirtatious emoticons attached and I will never give up trying to get into JustErin, Monigram, Amorbella, ZombieKitten, Ocean, and all you others "virtual" panties. I'm just a freak like that... forgive me... *can of worms opened, prepare to be flamed, this won't hurt a bit* A working class Hero is something to be ~ Lennon |
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RenHoek said: Muse2NOPharaoh said: It does, the org isn't some special entity.... it represents an honest cross section of the planet. Ive met hundreds of orgers thus its not some fake cyber space. I can add that my clientele equally cross references. I hear folks compare states and countries but when it comes down to it, its a human condition... I really want to know, is anyone happy? In answer to your question, I am happy. Happily married and happy to be part of the org. You've all seen the pictures... However, I do get a real kick out of flirting with the ladies of the org and I do it because it's fun and risque... Would my wife approve? Probably not but I know she understands that people have feelings and we enjoy acting on them. We've wrestled with many topics during our 9 year marriage and one of them that stood out recently was the issue of monogamy. We talked about this at length and agreed that it may not be for everyone especially when you add the pressures that modern society is capable of adding. The internet alone is responsible for the most astounding shift in thinking in my brief life! I believe that in order for one to be happy one must first master the ability to communicate with one another. Understand the limits and boundaries of your relationship before you choose to act on your thoughts or emotions. I have plenty more to say about all this but not enough time right now. One thing is for certain though, I will never stop posting and answering erotic or sexual threads. I will never stop writing with flirtatious emoticons attached and I will never give up trying to get into JustErin, Monigram, Amorbella, ZombieKitten, Ocean, and all you others "virtual" panties. I'm just a freak like that... forgive me... *can of worms opened, prepare to be flamed, this won't hurt a bit* I couldn't have said this any better. * I might not be as gappy as you, but the org sure isn't an escape. I'm as vocal about sex and nearly as flirtatious IRL as I am here. Muse, come have a beer with me.  | |
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Muse2NOPharaoh said: ZombieKitten said:
so really, this has nothing to do with the org It does, the org isn't some special entity.... it represents an honest cross section of the planet. Ive met hundreds of orgers thus its not some fake cyber space. I can add that my clientele equally cross references. I hear folks compare states and countries but when it comes down to it, its a human condition... I really want to know, is anyone happy? That is a fantastic question, and one I ask myself a lot. I see myself as an exeedingly fortunate human being (not lucky because I don't subscribe to the concept of luck) but I am not happy. If you want answers I would say try to enjoy living and stop looking. Happy is he who finds out the causes for things.Virgil (70-19 BC). Virgil was such a lying bastard! | |
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PREDOMINANT said: Muse2NOPharaoh said: It does, the org isn't some special entity.... it represents an honest cross section of the planet. Ive met hundreds of orgers thus its not some fake cyber space. I can add that my clientele equally cross references. I hear folks compare states and countries but when it comes down to it, its a human condition... I really want to know, is anyone happy? That is a fantastic question, and one I ask myself a lot. I see myself as an exeedingly fortunate human being (not lucky because I don't subscribe to the concept of luck) but I am not happy. If you want answers I would say try to enjoy living and stop looking. .as you have said, I am not looking.....However,Oh Steve,  I'm so fucked[Edited 7/24/08 0:35am] | |
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BlueZebra said: RenHoek said: In answer to your question, I am happy. Happily married and happy to be part of the org. You've all seen the pictures... However, I do get a real kick out of flirting with the ladies of the org and I do it because it's fun and risque... Would my wife approve? Probably not but I know she understands that people have feelings and we enjoy acting on them. We've wrestled with many topics during our 9 year marriage and one of them that stood out recently was the issue of monogamy. We talked about this at length and agreed that it may not be for everyone especially when you add the pressures that modern society is capable of adding. The internet alone is responsible for the most astounding shift in thinking in my brief life! I believe that in order for one to be happy one must first master the ability to communicate with one another. Understand the limits and boundaries of your relationship before you choose to act on your thoughts or emotions. I have plenty more to say about all this but not enough time right now. One thing is for certain though, I will never stop posting and answering erotic or sexual threads. I will never stop writing with flirtatious emoticons attached and I will never give up trying to get into JustErin, Monigram, Amorbella, ZombieKitten, Ocean, and all you others "virtual" panties. I'm just a freak like that... forgive me... *can of worms opened, prepare to be flamed, this won't hurt a bit* I couldn't have said this any better. * I might not be as gappy as you, but the org sure isn't an escape. I'm as vocal about sex and nearly as flirtatious IRL as I am here. Muse, come have a beer with me. Bring the wife and we will have a honest fantastic time... you'll laugh till you cry I promise. | |
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RenHoek said: Muse2NOPharaoh said: It does, the org isn't some special entity.... it represents an honest cross section of the planet. Ive met hundreds of orgers thus its not some fake cyber space. I can add that my clientele equally cross references. I hear folks compare states and countries but when it comes down to it, its a human condition... I really want to know, is anyone happy? In answer to your question, I am happy. Happily married and happy to be part of the org. You've all seen the pictures... However, I do get a real kick out of flirting with the ladies of the org and I do it because it's fun and risque... Would my wife approve? Probably not but I know she understands that people have feelings and we enjoy acting on them. We've wrestled with many topics during our 9 year marriage and one of them that stood out recently was the issue of monogamy. We talked about this at length and agreed that it may not be for everyone especially when you add the pressures that modern society is capable of adding. The internet alone is responsible for the most astounding shift in thinking in my brief life! I believe that in order for one to be happy one must first master the ability to communicate with one another. Understand the limits and boundaries of your relationship before you choose to act on your thoughts or emotions. I have plenty more to say about all this but not enough time right now. One thing is for certain though, I will never stop posting and answering erotic or sexual threads. I will never stop writing with flirtatious emoticons attached and I will never give up trying to get into JustErin, Monigram, Amorbella, ZombieKitten, Ocean, and all you others "virtual" panties. I'm just a freak like that... forgive me... *can of worms opened, prepare to be flamed, this won't hurt a bit* You won't see flames from me. If the wife isn't privy and or accepting, this is an issue that conflicts with communication. ( you were being brief so I get that your thoughts may have been curtailed) I wonder if those mentioned want to be honestly known as just "panties" They aren't paid net flicks after all.... | |
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Muse2NOPharaoh said: Is it just me or has his forum turned a good bit into the sex forums once again.
Not that I am by any stance innocent but lately I see a lot of sex threads. One wonders, are individuals unhappy in their selected environment? Then, is this just a placebo and or a band-aid on a gash? I hate my own frank blatant honest inquires at times but they are just that. It disturbs me as a single female to see so many marrieds pandering themselves in this joint. It disgusts me in fact. Do their mates know they are working the cheap? I do get that if it is occurring then perhaps it is merely a sign of things to come and something of an inability to be ones self.I see gorgeous woman demean those that perhaps aren't and I see pathetic pandering to anyone who will toss a bone. I suppose my real question is, Why should I reinvest myself in a relationship when most all my eye beholds is travesty. I realize this thread wont win be friends or influence others.... but its honest ... Dear Muse/Karen, I really think that each should hold responsibility for theirselves and that it is not really of anyone's (including yours) concern how their private situation is at home. You say that you're disgusted about this, and we have talked about it in person.....I belief that the word 'disgust' is a little too heavy, since (again) you or me don't have a clue of what situation another person is in. I interact with married women here on the org, heck I even flirt with some of them. But you will have to take all with a grain of salt. And.....what about the gay-flirting that is going on? I.e. the shamelessly flirtations of Dan towards Anxiety.....we all know Anx is in a serious relationship with another orger, he even relocated. I mean, I don't hear you about that! You talk about 'working the cheap'.....isn't that a bit harsh? And who are you to judge? This place is not to be taken seriously based on just what you see & read on the threads only, and you know that very well (like no other!). So please, I kindly ask you to refrain from passing judgement on others in issues that you are not part of, I hope you understand. Why do I respond to this thread? Because I have seen you reacting to individuals in a rather inappropriate manor where I'd wish you had not. With maybe a few exceptions, this site is mainly visited by adults and I assume each can hold their own responsibility for their actions on here. With all the respect, please don't see this as an 'attack' on you, it is not.....I just wanted to get this off of my chest!  | |
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Muse2NOPharaoh said: PREDOMINANT said: That is a fantastic question, and one I ask myself a lot. I see myself as an exeedingly fortunate human being (not lucky because I don't subscribe to the concept of luck) but I am not happy. If you want answers I would say try to enjoy living and stop looking. .as you have said, I am not looking.....However,Oh Steve, I'm so fucked
[Edited 7/24/08 0:35am] We are all fucked, but at least we should try and enjoy our impending doom! Happy is he who finds out the causes for things.Virgil (70-19 BC). Virgil was such a lying bastard! | |
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You want to fornicate, don't you? | |
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'Pandering' is a cute sounding word. | |
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abierman said: Muse2NOPharaoh said: Is it just me or has his forum turned a good bit into the sex forums once again.
Not that I am by any stance innocent but lately I see a lot of sex threads. One wonders, are individuals unhappy in their selected environment? Then, is this just a placebo and or a band-aid on a gash? I hate my own frank blatant honest inquires at times but they are just that. It disturbs me as a single female to see so many marrieds pandering themselves in this joint. It disgusts me in fact. Do their mates know they are working the cheap? I do get that if it is occurring then perhaps it is merely a sign of things to come and something of an inability to be ones self.I see gorgeous woman demean those that perhaps aren't and I see pathetic pandering to anyone who will toss a bone. I suppose my real question is, Why should I reinvest myself in a relationship when most all my eye beholds is travesty. I realize this thread wont win be friends or influence others.... but its honest ... Dear Muse/Karen, I really think that each should hold responsibility for theirselves and that it is not really of anyone's (including yours) concern how their private situation is at home. You say that you're disgusted about this, and we have talked about it in person.....I belief that the word 'disgust' is a little too heavy, since (again) you or me don't have a clue of what situation another person is in. I interact with married women here on the org, heck I even flirt with some of them. But you will have to take all with a grain of salt. And.....what about the gay-flirting that is going on? I.e. the shamelessly flirtations of Dan towards Anxiety.....we all know Anx is in a serious relationship with another orger, he even relocated. I mean, I don't hear you about that! You talk about 'working the cheap'.....isn't that a bit harsh? And who are you to judge? This place is not to be taken seriously based on just what you see & read on the threads only, and you know that very well (like no other!). So please, I kindly ask you to refrain from passing judgement on others in issues that you are not part of, I hope you understand. Why do I respond to this thread? Because I have seen you reacting to individuals in a rather inappropriate manor where I'd wish you had not. With maybe a few exceptions, this site is mainly visited by adults and I assume each can hold their own responsibility for their actions on here. With all the respect, please don't see this as an 'attack' on you, it is not.....I just wanted to get this off of my chest! I see your point. Judgement isn't for me but I find I have been mealy mouthed in my thoughts here there and everywhere and wonder if we are capable of really being honest with one another.I have a genuine concern. Calling gay folk to stand to the same doesn't strike me one way or another. Knowing you as I do, I see you have called someone close to my heart to the carpet as you feel i have called someone close to your heart. In truth, i found their behavior a total contradiction,but you are over reaching. Many here reflected their married thoughts and i welcomed them. I don't wish to silence their thoughts anymore then I think mine are less valid and worthy of being silenced. SCNDLS said on another thread that was locked ( and I feel wrongly this time) Its good we talk about and exchange views... an we can do it without being P&R victims. I kindly ask that you refrain from assuming my opening up and being honest about what i think and feel is personal and not just genuinely coming from the heart of a female that deeply desires to return to deep relations but fears its all a shroud. I love you and know you love me.I'm capable of being shrewed, sure. I'm just being honest. You of all folk know I discuss the same privately. | |
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eikonoklastes said: You want to fornicate, don't you?
Fornicating is far easier then seeking deeper ground. | |
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Fauxie said: 'Pandering' is a cute sounding word.
Cute isn't attributed to me often... I'll run with it! | |
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Muse2NOPharaoh said: eikonoklastes said: You want to fornicate, don't you?
Fornicating is far easier then seeking deeper ground.You have a very valid point.  | |
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Deeper fornication is where it's at. | |
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Muse2NOPharaoh said: BlueZebra said: I couldn't have said this any better. * I might not be as gappy as you, but the org sure isn't an escape. I'm as vocal about sex and nearly as flirtatious IRL as I am here. Muse, come have a beer with me. Bring the wife and we will have a honest fantastic time... you'll laugh till you cry I promise. 
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Fauxie said: I'm happy. And content. And satisfied. Which is precisely why I feel quite comfortable participating in sex-related threads
I second that emotion! 
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BlueZebra said: Muse2NOPharaoh said: Bring the wife and we will have a honest fantastic time... you'll laugh till you cry I promise.:laugh:  | |
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