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Printabletoots said: Serious said: My dad died, not my friend's dad. I mentioned it only to show that even though my dad would have wanted me to be with that man so that he could die knowing that his daughter had somebody who'd take good care of her I knew I couldn't do it as the man was not attractive to me. Sorry about your father( thanks for the correction) So your saying a means heart isnt attractive if the looks are and vice versa?  Interesting?Thanks. I appreciate an attractive heart, but it doesn't make a man sexually attractive to me and thus I won't have a sexual relationship with him. With a very special thank you to Tina: Is hammer already absolute, how much some people verändern...ICH hope is never so I will be! And if, then I hope that I would then have wen in my environment who joins me in the A.... | |
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blackbob said: i cant figure out women at all ??...why do they never tell you what it is they want ???...why do they almost never make the first move regarding sex or tell you want it is they want you to do...???...men like to feel wanted too...
[Edited 7/27/08 9:11am] IMO it all depends on the type of lady your dealing with, I've found that most will tell you what it is they want, you just gotta pay close attention when they talk. | |
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OR PUT ANOTHER WAY...
She needs to avoid attractive assholes. 
CalhounSq said: toots said: I am not a attractive woman I got treated like shit by ex hubby he was an attractive man, he cheated on his next wife who was VERY pretty and he treated her like shyt follow me now... thus explaining my original post Maybe your ex hubby was just an asshole  So you need to avoid "assholes", not attractive guys. Just a thought | |
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JustErin said: This thread is hilarious. God I love you. 
I was reading and thinking the same thing. The real answer is women do not know what the fuck they want and even if they did, they can't articulate it clearly. Love? Come on. Honesty? GTFOHWTB. Women can't handle honesty. They want to hear what they want to hear. Great sex? some of us don't give a damn about that. My honest heartfelt opinion is there is no clearcut answer to this because all women want different things. | |
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Volitan said: I think most of this. It's money, that's all. Women have a huge laundry list of things they want and are way too demanding. All of this honesty, kindness stuff is BS. That doesn't work unless the chick is in her 30's and up. All of the "I don't care about looks" thing is BS too. You care more about personality? My ass. Young chicks (like 16-25) just want a dude to fuck them well, and a dude to buy them shit, good looks, and be their lap dog. I can do the fucking but I ain't NO ONE'S lap dog.
You are hysterical. Ladies expect to much. The 'perfect man' does not exist. We're only human, no man has ALL of the attributes in equal proportion. Womens' standards are way too high and expect us to bend over backwards to cater to them all the time just because they have pussy. Sorry ladies, REAL MEN, don't buy into that game.  | |
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guys care what women want from us??? since when??? why wasn't I told??? | |
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roodboi said: guys care what women want from us??? since when??? why wasn't I told???  | |
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Stymie said: JustErin said: This thread is hilarious. God I love you.
I was reading and thinking the same thing. The real answer is women do not know what the fuck they want and even if they did, they can't articulate it clearly. Love? Come on. Honesty? GTFOHWTB. Women can't handle honesty. They want to hear what they want to hear. Great sex? some of us don't give a damn about that. My honest heartfelt opinion is there is no clearcut answer to this because all women want different things. | |
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Stymie said: Volitan said: I think most of this. It's money, that's all. Women have a huge laundry list of things they want and are way too demanding. All of this honesty, kindness stuff is BS. That doesn't work unless the chick is in her 30's and up. All of the "I don't care about looks" thing is BS too. You care more about personality? My ass. Young chicks (like 16-25) just want a dude to fuck them well, and a dude to buy them shit, good looks, and be their lap dog. I can do the fucking but I ain't NO ONE'S lap dog.
You are hysterical. Ladies expect to much. The 'perfect man' does not exist. We're only human, no man has ALL of the attributes in equal proportion. Womens' standards are way too high and expect us to bend over backwards to cater to them all the time just because they have pussy. Sorry ladies, REAL MEN, don't buy into that game. I think people need to stop pretending like many women don't live their lives exactly how he said it. And men need to stop acting like they don't cater to women for C 2010: Healing the Wounds of the Past.... http://prince.org/msg/8/325740 | |
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Stymie said: JustErin said: This thread is hilarious. God I love you.
I was reading and thinking the same thing. The real answer is women do not know what the fuck they want and even if they did, they can't articulate it clearly. Love? Come on. Honesty? GTFOHWTB. Women can't handle honesty. They want to hear what they want to hear. Great sex? some of us don't give a damn about that. My honest heartfelt opinion is there is no clearcut answer to this because all women want different things. Agreed. As for love and honesty, I don't think that's bullshit at all to expect that from a partner. I certainly do. There's a difference between being a blunt asshole and simply being honest, though. |
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SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: Stymie said: You are hysterical.
I think people need to stop pretending like many women don't live their lives exactly how he said it. And men need to stop acting like they don't cater to women for C Of course there are women like that. I don't happen to know any, though, so it's ludicrous to me when people go off like all or even most women are. |
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SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: Stymie said: You are hysterical.
I think people need to stop pretending like many women don't live their lives exactly how he said it. And men need to stop acting like they don't cater to women for C | |
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Stymie said: roodboi said: guys care what women want from us??? since when??? why wasn't I told??? ok, serious answer here.... guys, if you find yourself with a woman that you simply can't please no matter what you do...move the fuck on... if you find yourself with a woman that you can't communicate with no matter how hard you try, move the fuck on... if you find yourself with a woman that doesn't accept the person that you are and is constantly trying to turn you into what she thinks you should be, move the fuck on... if you find yourself trying overly hard to maintain a happy relationship just for the sake of having a relationship, move the fuck on... if you find yourself moving the fuck on over and over agian, then the problem may be you!! | |
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Stymie said: SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: I think people need to stop pretending like many women don't live their lives exactly how he said it. And men need to stop acting like they don't cater to women for C Me too. I can't even imagine a world with innocent chicks in it! 2010: Healing the Wounds of the Past.... http://prince.org/msg/8/325740 | |
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CarrieMpls said: Stymie said: God I love you.
I was reading and thinking the same thing. The real answer is women do not know what the fuck they want and even if they did, they can't articulate it clearly. Love? Come on. Honesty? GTFOHWTB. Women can't handle honesty. They want to hear what they want to hear. Great sex? some of us don't give a damn about that. My honest heartfelt opinion is there is no clearcut answer to this because all women want different things. Agreed. As for love and honesty, I don't think that's bullshit at all to expect that from a partner. I certainly do. There's a difference between being a blunt asshole and simply being honest, though. When some of you guys figure out what women want let me know. I don't understand them either. | |
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dseann said: Dude, you need to hang out in New York for a few months. Women there WILL tell you what they want, when they want it and how they want it. If they want it that is. Where do you live, on the North Pole?
I agree.  Not everyone plays games.
roodboi said: ok, serious answer here.... guys, if you find yourself with a woman that you simply can't please no matter what you do...move the fuck on... if you find yourself with a woman that you can't communicate with no matter how hard you try, move the fuck on... if you find yourself with a woman that doesn't accept the person that you are and is constantly trying to turn you into what she thinks you should be, move the fuck on... if you find yourself trying overly hard to maintain a happy relationship just for the sake of having a relationship, move the fuck on... if you find yourself moving the fuck on over and over agian, then the problem may be you!! I think there are some women who may need to heed this advice, too. | |
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CarrieMpls said: SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: I think people need to stop pretending like many women don't live their lives exactly how he said it. And men need to stop acting like they don't cater to women for C Of course there are women like that. I don't happen to know any, though, so it's ludicrous to me when people go off like all or even most women are. Like Ivy, I speak from my experiences and tell it like it is around me. You don't have to worry, I know you're an innocent princess. I don't dispute that  2010: Healing the Wounds of the Past.... http://prince.org/msg/8/325740 | |
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DevotedPuppy said: roodboi said: ok, serious answer here.... guys, if you find yourself with a woman that you simply can't please no matter what you do...move the fuck on... if you find yourself with a woman that you can't communicate with no matter how hard you try, move the fuck on... if you find yourself with a woman that doesn't accept the person that you are and is constantly trying to turn you into what she thinks you should be, move the fuck on... if you find yourself trying overly hard to maintain a happy relationship just for the sake of having a relationship, move the fuck on... if you find yourself moving the fuck on over and over agian, then the problem may be you!! I think there are some women who may need to heed this advice, too.  absolutely...
many people spend so much time trying to figure out other folks that they fail to see their own shortcomings and issues... | |
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roodboi said: Stymie said: ok, serious answer here.... guys, if you find yourself with a woman that you simply can't please no matter what you do...move the fuck on... if you find yourself with a woman that you can't communicate with no matter how hard you try, move the fuck on... if you find yourself with a woman that doesn't accept the person that you are and is constantly trying to turn you into what she thinks you should be, move the fuck on... if you find yourself trying overly hard to maintain a happy relationship just for the sake of having a relationship, move the fuck on... if you find yourself moving the fuck on over and over agian, then the problem may be you!! 
Boi, you's a genius. 
And ALLLLL that applies to women as well. We REALLY need to learn how to move the fuck on as well. Every relationship is NOT worth saving. Read the signs, heed the signs, make moves accordingly. If and when your ass ends up stuck and unhappy instead of trynta blame him, look in a mirror cuz you coulda moved on and didn't.  | |
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roodboi said: ok, serious answer here....
guys, if you find yourself with a woman that you simply can't please no matter what you do...move the fuck on... if you find yourself with a woman that you can't communicate with no matter how hard you try, move the fuck on... if you find yourself with a woman that doesn't accept the person that you are and is constantly trying to turn you into what she thinks you should be, move the fuck on... if you find yourself trying overly hard to maintain a happy relationship just for the sake of having a relationship, move the fuck on... if you find yourself moving the fuck on over and over again, then the problem may be you!! Ahh roodboi, the org just wouldn't be the same without you... Excellent post btw. I wholeheartedly agree...  A working class Hero is something to be ~ Lennon |
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moderatorWhatever, his post wasn't that amazing.  | |
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JustErin said: Whatever, his post wasn't that amazing.
shut it, cunt... | |
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SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: CarrieMpls said: Of course there are women like that. I don't happen to know any, though, so it's ludicrous to me when people go off like all or even most women are. Like Ivy, I speak from my experiences and tell it like it is around me. You don't have to worry, I know you're an innocent princess. I don't dispute that I'm not an innocent princess. I just don't know any women who care how much money a man has. All of my friends are of a fairly modest, middle class income and of all of my married friends, the women are in comparable careers where they likely make as much if not more than the men.
We just come from different worlds, dude. |
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CarrieMpls said: SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: Like Ivy, I speak from my experiences and tell it like it is around me. You don't have to worry, I know you're an innocent princess. I don't dispute that I'm not an innocent princess. I just don't know any women who care how much money a man has. All of my friends are of a fairly modest, middle class income and of all of my married friends, the women are in comparable careers where they likely make as much if not more than the men.
We just come from different worlds, dude. Then stop being amazed that I have different experiences  2010: Healing the Wounds of the Past.... http://prince.org/msg/8/325740 | |
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CarrieMpls said: The best advice I can give is you'll never figure out what ALL women want. Focusing on one at a time usually seems to do the trick.
No it doesn't
One at a time simply helps focus your efforts and gives one a smidgeon of a chance. But it usually doesn't do anything. :lol I have friends who are married who have no clue what their wives want, and I doubt their wives do either. What makes their marriages work, more than sex or anything like that, is respect. | |
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Imago said: . What makes their marriages work, more than sex or anything like that, is respect.
so true....more than love, admiration and all that other shit combined... | |
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roodboi said: Imago said: . What makes their marriages work, more than sex or anything like that, is respect.
so true....more than love, admiration and all that other shit combined... Yup. Thanks boo.
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Stymie said: JustErin said: This thread is hilarious. God I love you.
I was reading and thinking the same thing. The real answer is women do not know what the fuck they want and even if they did, they can't articulate it clearly. Love? Come on. Honesty? GTFOHWTB. Women can't handle honesty. They want to hear what they want to hear. Great sex? some of us don't give a damn about that. My honest heartfelt opinion is there is no clearcut answer to this because all women want different things. did you read my answer?  I thought it was a good one | |
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ZombieKitten said: Stymie said: God I love you.
I was reading and thinking the same thing. The real answer is women do not know what the fuck they want and even if they did, they can't articulate it clearly. Love? Come on. Honesty? GTFOHWTB. Women can't handle honesty. They want to hear what they want to hear. Great sex? some of us don't give a damn about that. My honest heartfelt opinion is there is no clearcut answer to this because all women want different things. did you read my answer? I thought it was a good one | |
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Stymie said: ZombieKitten said: did you read my answer? I thought it was a good one I also said all these things:
ZombieKitten said: The man I would like, would:
desire me listen to me talk to me love to have fun with me seek out my company cuddle me a lot seek my opinion  | |
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