Do you ever resent always being in the position of penetration? I'm not talking about switching it up and finger/dildo banging your boyfriend. I'm just talking regular sex. Do you ever resent never being able to be in the perceived dominant position of impaling? always being impaled?

i have penis envy.

I think more 'straight' men want it up the ass more than women want to fuck a man that way.

Are you serious?

I don't "resent" it, but I don't think my hubby realizes that particular logistic of our sexual relationship.

Penetration has fuck all to do with dominance. IMHO

sammij said:

let me build on that.

no, i don't want to penetrate any man
i think my complex is that i would like to be able to have a penis for a day
play with it and have it played with

i don't think i'd want to penetrate with it, although it may be tempting






but i'm never tired of being penetrated, i think if we had choices i'd pick penetratee over penetrator any day, it just feels good...

Imago said:

I don't necessarily mean it as penis envy. Well maybe but how do I explain it? As a gay bottom, I have the option to go either way. Impale or be impaled. I have options. Straight women only have that one thing without using props, fingers or toes.

mdiver said:

that too.

mdiver said:

That's because you're a bitch, you pampered, prissy, petunia!

mdiver said:

oh god That is why I said PERCEIVED. As a bottom I know all about controlling an MF even though he is inside me. I'm also talking about the psychology of it. A man on top and inside, never the other way around. And I'm not saying there is only missionary but it makes my point a little clearer.

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

I'm sure being a woman with the option to pretty much pick and choose who she wants to sleep with and when makes up for it.



(ok, I know some of you ladies are too ugly for that to be true, but I was just stating it in general)

Always seen it more as "he's giving himself to me" kinda thing so no. I love penetration, especially when you know he really enjoys being inside and when he goes down he loves to stay down there... it just makes me feel that what I offer, he absolutely loves! (the smell, the taste, the feel, the look) and that makes me feel sexy.

Love men and their dicks... and the fact that they love having a dick just so that they can put it in me.... that's even better.

100% no.

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

paintedlady said:

Hmmm.... see, that's why I was asking about the psychology. Never thought ot it as him giving himself. You know, men being selfish neanderthal caveman pigs and all

newpower99 said:

I.

W.

I.

S.

H.

No really, I do

Imago said:

Fuck you Dan

I guess I've never really thought about it because the possiblity of anything else (if you're not talking about switching it up and finger/dildo banging your boyfriend) just doesn't physically exist like it does for guys. You have more options!!

mdiver said:

Trying to be a butch fem will not help your cause

applekisses said:

see, I figured women probably never really thought about it.

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

I think this is a great question.

I'm old fashioned. I only bottom if I'm really really into the person or in love. Actually there is one case where I wanted to REALLY BAD, but I didn't have a condom, so NO. *cough*THEWEB*cough*

'Cause when I give up my cookie and my brownie, it's like I'm giving that person something special and they're taking it away.

Weird, I know.
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MIGUELGOMEZ said:

You have a cookie and a brownie!?!

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

Just call me Mrs. Fields.

my body is set up to receive pleasure that way. i wouldn't resent that which gives me pleasure.

I had no idea that the people posting in here were all straight women.

JustErin said:

even yourself?

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

That doesn't even make sense, dude.

JustErin said:

YOU.

POSTED.

IN.

HERE.

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

Yes, I know...but obviously *I* know that I am a straight woman.